A 4th Century CE Statue Of Aphroditos. Her Cock Wards Off Evil Spirits. Reblog To Rid Your Blog Of Evil

This. This is exactly what it is.

so many of the transfems i know spent their time pre-transition performing a kind of lifelong exercise in self-deprivation, the goal of which was to find out exactly how little a person needed to live. they starved themselves, dressed carelessly, shunned friends, and hollowed themselves out so as not to be burdens on anyone but themselves.

i see it now, too, in the girls around me. i'll ask if they want care – a home-cooked meal, relaxed company, sex without the expectation of reciprocation – and they say no, no, thank you, i don't need it; what would you like, what do you want, because in their head they're still doing that awful calculus, still training themselves to disappear in the eyes of the people around them.

i don't think i'd have died without transition – not in the conventional sense, at least – but to take that leap, i had to stop thinking of myself as a human experiment in fuel-efficient living and start nurturing the anemic, atrophied flame of desire in my heart. i had to learn to eat well, to exercise, to style myself beautiful, but harder than that, i had to learn to ask the people around me to work on my behalf in order to enrich my life and give me the things i wanted.

and i did it; i learned. and it was agony, but courage is a muscle you can train, and every day i get better at accepting gifts with the hungry gratitude i never learned in my years and years as a sad, scared, lonely boy.

so be patient with the trans girls in your life. better than that: be proactive, attentive, generous; be forceful, if you have to, and learn to distinguish real discomfort from the terrified reflex of self-denial that so many of us once learned to rely on.

and if you are so lucky as to love a trans girl, you must insist upon her. you must insist upon her happiness, her comfort, her pleasure, and her rest, because she may still not yet know how to make those demands for herself. if you can devote any amount of energy to becoming an engine that nurtures the flame of even a single tgirl then there is a place for you in trans heaven, which as far as i'm concerned is the only one worth going to

God I wanna be smothered to death by a bunch of transbians.. QwQ

(my gf being the one directly on top of me of course)

Normalize being kind & supportive for no reason

*bites u* >:3

"Bite me"

Is a cute little snap back until you're pinned against the wall with my teeth sinking into your skin

Woah, you're such a smart boi :3 *pet pet*

wish it was acceptable to wear a collar as a normal part of an outfit

I feel the urge to hug all of you real tight >.<

god autistic girls are so cute

weird as fuck living in a culture where it's considered more impolite to speak up and defend yourself against someone treating you unfairly than it is for someone to be rude to you in the first place

You know what? Fuck it. Just fuck it. I have suffered for over a decade, having been one of the most altruistic people I know, often actively making my life worse to help others with whatever problems they had. I'm fucking unemployed, suffer from severe mental illnesses, and just in general had a pretty shitty life. Fuck it. Fuck you. I will not spend any notable amount of money on anything except my rent, electricity, and fucking food. I won't walk/go somewhere anymore just because you lost or forgot something. I will not risk my career just because you won't get your stupid ass to ask anyone else for help but me. I'm fucking done with this shit. If I continue with this mindset and lifestyle, it'll end my life. That's not worth it. Your life actually isn't worth more than mine. And don't you tell me I'm overreacting. After what I've endured, I have all the right to react like this. Fuck off, leave me alone, talk to someone else about it. God, fuck...

Just wanna be cuddled in with nice people who pet me and make me let out cute noises and who I pet and make let out cute noises..

It's a crime that this isn't happenig to me right now