having fictives is fun because you can make killer "headcanons" and then post them on Tumblr Dot Com and get a bunch of notes and everyones like "omg this is so spot on"
problematic headmate culture is having one of your headmates as your lover, father figure, student, and best friend all in one
problematic headmate culture is...
In-system relationships can be so intimate.
Waking up together, opening the same eyes, and stretching the same limbs. Yawning in time and saying a good morning that only you who are involved can understand what it's for.
Sharing a meal, not only from the same plate, but with the same hands and the same senses. Deciding what to eat together, something that fits all of your tastes.
Curled in the same bed, in the same blankets, in the same body, drowzily mumbling about nothing and everything to each other. Joking around and feeling their sleepy laugh as if it were your own.
Living life, and inviting them to share yours and your time in it--performing your daily tasks in the unison of cofront. Seeing and hearing and feeling everything together.
Feeling them blush when you flirt or compliment them. Feeling their joy when you get them a gift, or how safe you make them feel simply when you're around them.
Enveloped in the same love, from the same brain, with the same feeling of care for each other palpable between you. Feeling the emotions you feel yourself, coming from the other person. Feeling their love for you, in the rawest, most direct possible way.
The doll shop of ANOTHER
unprotected penetrative sex (his knife inside me)
problematic age gap?? ummm maybe to YOU officer but have you considered that i love him