Javierforus - She's A Hotwife

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My wife puts herself under pressure to have sex more often than she wants as she feels guilty that I'm locked in a cage. She often feels too guilty to tell me no if I ask. Or to say that's all after I give her a nice massage. Apart from me reassuring her, is there anything that helped with yourself or did you just become more confident in yourself over time?

This is an excellent question. Women, especially older women grew up thinking that men needed frequent sex and orgasms. Plus, having sex is a mutual enjoyment activity so it's natural for some women to feel like they need to reciprocate the pleasure, or to reward their husbands with an orgasm.

My husband is physically affectionate, and he used to be always touching me when I was making dinner or grabbing me for a kiss in the hallway or giving me a spank on my butt in passing. I want to stress that he never never pressured me for sex but in those moments I pressured myself, if that makes sense. I have accused him of wanting me to drop everything to jump into bed with him. It wasn't true but that's the kind of mindwt I had. Unfortunately, not only did it make me want less sex but eventually he stopped being affectionate which also led to less intimacy.

I'm not saying that locking him fixed things. But once I realized that I had the control I began to be more relaxed about his affection. I could enjoy a kiss on my neck while washing dishes without feeling pressured. I could melt into a kiss without feeling as if I had to stop what I was doing to hop into bed. And I learned to love his pressing cage up against my ass because I could simy let him stay horny until I was ready to have some fun. Maybe later, maybe tomorrow, maybe not for a week. The main thing was that it was totally under my control.

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