Everything Reminds Me Of Her

@practicalkim nya~

a comic about cuddles

Good thing is trans girls can easily be shared, so the market isn't artificially shrunk by trans girl multi-owners, PLUS we do not leave our property mostly unused and empty.

property owner? in this economy?

ohhh you mean you own a trans girl okay that makes sense

As a dom fem who has a subby, car-fixing, kinda butch girlfriend, FUCK YES!

Yeah yeah subby femme x dommy butch, that’s fun and all.

But where’s my subby butch x dommy femme? Where’s my butches who wear chokers “because they look cool” but in reality it’s proof that the femme owns them? Where’s the femmes who are half the size of the butch but super possessive? Where’s the femme who orders for the butch? Who makes the butch blush in front of their biker gang? Reblog and I’ll make this a story

This. This is exactly what it is.

so many of the transfems i know spent their time pre-transition performing a kind of lifelong exercise in self-deprivation, the goal of which was to find out exactly how little a person needed to live. they starved themselves, dressed carelessly, shunned friends, and hollowed themselves out so as not to be burdens on anyone but themselves.

i see it now, too, in the girls around me. i'll ask if they want care – a home-cooked meal, relaxed company, sex without the expectation of reciprocation – and they say no, no, thank you, i don't need it; what would you like, what do you want, because in their head they're still doing that awful calculus, still training themselves to disappear in the eyes of the people around them.

i don't think i'd have died without transition – not in the conventional sense, at least – but to take that leap, i had to stop thinking of myself as a human experiment in fuel-efficient living and start nurturing the anemic, atrophied flame of desire in my heart. i had to learn to eat well, to exercise, to style myself beautiful, but harder than that, i had to learn to ask the people around me to work on my behalf in order to enrich my life and give me the things i wanted.

and i did it; i learned. and it was agony, but courage is a muscle you can train, and every day i get better at accepting gifts with the hungry gratitude i never learned in my years and years as a sad, scared, lonely boy.

so be patient with the trans girls in your life. better than that: be proactive, attentive, generous; be forceful, if you have to, and learn to distinguish real discomfort from the terrified reflex of self-denial that so many of us once learned to rely on.

and if you are so lucky as to love a trans girl, you must insist upon her. you must insist upon her happiness, her comfort, her pleasure, and her rest, because she may still not yet know how to make those demands for herself. if you can devote any amount of energy to becoming an engine that nurtures the flame of even a single tgirl then there is a place for you in trans heaven, which as far as i'm concerned is the only one worth going to

“The Breather” by Billy Collins

trans women are not subject to misandry. i think the reason people say that is because trans women are treated the way fervent 2015 style mras think men are treated (times like a thousand)

A Psych Ward of Garnet & Rain

Bank of Sapphire Cold?

Petitions - UK Government and Parliament

Petition: Legally enshrine the right of adults to physically transition using NHS services

Introduce a law to legally protect the right of those aged 18 and over to transition using NHS services. This should specifically cover phys

Uk peeps!! Let’s get this going! 🏳️‍⚧️🇬🇧

Omg is ussssss!!

Drunk women

woah.. lebsibans :0

Repost, sorry for deleting before lol