Lced-coffee - Came For Chaos, Stayed For Cookies

Another style thing

barbie day

Shop Preorders Close on Thursday! (10/19)

Small update since shop closes this week!

Merch has been ordered and most items should go into production this week. The Ingo variant of the linked charm has sold out, but I'll be keeping some extras of everything set aside to put up after preorders have shipped out to people, for people who may have missed out on the preorder period!

Here's also a preview of the Sneasel buttons! I'm super happy with how they've come out, can't wait to hold 'em! :D

Alright. Black it is. Thanks y'all!

pls help

wow, slam dunk for Legends. Thanks for voting!

I've had Legends for a month without touching it, but all my data for Sword got deleted and I have to start over.

bro paused his ice bath and barbie movie marathon to help a bro out, what a cool guy.

Found at a goodwill outlet in Colorado

If you are a late diagnosed autistic and/or ADHDer, you may discover a very odd comment being thrown your way that will have you questioning everything:

"You didn't used to act this autistic/ADHD".

You'll stop, look at your actions and wonder "fuck... Am I faking all this because I've been diagnosed?"

No. No you are not.

What you are experiencing (and what they are seeing) is known as unmasking.

Diagnosis (for many late diagnosed adults) is a long sought after answer. Before diagnosis we often suppress all our needs, including stimming, hyperactivity, difficulties concentrating, force ourselves to go out, socialise etc.

Diagnosis is the first time we feel we have permission to not kill ourselves for the sake of a 2 hour dinner party. And we say "no, thank you" or we stim more to concentrate or cope instead of holding it all in.

And NT people see that and say "this is different. People don't change unless something is wrong with them. So, something is wrong with what they're doing."

But there is nothing wrong with unmasking. It's scary, sometimes necessary... But it's never wrong.

Ingo is never beating the sleepy boy accusations.