Eltingville Brain Blast

I know this drawing of Silver isn’t too interesting, but I made it for the sole purpose of being my new discord pfp lol

(double tap for higher quality! (reblogs are also appreciated/nf)

LRLD!

The team is back as one! And now that they're less restricted and less dumb, nothing can go wrong! (Until it does)

Lucille's new friend: the phantom of the opera

Abusers have human sides to them too.

When abuse, whether real or fictional, is talked about in media, one of two things usually happens. The abuser is either completely dehumanised and painted as an evil caricature, or given a tragic backstory that makes the victim feel so sorry for their abuser they end up forgiving them.

And I think this is part of why it can be so hard to believe we ourselves are going through abuse. Because when it's you going through it, you see the human side of your abuser too. You see them cry, and laugh, and overcome adversity, and be vulnerable, and feel scared and small. You see them struggle and you see them genuinely try to spend quality time with you, and you see them show the ways they love you. Sometimes, you can even see that they mean it when they say they love you.

And because we've been taught that "actual" abusers are all bad, heartless, merciless, and lacking in humanity, and everyone else is just a suffering person who hurt others because they were hurting inside, we think what we're going through can't possibly be abuse. We think we're exaggerating, or being weak, or selfish. We punish ourselves for not being more understanding of what they're going through. We convince ourselves we're making it all up and we're the monsters in our own story.

But we're not. We're just not used to acknowledging that abusers are human, and that their humanity does not negate their abuse.

If you've ever questioned your abuse because your abuser was struggling, or genuinely loved you, or was trying their best, or expressed conflicting emotions, or was abused themselves, this post is for you. I believe you. I believe what happened to you was abuse. Their circumstances did not justify their actions.

I believe you, and you are not alone.

Reblog if you didn’t write My Immortal

We’re going to find the author by process of elimination.

Eltingpril day 14- the main four as different internet subcultures

Ik that Gyaru isn’t an internet subculture and is just a subculture, but my cousin asked a while back for me to draw Gyaru Bill and I was running out of internet subculture ideas so I included him

reblog to blow up an ableist

Even Spamtons ass can't escape the evil fly paper.

EVERYONE SHUT THE FUCK UP

IS. IS THIS THE SAME PERSON

IS MOVIE!MIKE ACTUALLY HENRY'S FUCKING KID