Kawaiichaospup - KawaiiChaosPuppy

Cute date idea, I’ll tie you up and cut your clothes off while you try and pretend I can’t see how wet you are.

Ughhhh I want a vibrator so badddd TwT my dom is gonna get me one eventually but the cheapest one is $25 and I don't have that, I have money to be used on important stuff like plates and stuff but not a vibrator. It's so frustratingggg ,0,-,0,

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They were holding hands staring outside! I thought it was cute 🥰🥺

Aftercare

I’ve organized some of the things I need from aftercare (in person or long distance) into 4 components, and thought it could be helpful for others too! I’ve put some examples for each, but it will of course look different for everyone.

1. Physical Care/Needs -

Wiping away tears

Helping up from floor

Getting a warm towel

Soothing bruises

Getting a glass of water

2. Physical Comfort/Affection -

Gentle kisses and hugs

Holding eachother tight

Breathing with eachother

Cuddling and/or napping together

Brushing fingers through hair

3. Scene Validation -

“That was so fun/sexy”

“That felt so good when you ____”

“You were such a good ____ for me”

“I love the bruises/marks you gave me”

“Thank you for (carrying out some fantasy) with me”

4. Human Affirmations -

“I love you; I care about you”

“I’m so grateful to have you in my life”

“I always have a great time when I’m with you”

“You’re a wonderful/kind/etc person”

Mentioning a non-sexual part of your relationship that you like, or reiterating that you value eachother as more than just a sub/dom(me)

I think that this can work whether you have a deeper connection or a more casual play partner! I always feel best when all of these components are covered during aftercare.

These things can obv be done in person, and I think it’s also really important to give this kind of care when you’re long distance, even if it’s just through words after sexting… for example-

“When we were done, I would help you up and wipe away your tears, bring you a warm towel and make sure you’re ok. Then I’d love to cuddle, with your head on my chest, and give you forehead kisses while telling you how good you made me feel and how wonderful of a person I think you are.”

Thanks for reading! Be safe everyone 💕💕

No no no, I'm not afraid to say that I'M bitchy until I'VE had my coffee and will probably snap because YOU'RE annoying me and I can't take the headache until I've had my coffee.

Welcome to my life. Currently. My partner wants to do a pagan ritual thing where they'll tie our hands together after we move to Colorado together where I know no one....... The commitment but I'm worried he'll abandon me in Colorado if something goes wrong and I am attached to him at the hip but I'm working on that. TwT I feel like I don't give him enough attention but he feels like he's not giving me enough attention. I also have this issue that I started crushing on someone else and my life is a mess 😭😭😭

Having attachment, abandonment and commitment issues has to be the most cruel joke ever. Not the triple threat I wanna be.

stalked ur blog shawty, just gotta say, fantastic tits… and i’m sorry u had a bad day, also.

Though I wouldn't want my Dom to stop even while I begged for it, just stick a gag in my mouth and keep going. Will he ever know that though? Probably not. ^^

I want only him to stare at my boobs and ass, to look under my skirt at my panties when I’m bending over, he is the only one allowed to have sick and pervy thoughts about me, thinking about how weak I am and how easily he could overpower me, how good it would feel to use my body, to force his dick into my pussy, how cute I would look with tears in my eyes while begging him to stop

My fiance is busy so I can't get head skritches or much attention 🥺

yeah idk guys not to be boring but i could really go for some cuddles and head pats and being called a good girl right abt now, need to turn my brain off