I Don’t Know Who Needs To Hear This, But If You’re At A Low Point:

this was my first FuKi/Honkai art ever

CANNON HUMAN FORD??

Credits ;

Mel Medarda as Mucha’s “The Pole Star” 

top ten tv characters as voted by my followers ↳ 3. buffy summers

just felt like drawin some Soft Bodies

It's no secret that consent online is just as important as consent irl. However, navigating consent on Tumblr can look a little bit different than in person. Here are some reminders on how to do so:

ASK before sending sexually forward messages or photos. Unless someone has it very clearly stated on their blog that they willingly accept sexual messages and photos, ask before you do so. Additionally, posting NSFW content ≠ consent. Remember that just because someone is not in a monogamous relationship does not necessarily mean they're seeking a partner or willing to flirt. If you're not sure, ASK!

RESPECT DNIs. Those are in place for a reason. People clearly state those who they are not comfortable interacting with. Do not cross that boundary. Especially respect age DNIs. No one under 18 should be engaging with NSFW content, but some blog set strict 21+ or 25+ rules.

BE CLEAR with your intentions. Tell that person exactly what you're looking for. Do not use the guise of friendship to seek out sexual attention. Do you want to just exchange messages or photos as well? Do you want something for just this once, or do you hope to maintain an ongoing relationship with this person?

"Yes" to exchanging sexual messages or sending photos is not a blanket statement. Be sure to establish boundaries/limits. This can include sexual acts that should not be discussed or whether or not you'll show your face in photos.

Understand that people's boundaries can change. Just because someone was once willing to exchange photos or sexual messages doesn't mean that they always will be. If they tell you "not right now" or "maybe later," that does not mean press them until they say yes. Respect the boundary and move on.

Not everyone wants to engage with NSFW content. Refrain from adding sexual tags/comments on SFW posts. Make your own post!

Respect "No" and "I'm not interested." Do not press someone or think you can change their mind. If someone blocks you, they want you to leave them alone. Do not make new blogs or message sideblog to try to talk to them. If you saved photos they sent you, delete them.

Do not feel guilty about enforcing your own boundaries. If someone crosses a line, you have every right to tell them they made you uncomfortable or block them. You don't need to sacrifice your comfort level to appease others.

Be safe, remember consent, and have fun!!

Soft morning

something i've noticed in people trying to gatekeep queer language is that they are native english speakers. i think this is partly from anglocentrism (in the case of americans even more pronounced)

they tend to forget that people live in different contexts and try to create homogenization our consolidation of our experiences based on their own views.

100000% this

Never in your life, sir

After an inadvisable trip down the r/buffy rabbit hole, I am entirely convinced that everyone who has ever said anything in the neighborhood of "Spike/Spuffy fans forget that Spike is a murderer/abusive boyfriend/other dead dove stuff" has never actually interacted with a Spuffy fan.

Spike fans talk about Spike's flaws more than anyone else in fandom. Understanding how evil he was is an integral part of celebrating his growth.