Kate Moss @ Jean Colonna Fall/Wint 1996

Charly García y Sandro

This might be really dumb but something that helps me is pretending I'm already skinny?

Like

Feeling hungry? That's because you're a skinny bitch

Skipping dinner? That's because you're a skinny bitch

Having a diet soda while everyone else has burgers? Such skinny bitch behaviour

Skinny is a mindset

Fake it til you make it

Also saves me from getting super depressed about my body? Sometimes it feels like change just isn't happening and I get really bummed out and struggle to stay motivated.

But if I tell myself I'm already a skinny bitch I'm like

Omg yeah you're right

I've got to keep up these behaviours to stay a skinny bitch

i miss the late 2000s and early 2010s sm

The Swamp (1900) by Gustav Klimt

Dutch Magazine, 2000.

Ph. Mikael Jansson

Venus in the houses Ovservation 8-12

Venus in the 8th house: these people are so magnetic it’s insane. They have a dark beauty to them that’s truly captivating. They remind me of Tim Burton characters. But being so magnetic causes a lot of people to become obsessed with them. They attract a lot of stalkers and creepy people. They tend to get sexualized constantly( people make such gross comments to them it’s shocking). I’ve seen these people get catcalled and lustful stares and comments about their body even if they aren’t wearing anything revealing. Even I’ve seen family members make inappropriate comments to these natives, things like “if you weren’t my daughter I’d….” You get the picture 🤮 (8th house ruling taboo attraction ) one of my close friends had to deal with that in her family. They may have been shamed for wearing revealing clothing of too much makeup because it’s seen as “overly sexy” or “hoochie”. People could’ve thought they were sluts even if they never had sex too it’s sad. They can get a lot of hate from people for no reason as well they may be used to people (mostly women) giving them dirty looks or ignoring them/purposely being mean to them. Their presence has such an intense affect on the people around them. Their relationships are also intense as well they attract a lot of people with a dangerous/edgy type vibe to them (junkies, drug dealers, people with a record ect). They have a provocative vibe to them so they can attract some very questionable partners at time. I’ve seen too that they are into gory kinda art or disturbing art pieces/ photography. They are also very proud of their bodies & usually embrace their sexuality. I’ve seen a lot get into nude modeling or just take a lot of pictures of their bodies. They’re more comfortable being nude than most (also this can be a big sugar baby placement as well like Venus in the 2nd).

Venus in 9th house: have such a unique glow to them. They have smiles that can light up a room and their laugh reminds me of wind chimes. I haven’t met a lot of people with this placement but the ones I met I notice they are so intelligent and well spoken. So many people are drawn to them just to hear what they have to talk about. It makes them amazing teachers/gurus. They just always seem like they know what they’re talking about so many describe them as being wide beyond their years (they usually have pretty high IQs as well, Marylin Monroe had this placement) They tend to find spouses while traveling or they can travel a lot with their partner. Their partner might’ve come from a very diverse cultural background or ethnicity. On the negative side these people can be very overly indulgent and sometimes believe that they are always right and their words are law. They can have a big god complex if negatively aspected.

Venus in the 10th house: give superstar vibes. These people put a lot of effort into their career and public image. Most big celebrities/ big politicians I notice have this placement. This can be a big trendsetter placement as well, you’ll notice that many people will admire you and try to copy you a lot! Whether it be you mannerisms, fashion, art style ect. For example Billie Eilish has this placement and everyone went crazy over her baggy clothes style. You have more of an opportunity to make your mark in the world more than the rest of the Venus signs. If afflicted however you can become too obsessed with recognition and status to the point where you abandon important things and people in your life to attain your goals, this can cause someone who has sorta tunnel vision when negatively aspected. It’s important to not get so wrapped up in others image of you so you don’t burn yourself out trying to please everyone (they can be extremely sensitive to criticism & be harsh on themselves to perform perfectly). You can also have a habit of putting your work/career before relationships. You may not settle down till later in life.

Venus in the 11th house: I notice similar to Venus in Aqua that they are really big on friends before lovers typa thing. They don’t really jump into relationships fast without becoming their friend first.( which can be a little annoying to more fast paced types) at first you can make your partner feel friend zoned but the ones who are patient enough to let you open up usually win your heart. They usually put a big emphasis on friends in general and could have a lot of them. If you date someone with this placement it may feel like you’re dating their friends too😭 they’re a very big part of their life. People with this placement usually have many support systems which can help them through life and show them to new opportunities(especially business opportunities). On the flip side I’ve seen these people become too detached with their relationships and treat them like friends rather than lovers which can cause their partner to feel neglected. They tend to find lovey dovey expressions a little awkward (if immature) which can cause them to become aloof when things get a little too close, they may start playing hot and cold. Might need a longer time to mature romantically than most. I’ve seen a lot of influencer and people with popular social media blogs have this placement. They’re very tech savvy & usually own the latest technology.

Venus in 12th house: these people I feel mostly live in their fantasy worlds in terms of love and romance. They are hopeless romantics at heart and have this beautiful vision of how they want their love to look and feel like. However it’s usually difficult for them to find this perfect love in such an imperfect world so they usually end up romanticizing the most mentally ill mfs into like a Prince Charming image lmao. This is why they usually attract a lot of unstable/ emotionally unavailable partners. I’ve seen these people remain celibate for long periods of time as well until they find that perfect love. Most of the time though unfortunately love feels a lot better in their imagination. I’ve read somewhere before that they go through such an ordeal in love because in a past life they chose lovers over loving themselves so a big lesson in this lifetime is to love yourself before you let anyone in. I also read they could’ve lost their soulmate in another life which caused this extreme longing for love in this life. These people usually find love through spiritual practices such as religion, meditation, crystal work, tarot ect.

👦🏻Sibling Observations 👧🏻

Note: This post fits both the Western and Vedic systems. Take what resonates and leave the rest. One placement or aspect cannot say much and the whole chart has to be analyzed to know further. Lemme know in the comments if any of these hit home!

Note: This post is for people who have sibling(s).

Having Saturn or Jupiter in the 3rd house points to a sibling who earns more than you or marrying a financially sound partner. However, they would experience some form of hospitalization or surgery before they turn 33, excluding childbirth. Example: fertility treatment, abdominal surgery, etc.

Having Saturn or Jupiter in the 11th house points to an elder sibling with a minimum age gap of 4 years. Weight gain can be an issue for your sibling. It also points to your grandparent who left an inheritance or a legacy, such as being in the military, a known family restaurant, or doing something for their community, etc. In some cases, you might even look like your grandparent. As you age, you will be the one earning a lot in your family.

The 11th lord in the 2nd house points to an elder sibling marrying someone wealthier than your family. The elder sibling might be favored by the parents more than you, if the planet is Venus/ Sun/ Mercury. A significant age gap of 7+ years can be seen here if Saturn is the 11th lord. Stepsibling in some cases. If Jupiter is the 11th lord, sibling can become wealthy and might even spoil you a lot. Sibling might share their wealth or leave an inheritance for you.

3rd lord in 4th house indicates a younger sibling who was born within 2 years of your birth, and your family can be supportive in their educational and career.

Mars in the 3rd house can give a younger sibling who got into an accident before the age of 28.

Having 3rd lord in the 11th house indicates a younger sibling with an age gap of 5+ years. They might even be adopted or a stepsibling, in some cases.

Having 11th lord in the 7th house points to an elder sibling who would play a significant role in your life in general and in meeting your spouse as well. If Saturn is the 11th lord, it points to a significant age gap between the siblings. 7 + years. Sibling would be educated and could be living far away from their motherland. This also suggests that your sibling will play a role in your education as well.

Having Pluto in 3rd house points to a younger sibling who is significantly younger than you and, in some cases, indicates a stepsibling(s).

South node in the 3rd house points to a younger sibling with whom you are close. In some cases, these natives would call their sibling as their soulmate or best friend.

In some cases, having Pluto in the 4th indicates divorced parents. A younger stepsibling that you're not aware of or don't talk to, like after divorce, the parent married someone else and had a kid that you don't talk to or are not even aware of. If the other parent is married, the one with whom you lived might give you a stepsibling with whom you remain close. This can apply to having Uranus or Neptune in the 4th.

Having the Sun in the 11th house either makes you the only child or the eldest at home.

Having Mars in the 11th house indicates having an elder sibling of the same gender as you and you being born within 2.5 years after their birth.

Having 1st lord in 1st house conjunct with the Moon/Sun can indicate a twin, in some cases.

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House Significations

1st House: Head/ face/ physical body, eyes and smile. Our identity. Others perception of us. Our birth. Birth marks/ moles and scars. Character. Perspective/ outlook. Beginnings. Ego

2nd House: Throat/ neck/ voice. Resources and personal values. Physical possessions. Self-esteem. Money/ income. Security. Cultivation. Substance

3rd House: Arms/ shoulders and hands. Communication style. Primary school. Reading/ writing. Intellect. Siblings and cousins. Immediate communities. Transportation

4th House: Chest/ breasts/ stomach. Family/ ancestors. Roots/ traditions. Private life. Home. Domesticity. Mother/ care taker. Foundations. Heritage. Comfort/ relaxation

5th House: Heart/ Spine/ Solar Plexus. Pleasure. Creativity. Romance. Children/ first born child. Self-expression. Humor. Leisure/ entertainment

6th House: Digestive system/ intestines: Healthcare/ wellness. Daily routines. Known enemies. Employment/ skills. Coworkers. Consistency. Strength/ courage

7th House: Urinary tract/ kidneys/ bladder. 1-on-1 relationships. Business partners. Marriage partners. Contracts/ commitments. Compromise. People/ things we attract and are attracted to

8th House: Reproductive system/ genitals/ anus. Secrets/ lies. Death. Judgement. Transformation. Debts/ taxes. Shared resources. Conscious fears. Instincts/ intuition. Occultism

9th House: Hips/ thighs/ liver. Ideology/ philosophy. Long distance travels. Expansion/ exploration. Knowledge. Spirituality. Foreign affairs. Belief systems. Culture

10th House: Bones/ skeleton/ teeth/ skin. Reputation. Public image. Occupation. Focus/ ambition/ motivation. Professional self. Government. Authority. Father figure

11th House: Circulatory system/ veins/ calves/ ankles. Group efforts/ charity. Friendship. Gifts/ help from others. Innovation. Technology. Social work. Wistfulness. Acquaintances

12th House: Feet/ lymph nodes. Institutions. Unconsciousness. Nightmares/ dreams. Psychic abilities. Karma. Self-undoing. Fears. Privacy/ refuge. Peace. Forgiveness