I Think People Should Be Allowed To Sleep In The Same Bed In A Non Sexual And Non Romantic Way. I Think

I think we can overcomplicate offerings for deities, like each and every offering that is for a deity should ALWAYS be respectful. There's no 'if/buts/maybes' on that.

But some offerings can be simple like saying thank you outloud or in your head after eating your meals to Demeter, Artemis, or any other deity that are similar to that in your religion. Saying that your skincare, makeup, and brushing your hair is dedicated to Aphrodite or Hekate, for example. Saying good morning to Apollo in the morning when you open up your curtains and doors, meditating out in the sun for Apollo and Lucifer. Doing something risky and playful in honour of Loki and Hermes. Having a glass of water by yourself or washing your hands in honour of Poseidon. Learning how to defend yourself for Ares and Odin, paying your respect to the dead for Hades, and Anubis. Those are all examples of offerings, devotion or doing something in their name that you can do if you currently don't have any offerings for them at the moment, or if your sick and don't have the energy for offerings, or if you can't do any offerings because of unsupportive family, ect.

That's so true! You can be in a desired reality where it isn't perfect, where you aren't perfect. You can just be, just be how you are now just in another reality, and that's perfectly okay!

It's okay for your DR to still be of human experience. It's okay to WANT to feel human in your DR.

You don't have to script that you always smell nice, never have acne, and your clothes always fit right. You are allowed to live in an average house and drive an average car that needs regular maintenance. It's okay if you get the wrong coffee order sometimes, or if you're a few minutes late for work. It's okay to have hair that gets greasy after a few days and to have to shave your armpits on a regular basis.

Some of these little things, these minor inconveniences, are simply a part of being human.

And what a beautiful thing to be ❤️

unpopular opinion ab shifting: there is nothing wrong with changing races. fetishizing is another topic but if someone wants to change their skin tone , race, ethnicity, nationality, then let them be. its their choice. plus we arent even our physical body we are consciousness so why does it matter? your body is like clothing, you can change it, you can take it off, theres nothing wrong with it. you have no “original” physical form so let people be. their dr is their dr. yes some things are quite questionable but its their choice. again we are NOT our physical body. or not JUST our physical body.

Did any other aroace people not care about love. Like love and relationships were nothing to you until like primary school or high school where people started to talk about crushes and then the pressure hit you? Because I remember before all that I couldn't have care less and I know I'm aroace now but because of all those pressures it's hard to let go of the idea of having a relationship and a partner? Like I've become obsessed over it even though i'm aroace and know that at one point I didn't care about it. Maybe it's just me.

Even if you can’t hear your deities, they hear you

Even if you can’t see your deities, they see you

Even if you can’t feel your deities, they’re there and they love you

i am no longer manifesting for this reality. i am shifting and never coming back.

i no longer gaf about anything in this life, not graduating, not getting a car, nothing here has an appeal for me.

i can have everything. everything i would ever want and need and all i have to do is leave. just leave and never come back. i don’t have to sacrifice anything, i don’t have to sacrifice myself to live another day.

i can just go.

May the Gods make you feel safe, loved and protected. They love you, and just another day of existing is beautiful to them.

Times that feel hard won't last forever 💕

Affirmations I've been using recently:

"I have decided that I'm already in my (desired reality name) desired reality."

"I have decided to shift to my (desired reality nams) desired reality."

"I have become aware of my (desired reality name) desired reality."

"I am (desired reality name)."

Me when I shift

shifters after shifting to their dr and staying there for a very long time and coming back to their cr:

is anyone else excited to shift to a reality where phones don't exist? like i see people on tiktok and such giving advice for scripting phones and devices but i'm EXCITED to no longer have a phone. as convenient as they are i feel like they really take away from really connecting with people and, quite honestly, have really lowered my attention span (a big thank you to social media). like i'm not going to pretend i don't love my phone but i just feel like i'll be a much happier person once i don't have it with me for days if not months on end in the future.