Why Is Time Not Real? In What Sense Is It Not Real? And Why Does That Make A Difference In Our Affirmation?

Magha represents leaving the Mother / home in order to grow into an individual adult and establish one’s own life & legacy.

Dhanishta is dancing to the victory & wisdom gained through defeating the illusions of the material world; the same illusions which our Mother tried to keep us “safe” from to the point of restricting us from the outside world.

No wonder Magha & Dhanishta is such a powerful combo. The beginning of Leo & end of Aquarius.

journaling, y’all, JOURNALING.

i’ll never shut up about it, i can literally feel my mindset shifting for the better, day by day.

when ppl said to write your goals (affirmations & desires) down on paper, they weren’t kidding, ‘cause why is my mindset changing for the better so rapidly??

my mindset, thinking and emotional state is excelling, and it’s only been a week.

How to Strengthen Your Subconscious Belief

Forget force. Forget effort. Forget the clenched fists, the whispered affirmations, the desperate grasping for something that already belongs to you. The subconscious does not respond to struggle—it responds to certainty, to familiarity, to the things you take for granted as truth.

And here’s what you need to understand: your subconscious is not judging. It is not skeptical. It is not sitting there, arms crossed, waiting for a PowerPoint presentation on why shifting is real. It is a mirror. It does not care what you tell it—it only reflects what you assume. It takes your passing thoughts, your fleeting assumptions, and treats them as reality because, to your subconscious, there is no such thing as “pretend.” There is only what is repeated, what is expected, what is known.

So the question is not how do I make my subconscious believe in shifting? The question is how do I make shifting something my subconscious assumes to be normal?

And the answer? You make it part of your world. You carve it into the walls of your reality until it is so ingrained, so natural, so utterly unremarkable that your subconscious stops questioning it.

i , Stop Making It Special

Belief does not bloom under pressure. If you treat shifting like some grand, unattainable miracle, your subconscious will follow suit. If you treat it like a rare event, something that only happens after you “earn it,” it will remain out of reach.

You don’t doubt that the sun will rise tomorrow. You don’t doubt that gravity will keep your feet on the ground. You don’t need to “convince” yourself of these things because they are part of your world. That is the level of belief you need to cultivate.

So stop making shifting the peak of the mountain. Stop treating it like something you have to fight for. Make it as mundane as brushing your teeth, as ordinary as blinking. Assume it. Expect it. Shrug at it. "Of course, I can shift. Why wouldn’t I?"

Because when something is ordinary, your subconscious does not resist it.

ii , Blur the Lines Between Here and There

Your subconscious cannot tell the difference between real and imagined. If you feed it an idea often enough, in enough detail, with enough certainty, it stops being an idea and starts being a truth.

So immerse yourself. Live as if shifting is already a regular part of your existence.

Talk about shifting like it’s past tense. Not "I hope I can shift," but "I remember shifting last time, it was so easy."

Write journal entries from your DR self. Not "I want to be there," but "Today, I woke up in my DR and had breakfast with [character]."

Use sensory details. Smell the air in your DR. Feel the texture of your sheets. Hear the distant hum of life around you. Make it vivid. Make it real.

Catch yourself when you doubt. Every time you think "I don’t know if I can shift," immediately replace it with "That’s ridiculous, of course, I can shift."

Play pretend like a method actor. Slip into the mindset of someone who has already shifted a hundred times. What do they think? How do they act? Become that person.

Because the more real you make shifting in your waking life, the more your subconscious will accept it as just another part of your world.

iii , Abandon Proof, Trust the Feeling

Your subconscious does not work in logic. It works in feelings, in impressions, in what is known rather than what is proven.

You do not wake up every morning and check to see if gravity is still working. You do not demand scientific proof that your reflection will appear in the mirror. You simply know.

That is how you must approach shifting. Not as something to be questioned, not as something to be proven, but as something that simply is.

Stop waiting for evidence. If you keep looking for proof, you are telling your subconscious that there is something to prove. You are telling it that shifting is uncertain. Instead, treat it as inevitable.

Lean into knowing. Certainty is a feeling, not a thought. It is the quiet, unshakable confidence of someone who no longer needs to ask. Step into that mindset.

iv , Cut the Ties to the Old You

The person who doubts shifting? The person who hesitates, who second-guesses, who overanalyzes? That is an old version of you. That is a version of you who still saw the door as locked.

You are not that person anymore.

You are the version of you that knows shifting is real. That has already shifted. That does not need to force belief because belief is woven into their bones.

And when doubt creeps in—do not fight it. Do not push against it. Simply step aside and say, That’s not me anymore.

Because in the end, strengthening your subconscious belief is not about convincing yourself. It is about stepping into the version of you who never needed convincing in the first place.

And when you do that?

Shifting is no longer something you are trying to achieve.

It is simply something you do.

Just a speculation: if, one of the things that sun represents is energy and vitality in astrology, can that mean that what ever house the sun is placed in, the themes related to that house energises you or brings you vitality? For example: Sun in the 2nd house might feel energised when they have a stable and secure flow of money, quality time with family, trying out new food and being clear on your values or priorities.

what the fuck

girl BREAK FREE FROM YOUR HUSBAND ENTIRELY

DIVORCE

Should I wear all black or all black today

nothing in this world should matter more than your well-being. you should be your top priority ‘cause everything and everyone is you anyway. don’t be anxious or worried. you won’t lose them if you focus on yourself. in fact, the more you focus on yourself, the more they will focus on you. the world will treat you how you treat yourself not how you treat others. we’ve been taught that we receive what we give and if that’s the case, why do so many selfless people get horrible treatment in return ? why do loyal people get cheated on ? you could give someone the world and they would still leave, betray, or abandon you. yet, people who are selfish and only care about themselves more often than not end up with individuals who give them everything they want. who treat them like royalty. who worship the ground they walk on even if they give them absolutely nothing in return. both cases are hurtful so i’m not encouraging either, but they are proof that it all has to do with you. it has to do with how you view yourself, what you think you deserve, your priorities, and your self concept. energy flows where attention goes, right ? the more you focus on yourself, the more the energy/attention will flow and be on you because you are the center of everything. once you fully grasp and believe that, you’ll never suffer from the fear of loss or be scared of anything. you’re the operant power in your reality and whatever you choose to experience has no choice but to present itself in your reality. it has no choice but to exist in your reality. be it “good” or “bad.” so, it’s your choice. are you going to let the fear of losing them control you and strip away your power or acknowledge that you’re the operant power and that loss isn’t something you experience and stop identifying with it ?

Parveen Shakir is the finest poetess in the history of urdu literature:

“ye dukh nahi ke andheron se sulah ki humne, malal yeh hai ke ab subha ki talab bhi nahi.”

"I assumed and nothing happened"..

⊹ ࣪ ˖ baby...sit, let me try to help.

WHAT THIS POST COVERS:

why you "assumed" and it "didn't work"

how you actually assume

what if your brain is overactive and "forcing you to check the 3d"? how to "fix" it

1. The Frustration of “I Assumed, But It’s Still Not Happening”

There it is. The frustration. The doubt creeping in, the whispered thought: But I did everything right. I assumed. I believed. And yet… nothing has changed.

You check the mirror—same face. You check your messages—no new texts from them. You check your reality—still the same, still ordinary, still not what you asked for.

And now, you’re wondering: Did I do something wrong? Did I mess it up? Is this all just fake, some elaborate trick I convinced myself of?

No, darling. You didn’t mess it up. But you are making one critical mistake:

You Never Actually Assumed. You Just Wished.

Let’s be honest with ourselves for a second. Did you assume… or did you hope? Did you decide it was yours… or did you wait to see proof before believing? Did you step into the mindset of someone who already has it… or did you just try to convince yourself for a few days and then panic when nothing changed?

Because here’s the thing—real assumption doesn’t waver.

It doesn’t wake up every morning checking for evidence like a nervous stock investor. It doesn’t crumble the second the 3D doesn’t instantly reflect back its desires. It doesn’t treat the unseen like it isn’t real.

If you planted a seed today, would you dig it up tomorrow to check if it’s growing? No. If you booked a flight for next week, would you panic every day, thinking, "What if the plane doesn’t exist?" No.

So why, when it comes to manifesting, do you refuse to trust?

2. What Real Assumption Actually Is

You don’t assume to “make” something happen. You assume because it’s already a fact.

Assumption is not:

A technique.

A method.

A way to “convince” reality to change.

Assumption is reality.

You aren’t trying to “believe” in something far away. You are stepping into what is already yours.

3. Step-by-Step Breakdown of How to Assume Properly

Step 1: Stop Trying to Control the 3D. The biggest mistake? You are still a slave to your senses.

You look for movement. You check your phone. You stare at your bank account. You analyze every little thing for signs that your manifestation is “working.”

And the second you don’t see proof? Doubt. Panic. Desperation.

Let me tell you something: The 3D is old news. What you see right now? It’s a reflection of your old thoughts, not your current assumptions.

Think of it like this: When you order something online, do you sit there anxiously refreshing the tracking page every five seconds? Do you assume it got lost in the mail just because it hasn’t arrived in an hour? No. You trust it’s coming.

Your manifestation works the same way.

You assume, and then you let go of the need to check.

Step 2: Become the Version of You That Already Has It. This is where most people mess up.

They say “I am rich,” but still panic when they check their bank balance. They say “I have shifted,” but still search for reality checks to confirm it. They say “I am loved,” but still stalk their SP’s social media, waiting for a sign.

So let me ask you: If you really had your desire right now, how would you act?

Would you be stressed about shifting if you had already shifted 100 times? Would you doubt your SP’s love if you were already together? Would you panic over money if you were already wealthy?

No. You would be calm. Certain. Done.

So do that now. Be that person now.

Stop acting like the version of you that doesn’t have it. Stop reacting to the 3D as if it holds any power over you. Stop feeding the version of you that still doubts.

Step 3: Make Your Assumption So Normal That You Forget You Even Wanted It. This is the part nobody talks about: Detachment is not forcing yourself to “let go.” Detachment is when you assume so deeply that you forget it was even something you desired in the first place.

Think about it:

Do you wake up every morning manifesting air to breathe? No, because you assume it’s always there. Do you worry about whether the sun will rise? No, because it’s just a fact of reality.

When you truly assume something, it becomes boring. You stop thinking about it constantly. You stop obsessing over when it will happen. You stop treating it like some miraculous event.

It just is. And when you reach that point? It manifests instantly.

4. Addressing the Persistent Doubters

Now, let’s talk about the people who are still unsure. Who feel stuck, who are thinking: "But what if it’s not working?"

Here’s the truth: If you’re still checking the 3D, you’re not fully assuming.

But Leonora I’m anxious! I can’t stop checking, it’s driving me mad! You’re not alone, and it’s okay. Let’s break it down, because we’re going to handle that right now.

Redirect Your Anxious Thoughts

Some of you can’t just stop overthinking. You try to suppress the thoughts, and they come back louder. So what do you do? You redirect them. Accept that anxiety is just an old habit.

Your brain has spent years, maybe even your whole life, doubting things. Expecting disappointment. Looking for evidence that things won’t work. Of course, it’s going to feel unnatural to just “assume.” You are rewiring years of conditioning. Your mind isn’t trying to sabotage you—it’s just clinging to what it knows. So when the thoughts come? Don’t panic. Don’t fight them. Just recognize them for what they are: old programming.

Say to yourself: “Ha, there it is. My brain trying to protect me with doubt again. That’s cute. But we’re doing things differently now.” Then move on. Don’t engage. Don’t spiral.

Use the “Lullaby” Technique

A super powerful trick for anxious minds:

Right before you fall asleep, affirm gently in your mind, like a lullaby. No intensity. No desperation. Just soft, sleepy, matter-of-fact affirmations. Example: “I already have it. It’s already mine. It’s happening so easily.”

Why does this work? Because your brain is most suggestible in that drowsy state. It absorbs things without resistance. If you do this consistently? Your subconscious will start to believe it on autopilot.

Give Your Mind a “Toy” to Play With

Your anxious brain is like a restless toddler. If you don’t give it something productive to focus on, it will cause chaos. So distract it. Give it a job. Instead of letting it spiral into doubt, tell it to focus on something that supports your assumption.

Daydream in extreme detail about having your desire. Write down your perfect reality like it’s already happened. Imagine a scene over and over until it feels realer than reality.

Your brain wants something to chew on. Feed it the right things.

Yes, your mind is loud. Yes, your doubts feel overwhelming. Yes, it’s hard to stop checking the 3D.

Change the Meaning of Checking the 3D

Some of you will check anyway. And that’s fine. But make it work for you.

If you look in the mirror and don’t see a change, say: “Well, that’s nice. That means the shift is happening behind the scenes.”

If you check your phone and don’t see a text, say: “Perfect. That means the next message will be exactly what I want.”

If you check your bank account and it’s not at 7 figures yet, say: “Obviously. The money is still finding its way to me in the best possible way.”

You get to assign meaning. So make it work in your favor.

Flood Your Brain with Certainty

Every time doubt comes up, respond with: “Oh, that’s funny. I literally already have it, though.” Say it with amusement. Laugh at how ridiculous the doubt is. Make assuming feel more normal than doubting.

5. The Final Truth: You Already Have It. Now Act Like It.

You’re still waiting for proof. That’s the problem. You wake up each morning and search for signs, watching the world like a detective looking for clues. You second-guess. You overthink. You try to “catch” reality shifting in your favor like it’s some slippery thing that might escape you.

But what if I told you that you already have it? No, not “on its way.” Not “manifesting in divine timing.” Now. Already. Yours.

Because the second you assume something is yours, it is. Your reality is shaped by your assumptions. You’re already living the life you assumed. The second you realize that, it will click.

And Here’s Your Final Reminder:

Stop waiting for proof. Stop doubting. Stop acting like your desires are fragile or out of reach.

You already have it. Now act like it.

Your mind, your doubts, your anxiety—none of it can stop you unless you let it. The second you stop chasing? That’s when everything shifts.

i love when feminist takes get popular on tiktok. like the whole “men invented god because he couldn’t handle that women create life” thing gained so much attention and i was like yesss girl i love to see it 😸😸

a few weeks ago i saw a tiktok of a woman explaining how patriarchy is basically womb envy and she was so excited to share her thoughts and i was so happy to hear her speak. that is such a known fact in feminism, i know she probably read it somewhere and it struck her and she decided to look more into it and think about it with her own experience too and then was like “you know what i really wanna share this with other women because they deserve to know and i deserve to speak and maybe they got something to add too” and so she made that tiktok.

sometimes i wonder, this must be one of the ways feminism was born. i love us i love women