Sorry For Romanticising The Mundane. I Have Little Else

happy pride month to lgbt people who are really boring. we deserve love too

Thanks for the tag emiiii! @worlds-oldest-teenager is my toa account

@apollosgiftofprophecy @money-and-dandellions @newobsessioneveryweek and anyone else :D

I found a picrew with an iDKHOW T-Shirt option so I'm doing a little tag game with it. I better see y'all use the iDKHOW shirt! (/nf, just have fun with it)

(PotatoLord's Persona Creator by Potato-Lord)

(How to find the shirt under the cut)

I'm going to tag a few of my favorite iDKHOW blogs, but feel free to hop in if I didn't tag you as well!

@idiotsofoz @voluntaryvictim @vaudeville-venom @le-velo-pour-dru @roozmatazz @fadeyouout @gaycommunistcowboy @gloomboydivision @gloomdvsn @nerv0us-wr3ck

I found someone’s tumblr logged in on this computer and all I did was change the icon

The three mental illnesses are

Terminal child syndrome lol sorry you'll be infantilized forever and never get any basic respect we have the right to not treat you like an adult and make life worse for you in the name of helping, or shun you completely :)

Just stop doing that you useless cunt go the fuck outside and stop being a burden to society get the fuck up and stop having this illness. Have this list of pop psychology bullshit and get your shit together. We can still romanticize your struggle if you're hot and manage it just well enough to not be a useless cunt

Irredeemable piece of shit disorder uh sorry but your vibe is off and you should go to jail for it I fucking hate you and you deserve nothing you vile piece of human garbage you need to be avoided at all costs everyone should cut you off immediately no one should have to put up with you you manipulative asshole

all my love to mostly and fully bedbound people. i feel like we're often left out of even disability conversations and advocacy, much less the wider world. we are full, real, complex people like anyone else. we deserve love, support, connection, and the ability to live the fullest life we can under the circumstances

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A screenshot of an instagram post by salamsudduf which is also a screencap and repost by the instagram account palestinepromise. Text is as follows:

“Everyone in Gaza is disabled.

It’s not just the wounded, cancer patients, & women in childbirth. It’s the children with braces that can’t be adjusted. It’s contact wearers with no saline. It’s air strike-shattered glasses with no optometrist. It’s asthma sufferers lacking nebulizers & inhalers. It’s diabetics grappling for insulin & glucose monitors. It’s people with chronic illnesses who need regular treatment. It’s woman with endometriosis & even debilitating period cramps. It’s the deaf yearning for hearing aids. It’s people navigating their mental health with no support.”

calling every gnc cis person you see an "egg waiting to crack" even as a joke is not cool or funny at all actually it is extremely invasive and weird and you are just reinventing gender roles but making it "progressive"

Thanks for tagging me CJ @apollosothertwin @newobsessioneveryweek !!!

Favourite colour: Everything! All! All colours are beautiful

Last song I listened to: Clair de lune

Currently reading: The three body problem

Currently watching: Dungeon Meshiii and Dead boy detective

Coffee or Tea: Love both but I consume a heck of a lot of coffee.

@3xhowolves @heresronnie21 @apollosgiftofprophecy @thehaikuman +anyone else who wants to join <3

Rules: answer + tag 9 people you want to know better and/or catch up with

I got tagged by @the-oc-lass, so thank you for that!

Favourite Colour: Blue and purple, any and all shades, but I do like the darker ones!

Last Song: Best Day Of My Life by American Authors

Currently Reading: Nothing at the moment (I just got done with my last book) but I am looking to buy the Maze Runner books!

Currently Watching: The Social Dilemma on Netflix, really interesting documentary about social media in society!

Currently Craving: Hmmm onion rings

Coffee or Tea: Never been much of a fan of coffee, but I love tea! Perfect drink to get me in a writing mood!

Tags: @alchemicalwerewolf @ippyhaj @ilivelikeimtrying @j3ankimorit4 I can't think of other people to tag, but anyone else who wants can join!

I think we as a collective need to stop telling young marginalized people without friends that their isolation is self-made and will end if they start to be more outgoing when this is actually more often than not a result of being raised in small bigoted communities and poverty.

People younger than me from liberal metropolises have advised me that if I want to find other LGBTQ+, disabled and neurodivergent folks I should join a local queer space, mental health group, book club or tabletop group and then I had to explain to them how I have to work until my mid-twenties to afford moving to a place where those things exist. I live in a conservative small-town and my options for meeting new people irl are "school / work" and "parties". Which is where the bigots are.

But simultaneously we're told that isolation is inherently detrimental to our happiness, that every year spent in that state is wasted, that even when we don't feel miserable, we secretly are without realizing it. That a life without a certain amount of irl friends and social activities isn't worth living. That we must spend every waking minute trying to exit isolation. That we're wasting away. Which is bullshit.

Stop treating social isolation of marginalized teens and young adults as a sign of personal failure to be outgoing as well as a state of inevitable and constant suffering. Start treating it like the structural problem it is. Stop demonizing being alone. Start normalizing online friends as real, valuable friendships. Start normalizing the idea that times spent alone are worth living as well. Because some of us are going to be here for a while, whether we like it or not. Hand out hope, not pressure.

realizing that sticking to the "do it bad" "do it scared" mentality implies theres also a "do it bored"