I'm still so fascinated by Everyone is You Pushed Out. So, I want to talk about it more. It deserves another post.
What do you keep expecting from others?
I keep noticing that this is something I trip up on. When you've had certain expectations of people or of a certain person for a long period of time, it can feel difficult to think that they can change. For example, my boyfriend is known for being really shy. So, every time I see him, I don't expect him to talk my ear off or open up much about things going on in his personal life. I've only ever seen the version of him in my 3D that's more reserved, so that's what I expect every time.
Additionally, with people you don't know, it can either feel really easy or really challenging to change your expectations of them. Let's say you always expect bad things from the US president (not trying to get political, this is just a good example). Then, you'll keep hearing the bad things he's doing every time you turn on the news or talk to friends who feel worried, too. But, of course, this seems like a very big expectation to change, especially since he is someone who's well-known and highly valued by a lot of people, so please don't put yourself down for having negative expectations.
But, considering everyone reflects us in some way, it is very much possible to change our expectations of someone else, which will then change how they are. Having negative expectations or ones that won't benefit our circumstances/situation can make manifesting someone feel more challenging. With that being said, we have to figure out how we can change those expectations when we want to turn a situation around.
How good self concept can help change others
What things do you value in yourself or in others? Do you know? It's really good to have an idea of what qualities you value in yourself and what ones you'd like to see in others. Understanding that and affirming what you want to see is what will help change your own mindset as well as how others act.
This is why one of the methods that's encouraged for romantic SPs is coming up with a list of qualities and traits you want to see in them. Having a well-drawn up, organized list of qualities is what gives us a clear idea of what we're looking for and can make it super easy to manifest someone. This can also be done for anyone in your life. Like, what qualities make someone a good boss? What qualities make someone a good friend?
When you better your self concept, you'll change who you interact with, too. Speaking from my own experience, when I realized I don't need to complain and seek validation from others, I didn't want that quality in my best friend. My (now ex) best friend was that exact type of person because they reflected me. But now they're out of my life because I realized I don't like that quality about myself and stopped giving that person the validation they were expecting from me.
Yes, I know I said in my first post that you don't need good self concept to change others. I still stand by that. It is not needed. But, it can help when you do. Having a clearer idea of what you value and what you love about yourself can create better expectations of and experiences with others.
Focus on having good expectations, not negative ones
Going back to what I said in my last section, keep the good qualities in mind, not the bad ones. I'll give an example. After dealing with some bad past relationships with men, you might expect that "all (or most) men are bad." You'll hear a lot of people say it, too. Then, whenever a new crush comes into your life, there will be at least one bad quality in him that creates a poor relationship or makes you lose romantic feelings for him.
This is when you should view your life as if it's an algorithm (because it pretty much is). If you perceive yourself as someone who's single and thinks badly of men, then you will keep having undesirable men flirt with you and keep hearing other single women talk about how bad men are. It's like when you're scrolling through TikTok and "like" the videos of women ranting about their bad dates with men. TikTok processes that this is the type of content you enjoy watching and will keep showing you more videos of women talking about their horrible dates. Life itself works the very same way.
Imagine your subconscious as TikTok or YouTube. What you like and what you feed it (what you keep watching and favoriting/liking) is what it'll keep producing into your reality. You see where I'm coming from?
Savage lmfao
My favorite subs + results from them Part I
Change past grades by Zoe's elixir cafe (reupload) = the results were the one I mentioned on my other post, literally changed my whole answers and paper, I got perfect scores and answers on it.
Smell like a whole ass bakery by cupid's radio = literally everyone I know loves my smell nowadays, I smell sweet af without even using perfumes, and I rarely smell bad.
Im Nayeon's bunny smile by Mastani = YALLLLL the amount of people now saying I remind them of nayeon is insane, I love her bunny smile sm and i have em now, still got it after years.
Blurred skin by Chel = oh my god it's one my FUCKING FAVESSSSSS UGH, the way it clears my face up in a couple of hours is insane, I adore it sm oml.
Red under eyes by NuoNuo = do I even have to explain ✋🏻, I love having tired beauty, so this is my go to, adore it sm.
R.A.S reprogramming by Carlyshifts111 = recent but I adore it sm, it's so calming and sometimes it's not even for shifting but I find myself always being patient with my results when I listen to it, so good.
Everyone's obsession by Mii (reupload) = holy fuck guys I'm not joking, be aware of this one bc it's FUCKING powerful oml, listened to it twice before going to a restaurant for fun shits and I already had two guys around my age literally staring and one of them even pulled his chair up closer next to our table to talk with me 💀 the whole day I was getting attention from males and females.
But please remember, at the end of the day subs are just a tool to make manifesting fun, but either way easy for me to lay back and assume I have everything by one listen yk? GOOD LUCK
“Woman does not emerge from a man’s rib’s, not ever, it’s he who emerges from her womb.”
-Nizar Qabbani
One of the greatest lies of patriarchy is claiming framing the father as the lifegiver
“X celebrity is the most beautiful woman in the world etc etc.” Uh no it’s my mom and also a random girl i saw while i was at work once
Whats your D9 Ascendant nakshatra? 🔮
Ive been researching Navamsa a lot lately.. it’s so enlightening 👁️ my D9 Asc is Ashwini 🐎♈️
MY FAV QUOTES. — 𝐹rom loablr
❝ the moment you accept something as true in your reality it’s true. the moment you change your mind and accept the unfavourable version, that’s your reality. no matter what the 3d is showing it’s true, if you say so — you are the operant in power, the creator. ❞ — @doemanifests
❝ if you want proof before belief, you’ll wait forever. if you believe first, proof will chase you. ❞
❝ the only thing standing between you and everything you want is the way you react to its absence. the hand-wringing, the despair, the creeping doubt, it’s a full-time job, and it pays in absolutely nothing. ❞
❝ do you check every morning to make sure you still exist? do you investigate gravity before stepping out the door? no. you assume. and in assuming, you make it real. ❞ — @hrrtshape
❝ y’all need to start being nonchalant and calm when manifesting. just decide something and move on. it’s done. not "on its way" it's done. you have it. you came, decided, and it's done. your mind and the world is not separate from you. "but the 3D-" no, "but why isn-" no. it’s done, relax. ❞
❝ you’ve spent enough time wishing, hoping, and consuming. it’s time to take responsibility for your life. stop sabotaging your own greatness with distractions. you have everything you need to succeed: your imagination, your awareness, and your decisions. that’s it. that’s the law. ❞ — @whiteobsidian
❝ can't believe you guys still listen to people who say you are lazy when it comes to manifesting. how tf can you put in work towards something that's already done? ughh in 2025 really???? ❞ — @itsrlymine
❝ your logical mind? it’s a product of conditioning, fear, and societal programming that taught you to “be realistic” and “follow the rules”. but guess what? the rules don’t apply to you anymore. you’re in a whole different league now. ❞ — @nymphaura777
❝ „what’s your shifting motivation?” nothing, i don’t have any motivation because i don’t see it as something i need motivation for. i don’t have motivation to wake up in the morning, i just do. i don’t have motivation to breathe, i just do. i don’t have motivation to shift - i just do. ❞ — @nikashifts
How to Always get what you want.
its really simple but the only way literal way to get what you want is just to decide you have it now. not later, not soon, not in months but simply NOW. i know you get tired of hearing bloggers say “decide decide decide” well that’s because that’s literally what you have to do. thats how you win, they don’t say robotically affirm until your brains fried, you literally don’t have to do anything but decide. it took me a lot to actually apply the loa which is hilarious because i always thought there was something more to be discovered WHICH THERE ISN’T. i think most of you think that law of assumption is about changing the 3D when it is not because you know and understand that you’re not trying to get and change the 3D, thats not your job. your only job is to know you have it in imagination (4D) and thats literally it. stop trying to meet in the middle with the 3D, stop trying to GET something in the 3D. you understand that manifesting is not a progress right? once you decide to have something and accept it in IMAGINATION. you immediately have it, don’t contradict it, don’t think against it just know and accept you have it in your imagination. i cannot stress this enough because it took me forever to drill it in my brain but do not look for evidence in the 3D. its always neutral and dead, you do not look to the 3D for validation, the 3D looks at YOU for validation. thats like saying you want to change a mirror because its not showing you what you like, you don’t change a mirror you change self. mirrors reflect what you show it. i also hate when people are trying to say the 3D is your enemy it is NOT YOUR ENEMY. why would you make yourself your own enemy that makes no sense? all you have to do is acknowledge that its okay to not have it in the 3D and the fact that you have it in the 4D. no more trying to change the 3D. the 3D is a reflection of your 4D everything you say to yourself in imagination will be reflected. now i’m not saying doubts, intrusive, invasive, negative thoughts will manifest (unless you assume otherwise) i’m just saying reality is bending to your thoughts so whatever YOU want to happen or consistently place your awareness on WILL happen. this is just my belief but i personally don’t believe “feeling” is key. i think the key is just to know i already have it and move on with my life. yeah i’ll affirm for like 1 minute just to remind myself but other than that i don’t obsess over something i already have. i don’t panic, i don’t say “what if it doesn’t come” no. trust yourself. reality is always listening to you, this is why i became so successful in inducing the void, manifesting, getting what i want in less than one day because i simply decide and move on with life.
remember you’re not trying to convince yourself that you have your desires. you’re understanding that they’re yours now. nothing cannot take that away from you, once you decide you have something you have it now, please reread that phrase and understand what that means, literally embrace lazy manifesting, (credits to @/itsrlymine since i saw that on her blog). you literally don’t have to lift a finger after you decide you have something in imagination, because in imagination you’re not limited to anything, you always experience everything instantly in imagination and imagination is the true reality, it creates everything. so be bold and dare to assume, there’s nothing too big or too small. trust yourself and take that leap of faith. trust the unseen, trust theres always movement, i believe in you. don’t wait until 2030 for things to finally click for you because we’re getting closer to 2030. dont get left behind.
you get what you want when you decide you have it now.
A lot of people talking about mars nakshatra but one thing about them is they care too much. LIKE TOO MUCH about everything and anything they human or humanly possible, which gets made fun of or dogged at but it’s truly a wonderful and good thing. Shows we are alive. They will literally cry with, for you and because of you. They are not as conniving naturally but are smart thru self preservation. Underneath all the battle warrior is a very soft sensitive being. They don't know how to but would benefit from emotional contention, from others. They really look for connection but don’t really know how, its kind of rowdy messy or all over. They are more (probably) emotional than moon nakshtaras
swear to God that i get accused and harassed just for caring and being passionate about people places and things. Like if you are about the truth your enemy #1.
They deal with alot mental health issues, well i notice alot of other nakshtaras do. But they want to be loved and notice/taken into account because they really do feel and experience life lowly until they rise. They get very immersed in Maya and their senses. They can’t be detached like Saturn, Sun or Ketu or attached for benefit like Venus, Moon, Mercury or Rahu. They kind of just attached because they can or feel the need to. They may not be as ”giving” but thats why they benefit from relationships with Jupiter or Venus (if Venus wants to) where they kind of learn from, Sun too maybe.
Literally me:
journaling, y’all, JOURNALING.
i’ll never shut up about it, i can literally feel my mindset shifting for the better, day by day.
when ppl said to write your goals (affirmations & desires) down on paper, they weren’t kidding, ‘cause why is my mindset changing for the better so rapidly??
my mindset, thinking and emotional state is excelling, and it’s only been a week.