I LOVE rainy nights, i go to sleep with a lot of peace 🌧️🌙

I looove black cats!!! 🐈⬛ They're so cuteeee and funny! 🖤
cool things i've been up to!
i've been sewing a lot!
so far, I've made, a tote bag (so, so cute, but I gotta wash it so the marking chalk washes off) and I'm currently working on a makeup pouch! I want to make cute summer tops and scandi shorts and pants, basically my whole wardrobe!
i started my sourdough starter
literally this sunday but, at first she died :( because I forgot I live in tropical weather and fed her as if I was in England or something
BUT then I found a different guide and I'm following it and she's thriving, I can't wait to make foccaccia!
i'm rewatching friends
honestly I love it but also rewatching i'm like guys, that is unhealthy lol, such a funny show but i can see it was the 90s (the fits are on point tho)
i'm daydreaming about my future home
i want a white house, with blue shutters...
no just kidding, but I do want a classical house in the countryside with a big garden and to have my own homestead with chickens and cats and carrots and a ton of natural light from the windows and a crafting studio for me
I'm trad-curious like, I want that nature connected life, not the 1950's mindset crap
things I wanna do!
i want to start a garden!
i still don't really know how my living situation will be because of my first year of college yet, but as soon as I do, I want to start a little vegetable garden, i want to hone my homesteading skills
i want to learn to knit
I spent over $60 on YARN, and I haven't used it! tbh it's cause the sound of yarn like existing makes my sensory issues go die but aaaaa I wanna make sweaters, honestly w my headphones on it should be fine but, I just love sewing rn!
i want to exercise again
guys the senior slump is real, like I'm blogging in school rn, and it's like I go to school and since i don't work nor rest I get home drained and feeling unaccomplished :( honestly i want to get my life together but school is such a roadblock! I can't wait for college to have calculus and physics and chem all day long, so that I can come home to my books and my sewing and my gym yk? anyways, I have access to the gym on my street now, and since summer is back, we can use the a.c, so, it's an easy way to get back in it
i want to take better care of my body
in disordered eating recovery, i think that exercise and nutrition wise (at least my relationship w both), i've got it covered, but i've been biting my nails again, and i don't like it, but i can't seem to stop, i just gotta break the inertia of it, if i get up and do my nails, i wont bite them
i think that's it, i lololoooove yapping, so expect these kinds of posts from me!
xoxo,
sofi
practice, practice and practice. Practice your ideal self privately so that publicly you don’t fumble or feel awkward. Practice the way your ideal self walks, talks, lives, eats, everything even when you’re alone. Over time, your body will get so used to it that it will come to you naturally.
random diary entry 📖
woke up to sunny skies and breeze today, along with a major headache. not everything can be nice all the time. at least I have a coffee in hand and a book in mind. 🌷
exploring cute little new cafés with friends and rating the drinks and treats
rereading your favourite books outside in the sun
cleaning your room and suddenly feeling like a new person
long walks with no destination
staying out longer because it finally stays bright past 6pm
admiring wildflowers on the side of the road
fruit starting to taste like fruit again
spring rain—and the air right after
overhearing someone say “it actually smells like spring”
cafés putting tables outside again
taking more photos because everything looks so pretty and alive
sunlight through the curtains in the morning
actually being in the mood to make plans
finding new perfumes or body sprays that feel seasonal
the first picnic of the year
shopping for new closet staples
listening to old summer playlists and pretending it’s July already
sitting on a bench alone with headphones and people-watching
the collective seasonal delusion that we’re all going to fall in love now
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Dollies Summer Glow up: Reseting! 🎀☀️
While Overturning this new chapter it’s only right thats i start with a LONG OVERDUE Reset Day to not only clear my head but also not have alot on my mind! 👛
⭐️; Physical Reset
Face Mask
At home manicure
Foot Soak
Everything Shower
Hair Masque
Meditation
Lip Scrub
Deep Conditioning!
🛍️- Environmental Reset;
Clean my Bedding
Throw away anything i don’t need
Clean My Room
Light a Candle or Burn some Incense
Clean my Pillows
Re-Arrange Things
🐬 - Digital Reset:
Clear Some of my Camera Roll
Delete Un Used apps
Clean up my Phone Theme
Delete Old Contacts
TTYL - Love,Dolly ! 🎀⭐️
Things To Do Before 2025🪩🦢🍾
Hey cutiesss!! Hope you all are having a wonderful holiday season! Here are a few things to do in the weekend before the new year to level up and start 2025 on the right foot!
Vision board
Digital or physical spend some time placing pictures from Pinterest that you want to represent your year of progress.
Deep clean your space
Starting fresh and clean with new organization and systems.
Go through your closet
Get rid of anything that doesn’t fit you or doesn’t suit your style.
Set up your planner and calendar
Make sure all important dates are on there and that you have a full calendar of fun activities come January.
Clear out your emails
Go through and make sure you have all your work done for 2024 and that you don’t take any into the new year.
Clear out your social media
Go through who you follow and unfollow anyone that no longer serves you in a positive light. Don’t follow anyone that makes you feel bad about anything.
Write goals
Write out attainable goals for the new year and the steps you must take to reach them.
Write out your habits and how you want them to change
I do this by going through my day and writing down my routine also by looking at my screen time to see what I do and when. Then I can understand how I spend my time and how I can use it more efficiently. Also adding habits that will help you reach your goals is the best way to achieve them.
Hope this helps! I hope you guys have a very very happy new year!
🍾🦢🪩🤍xoxo
drink water
this is an absolute game-changer ! bonus if its warm or room temperature, really gets the metabolism going as well as soothes your throat !!
make your bed
this makes my room look MUCH neater, and gives me peace of mind + incentive not to get back under the covers and doze off again TT
meditation
another thing that calms me down greatly and gets me focused and set for the day, i really recommend lavendaire, her meditations are top-tier and she has several lengths to pick from
morning yoga
debloat yoga or stretching is a must for me, it helps aid my digestion as well as reduce bloating in the morning.
exercise
i like to do either shirlyn kim, april han, chloe ting or momomi workouts in the morning ending with a hinafit's full body stretch that's twenty minutes long. i use chloe ting's workouts as cardio mostly and then a set of targeted hiit from momomi and relaxing pilates from shirlyn kim and april han.
i am also trying to go on walks in the morning as well TT
skincare + dental care
my skincare routine in the morning is cleanser + toner + hydrogel + sunscreen + matte sunstick + lip balm and my dental care routine is herbal toothpaste + fluoride toothpaste + mouthwash. i wash my hands between and before/after steps.
shower routine
i use a pumice stone and sugar scrub in the shower to exfoliate along w baby soap and shower gel to clean up. i apply three layers of moisturizer + coconut oil on getting out !!
reading
in the mornings, i like to either annotate classics or read my weekly self-help book or just read educational nonfiction and take notes in my commonplace journal about them.
journalling
i fill out five affirmations, five things i'm grateful for as well as my intentions for the day. i also write down what would make my day great, as well as habits to focus on (at least three)
planning
i plan w/ my planners, notebook and wall calendar spread as well as notion and a habit app, as well as google sheets.
that wraps up this post, and here is the printable checklist spanning four days