First Of All:

First of all:

If he/she/they

Controls what you wear or acts upset when you wear what you want

Wants you to stay inside to themselves constantly

Get jealous over everyone

Cry or get mad when you have a problem and blame themself

Let you be completely dependent on them (or make it out to be that you could)

Tell you they can’t live without you

Make you feel the need to be whatever they want you to be

Make you feel like you’re walking on eggshells or should be

Cause you to cry at night because you love them so you won’t leave them but you’re confused

Cause you to feel like you’re in a cage

They. Are. Toxic.

It does not matter if they “mean to”

They are still toxic

They are still causing you pain

Your relationship is most likely codependent and/or emotionally abusive

You need to get out of that relationship

It will hurt

But as someone who has been there

It is much better to leave and cope

Than to not leave and have them leave you alone

Or to continue being emotionally abused

It’s serious

It is not “how he thinks a relationship should be”

It is not “his jealousy”

It is:

Potentially emotionally abusive

Draining

Painful

Potentially codependent

Damaging

Toxic

T o x i c

I’ve been there, did that more than once because they will manipulate you. Even if they don’t mean to.

You w o n t be able to handle it if you don’t get out.

It is unhealthy

If this sounds like your relationship

Please please please leave

Im trying to prove a point to my mum

Repost if school has caused:

Anxiety Depression Suicidal thoughts Social anxiety Eating disorders Self harm Stress

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hahahahahsofunny

7 years ago

A list of TCC blogs to unfollow, block and report if possible!

I am on mobile, and I do not own a laptop, so I cannot report these blogs. However, I have gone through a lot of posts over this last school shooting in Florida, and have found a lot of users that are very disturbing. Please make sure to block them, and REPORT them if you can!

@murdersveil

@naturalbornkxller

@t-r-a-p-d-o-o-r

@nikolascruzbby

@marizale

@but-he-sure-did-bleed-a-lot

@trippydahmer

@jigsawfrom221b

@blo0dycherie

@kain-ratajczyk

@ive-been-painting-the-roses-red

@stoned-dahmer

@thedevilsadvocatte

@twisted-noose

@emptys0ulzz

@movies-don’t-create-psychos

@bunkertorsieben

@whatdefunct

@memellicker

@columbine–images

@1000devilsreign-map

@fuckalpacas

@ghostissilent

@horrorclimax

@ericselection

@stickersavior

@shota-riot

@hellavodka

@xxxajxx

@earthgvng

@dzhojahar

@pretty-evil-ramirez

@shiniigxmi

@isak–yaki

@im-v-twisted

@morbid-deeds

@alexrxyes

@r4m

@tj-lameass

@bloodymarysmirror

@serialkillers97

I cannot possibly find every blog, but PLEASE, I encourage you to report anything that romantises, glorifies, or promotes this type of thing! Spread this so everyone is aware!

(Updated because apparently I’m too afraid to @ you lol)

Essay-writing PSA

Dear Students: as Spinster Aunt of Tumblr and sometime College Writing Instructor, I have unsolicited advice for you. Do sit down and have a cup of tea.

Writing is a learned skill.

Writing is hard.

Writing gets easier with practice.

The quality of your writing does not automatically reflect the quality of your ideas.

By the same token, a critique of your writing is not the same thing as a critique of your ideas.

(I’m putting that in bold because I think it’s very important; I have seen lots of creative, insightful ideas hidden in bland or unclear prose.)

Essay prompts are designed to help you.

Office hours are designed to help you. (If your teachers don’t have office hours, it’s probably because they cannot afford to. It’s a long, sad story.)

Time spent with your own ideas is always worthwhile.

Time spent revising your own writing is always worthwhile.

Go forth and conquer! Send your ideas out into the world! And remember: writing is a learned skill. Writing is hard. Writing gets easier with practice. Oh, and tea helps.

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hahahahahsofunny

7 years ago

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