‘sinking’

‘sinking’

‘sinking’

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5 years ago
Another Stupid Moodboard!!!! :))))
Another Stupid Moodboard!!!! :))))
Another Stupid Moodboard!!!! :))))
Another Stupid Moodboard!!!! :))))
Another Stupid Moodboard!!!! :))))
Another Stupid Moodboard!!!! :))))
Another Stupid Moodboard!!!! :))))
Another Stupid Moodboard!!!! :))))

Another stupid moodboard!!!! :))))

5 years ago

everyone else had a chance to enjoy being 17

everyone around me had a chance to enjoy life

so what did i do wrong?

5 years ago

“My priority is not about grades. I yearn for knowledge, skills and wisdom”

- Lailah Gifty Akita

4 years ago
‘self-devour’

‘self-devour’

4 years ago
𝒔𝒘𝒆𝒆𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈𝒔 ☕️
𝒔𝒘𝒆𝒆𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈𝒔 ☕️

𝒔𝒘𝒆𝒆𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈𝒔 ☕️

4 years ago

Growing up my parents taught me that if you’re too sick to [insert responsibility here] then you’re too sick to [insert something that makes you happy here].

It took me a really long time to unlearn this. When I would get sick or have a “bad day” I would deprive myself of anything that made me happy. Watching movies, eating something I enjoyed, going for a walk, playing video games or just browsing online looking at funny cat videos. I wouldn’t let myself do these things because I was always told that if I’m too sick to go to work, or do homework, or go to school then I must be too sick to play Mortal Kombat or watch Unsolved Mysteries lol.

Whenever I wouldn’t feel good, which I later learned as an adult was due to sleep deprivation caused by my ADHD and depression (and of course the depression itself would cause me to feel like shit), my parents would tell me “if you’re not throwing up, then you’re not sick.” And when I would stay home from school (or even work in my later teen years) my parents would make sure that I didn’t have any “fun.” No TV, no movies, no games, no going outside, no arts and crafts, no books, no nothing. Just lay in bed and feel miserable.

I’m happy to say that I no longer do this to myself. Now when I’m having a bad day or I’m sick (cold, flu or whatever) I allow myself to do the things (within reason lol) that I actually love doing. If I’m not too sick to step outside for a few minutes then I’ll go for a walk. I’ll watch my favorite movies and if it’s a bad day or a cold (something that doesn’t hinder my appetite too much) I’ll eat my favorite foods. I don’t guilt trip myself anymore for having a “sick day.”

Just because you’re sick (whether physically, emotionally or mentally) doesn’t mean that you can’t do things you enjoy. You’re not any less sick because you watch TV. You’re not any less sick because you’re playing video games. 

Actually you SHOULD be doing these things when you’re not feeling good because they make you feel better. The better you feel, the faster your heal. 

4 years ago
Chaos Mage, By Sergey Urlapov (Sergon), Via DeviantArt.

Chaos Mage, by Sergey Urlapov (Sergon), via DeviantArt.

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