Rip To People Who Love Their Interests A Normal Amount But I’m Different, Intense, And Annoying :)

Please don't have kids if you are not mentally, physically, financially ready to have them.

I actually am not very fond of this HUMAN RACE...music, dance, animals, games, movies are so much better!!!!

Dismantling the Lies of Abusive Parents Masterlist

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Giving you food and clothing is the bare minimum

You don’t owe gratitude for food and clothes you needed as a child

You had the right for basic resources

Parents shaming you for costing money is ironic and stupid

What it means when they say ‘This is MY house’

My house = my rules is blackmail

Children don’t owe absolute obedience for being fed and sheltered

Physical abuse

You are allowed to refuse any touch, not only violence

If they ‘don’t know they’re hurting you’, why do they ignore or punish you when you protest?

Hitting children is irrational and doesn’t work

You cannot ‘provoke’ your parents to abuse you if they’re not abusive

Why do parents actually hit, manipulate and traumatize children

Blatant Lies

Care, nurture and affection do not make you weak

They’re lying when they say it ‘wasn’t that bad’‘

You wouldn’t have grown up spoiled if not for abuse

You got too affected by it’ is a lie

Your parents are not ‘just too emotionally immature’ to understand abuse

‘You’re not living in the real world!’ is nonsense

You’re not worthless, a burden, ungrateful, or stupid, and your parents know that.

Constant undermining of your accomplishments is abuse

Not being allowed to talk about the past is symptom of abuse

Parents who want you to be happy vs look happy

You are not abusive for resisting abuse

When they claim ‘they didn’t mean it’, it’s still abuse

Your parents are responsible for their own actions regardless of how badly they try to shift blame on you

Psychological abuse

Blind Obedience is not required in a healthy upbringing

Disgust is a weapon abusive parents use on their kids

If they say they love you, but walk all over your feelings, they don’t 

Parents don’t have the right to enter your room to scream at you

Parents insisting for you to be ‘tough’ are doing it to hide the trauma

Even if a kid acts like ‘they can take it’, it’s still abuse

Pretending abuse is discipline will leave children permanently scarred

It’s inhumane to control and shame children’s reactions to abuse

Why don’t you already know this? vs Teaching you necessary skills

Acting like they’ll change is escape sabotage

Parents are responsible for protecting children from harm

References to how healthy parenting looks like

Not being allowed to be angry with your parents is psychological abuse

If parents want you to act way you did when you were little, they’re dangerous

Threats about how hard your life will be later on, are bad for you

Lack of continuity and ever-changing rules will cause anxiety

Forced obedience will lead you to abusive relationships

Parents acting like you’re a ‘bad’ is a shame tactic to control you

There’s healthy and abusive ways to give children chores

Revisioning the past and insisting you remember it wrong is gaslighting

If your parents make you suicidal, they’re abusive

Parents threatening ‘they could be worse’ is abuse

Always assuming the worst intentions for your actions is wrong

Keeping children hostage in abuse is torture

If this hits home, also read Recognizing Abuse Masterlist

Oh my god! I so wanna visit there.

Kitab Khana, Mumbai | went to an actual bookstore after ages and had the best time sifting through pages; they also gave a tote bag with the books

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I simply can't relax. My mind is like a brook, always running, always seeking, always murmuring.

— Kahlil Gibran, in a letter to Mary Haskell, from Beloved Prophet: The Love Letters of Kahlil Gibran and Mary Haskell, and her private journal

It's good to be in oblivion sometimes, but just sometimes, especially when life hits u really hard. But, it takes you far far away from the reality. And no problem can be permanently solved with closed eyes..So, ifs better to not make anything a habit..And just lean on to it when u can't do without it.

I've learned that I still have a lot to learn.

— Maya Angelou

“I’m not fascinated by people who smile all the time. What I find interesting is the way people look when they are lost in thought, when their face becomes angry or serious, when they bite their lip, the way they glance, the way they look down when they walk, when they are alone and smoking a cigarette, when they smirk, the way they half smile, the way they try and hold back tears, the way when their face says they want to say something but can’t, the way they look at someone they want or love… I love the way people look when they do these things. It’s… beautiful.”

— Clemence Poésy (via thoughtkick)

EXPLORE, EXPAND, EVOLVE!

Why can't u just stop and give me some space?? Why do you always make me feel as if I am a burden on you? Why does nobody understand me? Why does nobody cares? Why am I a mess? I'm not even allowed to die!!!! WHHHYYYYY??? Please kill me!! Please kill me!!!! I can't even have people in my life.....For the first time in my life, I had started feeling nice..I had started feeling valued and loved...even that got snatched away...WHHHYYYYYY....why can't I just die....I want some peace....plzzzzzz