"men can be misogynists while having gfs so why can't women do the same" and "sexualizing men is getting back at them" are such insidious false equivalents lol misogyny is a default for any male and they use sexualization as a tool of oppression because the system is built to oppress women. it's in their interests to keep women under the boot and their hatred for women isn't a source of cognitive dissonance in their relationships with women because they have the power in this dynamic. you claiming to be a misandrist while having a bf just proves you're a willing participant in your own subjugation and that you're all bark and no bite though
"being traumatized made me funnier!" no you just say out of pocket shit and people laugh as a stress response
The whole "if we don't fuck males they're gonna Handmaid's Tale us" argument directly contradicts "men didn't give us our rights, we fought for them". You either have the power and strength to resist males and fight for your liberation or you don't. Stop depending on the government or the arbitrary mercy of males to give you the kiddie rails you apparently need to be a free woman in society.
I see willingness to engage with conflict as one of the ultimate signs of trustworthiness.
you can’t trust someone who fawns or freezes or falls into hysterics at the slightest hint of a conflict, or who equates conflict with abuse. Their “support” only lasts up until the point where they feel their interests don’t entirely align with yours, which upon reaching they will abandon you like the cowards they are.
The older I get the more I can clearly see that pretty much most of the mothers in the west caused all their own problems themselves. If you weren't trafficked into marriage or sexual slavery as a destitute citizen of some undeveloped or even a developing country, then you have no excuse to be making the choice - and it is a choice, no one forced you do it - to partner with a man and have his children who then ends up treating you and your children like shit. I am not saying that I don't sympathise with these women, but I am saying that they are intellectually inferior and that they should be designated as such as a warning to the rest of us. I will never choose a man even over the biggest handmaiden alive, but that doesn't mean that I will close ranks with that handmaiden. I will simply cut her off and leave her to deal with the oppression of womanhood on her own. The lack of gratitide and accountability from western and westernised women especially cannot continue to be rewarded by feminists. Our foremothers did not sacrifice everything just for their pickme progeny to make the active decision to enable their own oppression at the hands of men and the state. You can complain all you want but that didn't compel the big banks to fix the economy after the Great Recession either. Men will not solve the problems that they contributed to, and I sure as hell am not going to step in on their behalf.
Nature in humans/most mammals;
Females= Must be hunted and penetrated by males, must carry all the reproductive burden, all the pain of our bodies ripping itself apart to create life, must nurture offspring, repeat.
Males= Maybe get in a scrap, hunt females and penetrate.
Why were we the ones subjected to all the suffering?
Coming to terms with the fact that we can’t change the dynamic of nature is hitting a brick wall.
The only way we will have freedom is if the power imbalance doesn’t exist, which means extinction is the only route to true freedom.
genuinely one of the most annoying things is when you criticize religion and someone has to come in like umm 🥺🥺 but the text has been altered over time through faulty translation 🥺🥺 if you look at this one rare version of the text from several hundred years ago as practiced in one town maybe from a certain angle while hanging upside down you can see that my god didn’t MEAN for all of this misogyny and rape and slavery and conquering and cruelty to happen in his name 🥺🥺 or maybe even her name or their name 🥺🥺 if we all returned to the TRUE version of the faith you’d see that it was good all along 🥺🥺 like girl ! i do not believe in your god. he cannot be misinterpreted because he is not real and has not spoken. the church is an institution which is made up of people! it preaches certain values and arranges certain orders and has an obscene level of influence in our supposedly secular government, and all of these things are carried out by people with agendas who have the arrogance to believe they are imbued with divine authority. a religion is precisely what it is in practice and nothing more or less!