Ok, but can you stop with your "if you display common sense and reasoning you are probably white and privileged" shit?
You are racist as fuck, being a victim doesn't make u a tearful doormat that only works driven by empathy and feelz
Everyone makes exceptions, that’s why the world remains the same. “Can you believe we elected a sexual predator as president?” I can, because the same people complaining, sleep next to one themselves every night. Oh I forgot, your husband’s “barely legal teen” search history doesn’t count. He’s not really dangerous, he’s still one of the good ones.
Know that almost every individual on Earth is doing the exact same thing. Excusing those closest to them, no matter how horrific and depraved. Mentally ill sex addicts are the majority on this planet because everyone serves and worships them. As long as you’re related to, or make the masses feel good, they’ll look the other way.
“Children are being exploited!” They sure are, and it’s being done by the people around you. Why should everyone else live up to a moral code you don’t uphold yourself? Weak minded selfish egomaniacs are a danger to themselves and others, so they insist there’s a thousand rules and restrictions set in place to keep things “safe.” Guess who’s left to “enforce such things? People who are no different than them, ready to bend the rules whenever they see fit.
Adults get exactly what they ask for. It’s unfortunate that children must also suffer consequences, but that’s the fault of their parents. Endorsing humanity’s abusive system is a sign of support. You co-sign with your words and actions every single day. Very few people have real reason to be upset about the state of the world, those individuals being TRULY horrified at what this place represents.
Indulging sometimes and then repenting is still acceptance. Criticizing others while condoning your own behavior is a vote to keep the status quo. Participating in the game but becoming upset when you lose is nobody else’s fault. Protecting predators is partaking in abuse. Believing otherwise creates cognitive dissonance, which adds to the collective destruction around us.
Be who you say you are.
Pregnancy is not a punishment for having sex. Yes, even unprotected sex.
Parenthood isn’t a punishment for having sex, either. Parenthood is a lifelong responsibility that should knowingly be opted into; it isn’t a penalty for having sex and getting pregnant one (1) time.
Having sex is not an immoral act. Women having sex is not an immoral act. It does not need to be punished.
the kind of people who make it an entire part of their personality that they're "kind" are always the people who do the most heinous abusive shit to you and they can never acknowledge it because to do so would go against their self conception of themselves as ontologically good people. they're always people who have like "be kind <3 just trying to make my way through the world as a little sunflower <3" as their bio or whatever and they're always the same people who will do shit like unperson someone over the most casual interpersonal conflicts. also they are almost always remarkably racist liberals.
For the love of fucking god, stop interacting with scrote trolls. Report every single one of these pointless, discord sowing Tumblr soldiers for spam, and then block them without a single word.
Do not give these vectors of degeneracy a molecule of attention or regard— they’re like Rumplestiltskin trying to upset and deceive you.
Let’s practice some quantum digital minimalism. When you block the Tumblr chuds, they cease to exist. It’s that simple.
Most men are chronically bored, petulant little boys trapped in a cursed, sub-tier, morally & intellectually defunct dimension of mind. Little to no hope for them. Let THEM worry about that, and let US move on.
Be cold + icy + indifferent to all male bad actors. Grey rock them. You are not changing his one track mind with your essay <3