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Birth Chart Family Secrets: What Your Planets Reveal About Home Life

1st House:

Sun - Whether you liked it or not, you were the center of attention. Your father probably made sure everyone knew you were the one to watch.

Moon - Your mother is either super loving or way too overbearing. Emotional rollercoaster, anyone? 🎢

Venus - you could be superficial at times in family gatherings. Maybe you don't want certain people around you.

Mars - You probably had some fiery family debates. “Who’s going to win this time?” 💥

Jupiter - You grew up with big dreams. Sometimes, your parents pushed you to take on more than you could handle. 🌍

Saturn - Your self-image was shaped by heavy responsibility. From a young age, you probably had to grow up fast, especially with your family’s expectations weighing on you. 👔

Uranus - You were the odd one out in the family. Probably the rebel who challenged norms and didn’t fit into the “traditional” family mold. ⚡

Neptune - Your sense of self might’ve been blurry. Family life felt like a dream—or maybe a fog. Were they loving, or were they distant? Sometimes it was hard to tell. 🌊

Pluto - You either love your family or hate them. Nothing in-between. Adopted children sometimes have this placement in their birth chart.

2nd House:

Sun - Money and security were at the core of your family’s identity. Success and status were everything, and your parents probably emphasized these values constantly. 💰

Moon - Whether your parents showered you with material goods or made you feel guilty for wanting more, there was always an emotional attachment to what you had. 💸

Mercury - Your family talked about money a lot. If you have a younger sibling, they could be earning well or would earn well.

Venus - Your family's way of showing affection and love is through gifts, comfort and luxury - whether it was food or designer shoes. It also shows you have a sweet tooth.

Mars - There was probably some tension over money, especially when it came to what was “mine” vs. “yours.” You learned to fight for your share, especially in a big family. 💥

Jupiter - If you have an elder sibling, they could be earning well and would spoil you with gifts or just buy you big things. Your parents probably showered you with bigger items or maybe you have a collection of these.

Saturn - The values in your home were built around hard work and discipline. Money didn’t come easily, and your family probably taught you that nothing was given to you.

Uranus - Unexpected financial situations and rebellious spending habits were a thing. You might have had a family that was either too conservative or too experimental when it came to money. 💡

Neptune - You probably saw your family’s relationship with money as a bit hazy. Was there enough, or was it all a mirage? Confusion was the name of the game.

Pluto - Power struggles around money. You might’ve grown up seeing money as a way to control or dominate.

3rd House:

Sun - You were probably the star of family discussions. Your voice was always heard, whether you wanted it to be or not. 👑

Moon - You communicated emotionally with them. Whether it was through feelings or moods, you shared your inner world with your family. Sometimes it was a bit much for them to handle. 😅

Mercury - Family conversations were fast-paced, witty, and a little too sharp sometimes. Growing up, you had to keep up with all the intellectual chatter. 🗣️

Venus - Your communication was all about harmony and beauty. You probably had the smoothest way with words—making everything sound more loving than it really was. 💕

Mars - You argued. A lot. You had the spirit of a warrior in family discussions. If you didn’t get your point across, you’d fight until the very end.

Jupiter - Your family encouraged you to think big and never settle for small talk. 🌍

Saturn - You may have felt like there was little room for emotion in your family’s conversations. 📜

Uranus - Your family probably had unconventional ways of communicating. Forget normal—there were oddball opinions flying around.

Neptune - Your family’s way of communicating was either filled with fantasy or complete miscommunication.

Pluto - Things get real fast, and sometimes, it was like you were discussing life-or-death issues at the dinner table. 🔥

4th House:

Sun - Your family probably made sure everyone knew you came from good stock. 🏡

Moon - Your family could be supportive and nurturing—or super moody and unpredictable.

Mercury - There were always family meetings, talks, and debates. Sometimes it was exhausting!

Venus - Your home was probably filled with art, nice things, and a lot of effort to create a peaceful atmosphere. 🖼️

Mars - There were likely a lot of arguments, physical activity, and maybe even fights over space and control. 🔥

Jupiter - You could be from a big family. Your home was probably full of optimism, maybe even too optimistic, and your parents encouraged you to think big. 🌍

Saturn - Two words - childhood trauma.

Uranus - Your family’s ways were always a bit… out there.

Neptune - You might’ve felt like things weren’t as they seemed, with a bit of an illusionary family dynamic.

Pluto - Family secrets or a secret family?

5th House:

Sun - Your childhood was likely full of performances, plays, or maybe even "My child is special" moments. 🎨

Moon - Emotions were a big part of your creative process, and your parents probably encouraged you to share your heart openly (sometimes too much). 💫

Mercury - Your family might’ve had clever inside jokes and sometimes you could have felt misunderstood.

Venus - Family valued beauty and art. Either you or your parents see the beauty in things or could be highly judgmental based on one's appearance.

Mars - You probably fought for attention in the family. Middle child syndrome.

Jupiter - Your family thought you could do it all.

Saturn - Your parents were strict about how you channeled your creative energy. 🏗️

Uranus - You probably rebelled against the “traditional” forms of expression. ⚡

Neptune - Your family’s vision of creativity was often dreamy, and it might’ve felt like there was a lot of idealization and escapism. 🌊

Pluto - Your family probably dealt with intense emotional highs and lows surrounding your self-expression. What you created could’ve sparked big changes. 🔥

6th House:

Sun - Health and daily routines were a big deal. Your family likely expected you to be disciplined with your body, maybe even pushing you toward a healthy lifestyle (even if you didn’t want to). 🏃‍♂️

Moon - Your family encouraged comfort, but it may have felt like an emotional rollercoaster when it came to health and wellness.

Mercury - Family advice on how to stay healthy. Sometimes too specific - eat this, not that.

Venus - Your family might have connected self-care routines with beauty—taking care of the body was just as much about looking good. 💅

Mars - Your family probably had a work hard, play hard mentality that may have led to burning the candle at both ends. 🔥

Jupiter - Your family believed in the power of positive thinking when it came to health, sometimes a bit too much. “Everything will be fine—just eat a salad!” 🥗

Saturn - Your family probably emphasized discipline over indulgence. “Get up early, work hard, and don’t complain!” ⏰

Uranus - Your family might’ve tried alternative methods or medicines that weren’t exactly mainstream. You probably rebelled against the standard family diet or wellness practices. ⚡

Neptune - Your family might’ve been either too focused on wellness myths or completely vague about it. A lot of idealistic views on “feeling better” but no real plans.

Pluto - Whether it was a major illness or personal transformation, your family might’ve faced some deep health-related struggles. 🔥

7th house:

Sun - Your would always have an opinion on your relationships/partnerships. You could even be the high earner in your family or would become one.

Moon - Your family was either overly supportive of your relationships or way too involved emotionally in every romantic decision you made. 😅

Mercury - Your family had constant discussions about your relationships, offering advice (sometimes unsolicited) and diving deep into every detail. 🗣️

Venus - Your family could be pushing the ideal of what true love or marriage should be.

Mars - Arguments in partnerships were common.

Jupiter - Your family probably has an expectation to expand your connections (sometimes to an overwhelming degree). 🌍

Saturn - Serious relationships were a big deal. Your family probably emphasized commitment and long-term partnerships. They were strict when it came to your choices in relationships. You either marry late or marry an older partner or not marry at all.

Uranus - Your family might’ve had a unique view on relationships, supporting unconventional or non-traditional pairings like same-sex relationships/marriages.

Neptune - Your family’s take on love might have been idealized, or there were a lot of illusions about what partnerships should be. 🌊

Pluto - Your relationship with your family is either intense emotionally or non-existent. Could also be living far away from family.

8th House:

Sun - your relationship with your father is either too intense or distant completely. Sometimes I have seen people with this placement who father died before the native turned 30.

Moon - Ancestral secrets. Could be mixed race. Internal conflicts with mother or family.

Mercury - Either you or your younger sibling could be homosexual or bi-sexual.

Venus - You could be having 2 or more sources of income. Your spouse could be richer than you. Wealth through marriage is possible.

Mars - Power struggles were a big part of the family dynamic.

Jupiter - Family business is possible here. Your family likely believed in the idea of growth through joint ventures or life-changing transformations. 🌍

Saturn - Family dynamics may involve financial burdens, secrecy, or a strong sense of responsibility toward ancestral debts.

Uranus - Family dynamics may be unpredictable, with sudden financial changes, unexpected inheritances, or unconventional attitudes toward death and shared resources. There could be secrets or shocks related to ancestry.

Neptune - Family matters may involve illusions, secrecy, or hidden emotional depths, possibly linked to financial deception, spiritual inheritance, or unclear ancestral ties.

Pluto - Generational trauma, or transformative experiences related to death, inheritance, or deep emotional bonds. There may be themes of secrecy, rebirth, and karmic debts within the family.

9th House:

Sun - Family identity is shaped by beliefs, education, or foreign roots; a strong father figure may be a guide.

Moon - Emotional connection to family comes through travel, spirituality, or distant relatives; a nurturing yet changeable home.

Mercury - Frequent relocations and you may even know more than one language.

Venus - Values centered on culture, arts, or diplomacy; may have wealth from in-laws.

Mars - Family tension with in-laws.

Jupiter - Luck through ancestors.

Saturn - Strict family beliefs, possible limitations in education or foreign connections; wisdom comes with time.

Uranus - Unconventional family traditions, sudden moves abroad, or a rebellion against cultural norms.

Neptune - Mystical or unclear family background, possible illusions about origins, or religious/spiritual ties.

Pluto - Intense, transformative family beliefs; deep ancestral karma or hidden power dynamics in the lineage.

10th House:

Sun - Your family basically handed you a résumé at birth. Success and reputation were everything, and you were expected to make the family name proud—no pressure.

Moon - Family might’ve been emotionally invested in your career choices. “Are you sure you want to be an artist? What about law school?” 🎭

Mercury - Career advice came constantly. Your family always had opinions on what you should do, and you probably learned to communicate professionally before you could even walk. 💼

Venus - Your family wanted you to have a respectable job that looked good—maybe even one that involved art, fashion, or diplomacy. 🎨

Mars - Family pressure to succeed at all costs may have left you feeling like you had to fight for recognition. Career competition might’ve started at the dinner table. 🏋️‍♂️

Jupiter - Big expectations, big ambitions. Your family believes that you are destined for greatness, whether that meant running a company, publishing books, or becoming someone important.

Saturn - Family expectations around success were strict, and you probably felt like you had to work twice as hard to prove yourself. Work-life balance? What’s that? 😬

Uranus - Family may have wanted stability, but you likely rebelled and chose an unconventional profession. “So, you’re telling me you want to be a… YouTuber?”

Neptune - Maybe your family pushed you toward a dream job that didn’t align with reality. “Just follow your passion, money will come!” (Will it, though?) 😵‍💫

Pluto - Your family’s expectations may have felt overwhelming, pushing you to transform your career path multiple times before finding your true calling. 🔥

11th House:

Sun - Either they knew all your friends or expected you to network your way to success. “It’s not what you know, it’s who you know.” 🤝

Moon - Either your family was super involved in your friendships, or you felt emotionally connected to finding your people outside of home.

Mercury - Your family loved discussing big ideas and future goals. Conversations were filled with debates about the world, innovation, and why society needs to change.

Venus - Your family probably valued charm, diplomacy, and making connections with the right people. 👑

Mars - Friendships = competition. Arguments with friends? Likely a common theme.

Jupiter - Your family encouraged big dreams and global connections. Travel, education, and broadening your horizons were a major focus. “Why settle for one country when you can live in five?”

Saturn - Socializing wasn’t always easy. Friendships might have felt like serious business, and making connections took effort. Your family may have encouraged quality over quantity.

Uranus - Your family encouraged uniqueness. You probably felt like the odd one out growing up, but your family may have secretly admired your rebellious streak. “You’ll thank us when you’re older.”

Neptune - Family encouraged you to dream big, but sometimes, social expectations felt blurry. “Just trust the universe!” 🌌

Pluto - Your family might have taught you that not all friends are who they seem. 🕵️‍♂️

12th House:

Sun - Your identity felt hidden in the family. Maybe you were the one keeping secrets, or perhaps your family just didn’t see the real you until later in life. “Oh, you have feelings? Weird.”

Moon - Deep emotional wounds from childhood may have made you feel like you had to suppress emotions. Your family may have been emotionally distant or unknowingly made you feel invisible. 😶‍🌫️

Mercury - Your thoughts were often private or misunderstood. You may have been the one in the family who kept deep reflections to yourself.

Venus - You may have been raised to give without expecting anything in return. Maybe your family had a history of romanticizing suffering. “Love means giving everything!” 🥀

Mars - Internal battles? Too real. You were probably raised in an environment where conflict was hidden, and learning to assert yourself took time. But when you do fight back? It’s explosive.

Jupiter - Whether it was spirituality, religion, or trusting the process, your family pushed you toward a higher understanding. ✨

Saturn - Isolation, responsibility, and heavy lessons. You may have felt alone in your struggles, and your family likely reinforced themes of sacrifice and patience. You were the “old soul” kid.

Uranus - Your upbringing was unpredictable. Maybe you felt disconnected from your family or experienced unexpected shifts that shaped your identity in ways no one saw coming.

Neptune - Family life may have felt like a dream—or a complete illusion. Maybe there were secrets, blurred truths, or unspoken expectations. “Everything’s fine!” (It wasn’t.)

Pluto - You may have had to navigate shadows from an early age, experiencing profound losses or intense emotional shifts that made you stronger than you realize. 🔥

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How do you flirt according to your sign in Venus

Note:it’s normal if this doesn’t apply to you because it depends on the whole chart too and in what house is venus

1. Venus in Aries

People with Venus in Aries flirt in a bold, direct, and often impulsive way. They don’t like to waste time and usually show their interest immediately. They love the thrill of pursuit and are drawn to the excitement of a challenge. Their style can be intense and passionate, as they enjoy making their intentions clear and straightforward. Sometimes, to keep things interesting, they might act playfully provocative, which can be very attractive to those who enjoy high-energy interactions,you may do love bombing 😳

2. Venus in Taurus

Venus in Taurus individuals prefer a slow, sensual, and steady approach to flirting. They aim to create a comfortable and safe atmosphere, often through subtle physical gestures, like a gentle touch on the shoulder or a lingering gaze. They enjoy romantic gestures, such as meaningful gifts or planning a cozy date. They’re persistent and don’t rush, valuing the process of building a solid connection. They attract others by making them feel valued and appreciated, showing genuine care and devotion.(you’re a foodie too)

3. Venus in Gemini

People with Venus in Gemini flirt through conversation, humor, and wit. They’re masters of words and love engaging others with lively and entertaining conversations. Their style is playful and full of curiosity, and they keep things fresh by changing topics or asking interesting questions. They’re versatile with a youthful charm that makes their company exciting. They often use humor and keep an air of mystery to stay intriguing, making every interaction dynamic and enjoyable.

4. Venus in Cancer

Venus in Cancer individuals flirt in an emotional, nurturing, and attentive way. They aim to form a deep emotional connection and prefer showing their interest through gestures that convey care, like remembering small details about the other person or ensuring they feel comfortable. Their approach is sensitive and affectionate, often expressing concern for their love interest’s well-being. Their flirting is usually subtle, as they tend to be cautious and avoid vulnerability until they feel secure, attracting others by offering a sense of safety and dependability.

5. Venus in Leo

People with Venus in Leo flirt with a dramatic, charismatic, and magnetic style. They enjoy being the center of attention and love showing off their radiant and lively personality. They often use grand gestures, like planning memorable dates or public displays of affection, to capture their partner’s interest. Their style is full of confidence, and they enjoy making the other person feel special. They aim to be admired and appreciated for their generosity and expressiveness, often making romantic gestures that are bold and heartfelt.

6. Venus in Virgo

People with Venus in Virgo flirt in a practical, modest, and detail-oriented manner. Their approach to attraction isn’t flashy, as they prefer to show interest through small acts of service or help. They might offer to assist with something specific or show attentiveness to the other person’s needs. They’re careful and tend to be reserved at first, so their affection is often shown through deep conversations or attention to small details. They like to attract by showing they’re thoughtful and sincere, appealing to people who value dedication.

7. Venus in Libra

Venus in Libra individuals flirt with a charming, harmonious, and diplomatic style. They enjoy creating a beautiful and elegant atmosphere in their interactions, showing interest in a graceful and balanced way. They’re polite and sophisticated, often making the other person feel special with compliments or soft romantic gestures. They’re skilled at reading the other person’s cues and adapting to their style, making interactions feel smooth and effortless. They prefer a refined approach and seek a connection that feels aesthetically pleasing and well-matched.

8. Venus in Scorpio

People with Venus in Scorpio flirt in an intense, mysterious, and profound manner. Their flirting style is passionate and magnetic, and they often seek a deep emotional connection right from the start. They aren’t interested in small talk and prefer diving into meaningful topics to truly understand the other person. Their intensity can be intimidating, as they’re highly observant and unafraid to show interest in a powerful and direct way. They attract others through their depth and seek a relationship that holds emotional commitment.

9. Venus in Sagittarius

People with Venus in Sagittarius flirt in a fun, adventurous, and optimistic way. Their flirting style is lighthearted, and they enjoy keeping things lively and exciting. They often show interest through humor and adventurous activities, like inviting the other person on a spontaneous outing or trying something new together. They’re open and straightforward in their intentions and seek a connection that’s stimulating and full of positive energy. Their enthusiasm for love is contagious, drawing in people who appreciate adventure.

10. Venus in Capricorn

Venus in Capricorn individuals flirt in a serious, reserved, and dependable manner. They prefer a slow and calculated approach, often showing their interest through actions rather than words. Their flirting style is discreet but very steady and committed, as they aim for a long-term connection. They might express interest by offering practical help or showing support during difficult times. They’re cautious in their approach and look for someone who values their loyalty and consistency.

11. Venus in Aquarius

People with Venus in Aquarius flirt in an original, independent, and somewhat unpredictable way. They have a unique flirting style and often attract others through intriguing conversations on unusual or futuristic topics. They’re friendly and appreciate intellectual connections, often flirting by exchanging ideas or inviting the other person to an unconventional activity. They’re open-minded and respect the other person’s freedom, preferring a relationship that’s different from traditional expectations.

12. Venus in Pisces

Venus in Pisces individuals flirt in a sweet, dreamy, and romantic way. Their flirting style is gentle, and they might come across as shy or mysterious at first, adding a special charm to their interactions. They like to express their interest through soft and romantic gestures, such as intense eye contact or kind words. Their sensitivity makes them empathetic, and they seek a deep emotional connection. They often flirt in a way that feels magical, creating a romantic and dreamy atmosphere where the other person feels understood and valued.

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Having an Aries rising and stellium, Mars atmakaraka and Sun amatyakaraka as a girl is not easy, because...I'll do things that guys do on a daily basis but then I become the bad guy??? like, MAKE IT MAKE SENSE. Today I was arguing with this man......so listen, my friend wanted this medicine and that idiot at the pharmacy won't give it to her, like he kept on teasing and flirting with her, so she called me and then I talked politely but then he started getting aggressive so I did the same, and then his father came outside, gave us the medicine, looked at me and said "you are 70% guy and 30% girl....hehehe" like...what the fuck but then he could see that the statement pissed me off and started saying sorry but like.....or even when I get into a fight with a guy and then he loses, everyone is like "how could you hit him, he wasn't even being that aggressive", like, If i say no to something for the first time and the person keeps on doing it again and again, then I WILL defend myself. it feels even worse when it comes from girls. WHAT THE FUCK DID I DO WRONG?? Or even in debates, when a guy is loud, it's cool, when I'm loud, it's like "oh my god, calm down, it's not that deep" LIKE?????????

I'm so done with this society, I want a cottage in the middle of the jungle and live there with animals, because humans are so shitty, I hope this world gets destroyed or some shit, I mean, the climate change issue has already become serious enough, so I guess our time is coming to an end anyways, which imo, is GREAAATT

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˚₊· ͟͟͞͞➳❥ PILE ONE i  don't  think  you  really  know  this  person,  at  least  not  in  a  deep  way.  they  seem  pretty  distant  and  withdrawn,  like  they've  never  really  made  any  effort  to  connect  with  you.  honestly,  i'm  picking  up  some  strong  virgo  energy.  quiet,  reserved  vibes.  it  feels  like  they  can't  quite  control  themselves  when  they  get  caught  up  in  things.  i  get  the  sense  that  wherever  they  go,  they  bring  a  bit  of  chaos  with  them.  like,  there's  always  drama  surrounding  them.  they  spend  a  lot  of  time  thinking  about  you,  though,  mostly  on  social  media.  they  might  be  watching  you  in  a  sneaky  way,  either  through  other  people  or  maybe  even  a  fake/spam  account.  it’s  like  they’re  obsessed  with  decoding  everything  you  post,  over-analyzing  little  things  like  when  you  post  a  song  on  your  story  and  it  has  some  hidden  meaning.  they’ll  think  it’s  for  them,  even  though  they  haven’t  said  a  word  to  you.  they’re  really  into  you,  but  they're  scared  of  being  vulnerable  and  what  might  come  with  that.  they  act  like  they  don’t  care,  though.  super  nonchalant  on  the  surface.  now,  as  i’m  tapping  more  into  their  energy,  i  feel  like  this  could  be  someone  from  your  past.  maybe  they  pulled  back  at  some  point?  like  they  were  in  your  life,  but  then  went  distant.  or  maybe  it’s  just  someone  who’s  afraid  of  messing  up  whatever  connection  you  have.  they  hold  back  a  lot,  maybe  even  in  denial  about  their  feelings,  or  they  distract  themselves  to  avoid  thinking  about  you.  they’re  really  struggling  to  balance  you  and  their  daily  life.  they’re  trying  to  keep  this  obsession  under  wraps,  so  it  doesn't  interfere  with  what  they’ve  got  going  on.  they’re  quietly  longing  for  you,  watching  your  growth  from  afar.  and  if  they’re  someone  from  the  past,  they  still  have  some  hope,  even  though  they’re  not  doing  anything  about  it.  i  feel  like  there  are  two  possible  situations  going  on  here,  but  that's  the  vibe  i'm  getting.

˚₊· ͟͟͞͞➳❥ PILE TWO i  feel  like  you  probably  know  this  person,  even  if  it’s  not  really  a  big  secret  or  anything.  but,  they’re  giving  off  some  serious  ego  vibes.  like,  it's  through  the  roof.  they  might’ve  flirted  with  you  before  or  done  things  to  get  you  to  focus  on  them,  even  if  it  was  kinda  subtle.  i’m  not  totally  sure,  but  maybe  they’re  someone  you’ve  rejected  before?  or  they  just  feel  ignored  by  you,  like  you  don’t  really  see  them,  even  though  they  try  really  hard.they  want  your  attention,  and  they’re  not  getting  it.  they’re  obsessed  with  why  you  don’t  notice  them  the  way  they  want.  and  honestly,  i  don’t  think  it’s  something  you’re  doing  on  purpose.  i  think  you  might  just  have  a  hard  time  picking  up  on  who’s  into  you.  this  person  has  been  fixated  on  you  for  months,  maybe  even  years,  and  hasn’t  told  anyone.  it’s  kinda  lowkey  draining  them.  like,  this  obsession  is  exhausting,  but  they  can’t  stop.  they  know  everything  about  you,  down  to  the  tiniest  details.  they’re  constantly  watching  you.  they’re  scared  of  being  vulnerable,  but  it’s  like  they  can’t  stop  mentally  obsessing  over  you.  thinking  about  you  kind  of  hurts  them,  if  that  makes  sense.  they  feel  invisible,  like  they  go  unnoticed,  and  it  stings.  i  get  the  sense  that  they’re  at  a  crossroads,  like  they  have  to  either  let  go  or  finally  confess  how  they  feel.  they’re  trying  to  cut  off  those  feelings,  like  in  their  head  they’re  saying  no,  but  their  heart  keeps  pulling  them  back.  they’re  leaning  toward  keeping  quiet,  but  that  obsession  keeps  growing  stronger.  they  want  to  choose  you,  but  they’re  scared  it’s  not  safe  to  make  a  move.  i’m  picking  up  some  strong  fire/air  energy,  but  leaning  more  towards  the  fire  side.

˚₊· ͟͟͞͞➳❥ PILE THREE this  person  definitely  feels  hurt  by  you.  i  get  the  vibe  that  you  chose  someone  else  over  them.  whether  it  was  on  purpose  or  not,  they  saw  it  happen,  and  that  stings.  that  hurt  is  kind  of  feeding  their  fixation  on  you,  and  they  just  keep  thinking  about  it  over  and  over.  like,  they  can’t  get  any  peace  from  it.  they’re  really  stuck  in  this  emotional  cycle,  like,  they  have  this  fantasy  that  they  cling  to,  and  somehow,  in  their  mind,  it  makes  the  pain  feel  worth  it.  this  is  the  quiet,  distant  kind  of  obsession,  not  the  loud,  dramatic  type.  it’s  more  like  someone  who  watches  you  from  afar,  probably  hoping  that  one  day  things  could  be  different  between  you  two.  they  might  even  wish  for  a  chance  with  you,  especially  if  you’re  already  involved  with  someone  else.  they’re  idealizing  you  a  lot,  to  the  point  it’s  almost  delusional.  like,  you  know  how  people  worship  celebrities?  it’s  that  kind  of  feeling.  deep  down,  they  probably  know  this  is  all  a  bit  off,  but  they  can’t  help  it.  they’re  constantly  pushing  these  feelings  down  and  trying  to  control  it.  this  person  is  putting  up  a  serious  fight  to  keep  their  emotions  in  check.  their  obsession  is  far  from  passive,  though.  if  anyone  even  brings  you  up,  they  feel  the  need  to  defend  themselves,  and  it  might  come  off  kind  of  rude  or  harsh.  it’s  like  they  feel  emotionally  attacked  just  thinking  about  you.  they  might  think  it’s  impossible  to  get  you  back  for  whatever  reason,  like  they  messed  up  or  never  fully  confessed  how  they  felt.  honestly,  it’s  giving  me  12th  house  energy

˚₊· ͟͟͞͞➳❥ PILE FOUR this  person  definitely  has  a  sexual  attraction  to  you.  there’s  this  push  and  pull  energy  with  them.  it’s  like  they  want  you,  but  they’re  not  really  sure  how  to  get  you.  their  obsession  is  all  fueled  by  fantasy  and  desire,  not  by  emotional  stability  or  any  real  connection.  this  could  be  someone  who  flirted  with  you  but  never  actually  followed  through.  maybe  you  rejected  them,  or  you  just  didn’t  chase  after  them,  and  that’s  only  made  them  more  fixated  on  you.  i  feel  like  you  either  ignored  them  or  weren’t  emotionally  available  to  them,  which  has  only  made  things  worse  for  them.  they  might  try  to  act  all  cool  and  like  they’re  over  it,  but  deep  down,  they’re  still  obsessed  and  restless. i  have  to  say.  they’re  kind  of  goofy  about  it.  like,  they’ve  tried  so  hard  to  move  on,  and  they  keep  failing.  it’s  almost  funny  how  much  you  haunt  them.  whether  they  walked  away  from  you  or  you  walked  away  from  them,  emotionally,  they’ve  never  really  left.  they’re  trying  to  balance  this  obsession,  but  it’s  like  they  can’t  shake  the  feeling  that  your  energy  is  still  hanging  around  them.  it’s  weird.   they’re  probably  waiting  for  the  “right  time,”  like  waiting  for  some  divine  timing  to  kick  in.  you  know  the  saying,  “if  it’s  meant  to  be,  it’ll  happen”?  they’re  kinda  buying  into  that,  thinking  that  eventually,  you  two  will  cross  paths  again  or  talk  again.  or  just  somehow  interact.  they  definitely  believe  in  that  “one  day”  moment.  this  person  is  obsessed  in  a  quiet  but  persistent  way.  it’s  like  their  mind’s  on  a  loop,  especially  when  they’re  alone  with  their  thoughts.  i’m  picking  up  on  some  water  sign  energy  with  a  bit  of  fire  thrown  in  there

Introvert Placements because I found this picture as an inspiration:

Earth Dominant

8th house stellium

12th house stellium

1st house stellium

Mercury in Pisces

Mercury in Taurus

Mercury in Capricorn

Mercury at 10° 22° degrees

Mercurial Moon (Gemini or Virgo Moons)

18°th degree on Moon

Ascendant making harsh aspects to Mercury or Sun

Sun - Moon harsh aspects

Moon or Sun having a lot of square aspects

Neptune in the 12th house

Uranus in the 12th house

Moon in the 12th house

Sun in the 12th house

I think it should be normalised in the astrology community to question people and ask, 'why do you say this?'.

And don't be afraid call out people who make statements and can't back themselves up with actual sources.

because wdym 'you'll never find love as a 12h venus' or 'sun doesn't represent father'.

xoxo honey-bitch

MYSTERIOUS SKIN (2004) dir. Gregg Araki

CLUELESS (1995) dir. Amy Heckerling