Narcissists like to deflect their own flaws and make others feel like shit. I am a well educated, successful financial independent female always trying to be there and help out at home. So frustrating dealing with this! 😑
It's really suffocating, it's not very postive and good...but it's somewhere peaceful. When you know you could have done better, but u also know u couldn't have actually done better..U know u gave your best. And u know what is best for you. But still this world time and again makes you realize that you efforts were not just enough! That 'in comparision' to others ,u performed less. Yes, it's somewhere true too. In order to survive in this world, u need to work like anything! But again, U KNOW WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU AND YOU KNOW YOU GAVE YOUR BEST! ISN'T THAT ENOUGH?
“You know, everybody dies. My parents died. Your father died. Everybody dies. I’m going to die too. So will you. The thing is, to have a life before we die. It can be a real adventure having a life.”
— John Irving, The World According to Garp
-William Wordsworth
The world is kinder than it seems from the view of your abusive relationships.
I know it doesn't seem like it. It seems scary, and stressful, and unfair, and terrifying beyond belief. Maybe you were fed lies about what the world is like - abusers can go above and beyond to keep you depended on them, to keep you afraid. Maybe you were hurt, badly, by malice or by negligence of the masses.
But remember that the world is also large. And even if your family, school, work or hometown is cruel, there's kindness elsewhere. There are people who will listen. There are people who will believe and who will do their best to help.
You might not be ready to trust the world, to give some kindness to it, and that okay. Understandable, even. But.. I want you to remember that kindness and happiness do exist, and you'll sure as hell find yours.
You aren't strong if you don't feel pain. It's a sign of weakness.
For the first time in my life, I have started to blame it on my fate.. because I don't know where am i going wrong now?
If at first you don’t succeed, fix your ponytail and start again.
Unknown (via thoughtkick)
“What-ifs and could-have-beens were not the way to move forward. She knew that from experience.”
— Judi Fennell, In Over Her Head
I’m disappointed. I’m done. Thank you to my parents for doing the bare minimum required by law. In all seriousness, I hope they just go fuck themselves. I fucking despite them.
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