Something I have noticed within the many social media areas of the community including but not limited to tumblr, discord, reddit, etc is that there seems to be a big obsession on dividing everyone.
-Talking down upon or hating what is seen as the stereotypical regressor (people that like pastels, pretty dresses, feminine etc)
-Talking down upon or hating more masculine regressors whether male, female, trans or otherwise. Because they don't fit into some stupid box.
-Tall, short, skinny, fat, black, Asian, European etc whatever it is some part of the community will say that isn't the 'true' way to regress.
I've seen posts of people complaining that there is an oversaturation of whatever group of regressors. I've seen people complaining about minors that regress, I've seen people complaining that adults regress. There's constant streams of drama going on.
There's just so much drama. And I feel bad. I feel bad for the pastel girly regressors that people are mad at because they're the known regressor 'aethestic'. As if those individuals are not allowed to post so that others don't feel bad for not looking or being like them. As if they are the route cause of every issue within the community. I personally feel like that's an unfair expectation on them to have to hide who they are just to appease random strangers.
That sentiment goes out to every different 'type' of regressor. No one should have to explain or hide away themselves just because someone else is mad that they portray their regression in a way that does not conform to what they want regression to look like.
It feels like people seem to forget that out of the many things that make us different there is one thing that unites us.
We regress for whatever reason. Whether it's trauma related, a way to relieve stress or simply for fun. Regression is something we all have in common.
Everyone is valid.
Whether you're a girl,boy, trans or other gender.
Whether you're white, black, Asian or any other nationality, or colour of skin.
Whether you like bugs, cars and dirt, or pretty dresses, bows, barbie and pastels. Or if you're like myself and prefer more darker, macabre things.
I could go on and on about differences, but I'd be here all day.
I would like to see everyone being able to be friendly and if that's not possible then civil to each other at least.
To uplift EVERYONE and ANYONE within the community.
Enjoy what makes everyone unique and the same.
I know this isn't going to fix everything and I understand that there will be people that think I'm chatting out my butt.
But for the people that agree, please share to show that you are here for every type of regressor and your blog is a safe place.
i think i want to tell my online friends about my age regression. it's something i've been wanting to do for a while, but i've just been really scared to. but i was giving my friend relationship advice the other day and even though theirs was romantic, i think it still applies to friendship.
i told them that they shouldn't feel like they have to hide parts of themselves from their partner. their partner should love all parts of them without any conditions.
and i just feel like i want to tell them. i want to be able to share this part of me with them. i'm not expecting anything from them. like, i think it's a good thing to try and identify what you want out of telling someone something before you do it. and i think i just want their validation that they'll still be my friend. i don't expect them to babysit me or baby talk with me or anything like that. i just want to feel like i can be myself with them. and having this secret just makes me feel very distant from them and i hate that. i want to feel close to them again and i feel like this might be the way to do it. i'm just scared.
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i had a question! if i were to make a shop specifically for age regressors that sold some different stuff, would anyone buy from it? here's some of the things i'm thinking of selling:
custom pacis
paci clips
custom paci containers
embroidered t-shirts
bracelets from embroidery thread
i just want to spend my monies on new stuffies and things so i can try making pacis, but instead i have to save for so many things like my friend meetup, my monthly payment to my mom for student loans, and to get christmas presents for people. i wish i could just get on disability 😖
i met someone on a dating app and when i told them i age regress, they were so nice about it!! they said they know what it is and that if we do end up entering a relationship, they would be okay with being my caregiver as long as i communicate what i need because they've never been a caregiver before. but we had a really nice talk! we called for like an hour to get to know each other and they were so nice and sweet and they're really pretty and i'm so excited to get to know them more! and they only live like an hour away!!
shoutout to regressors who:
have facial hair
have body hair
are men or masculine-aligned
regress to a teen or younger adult
arent “aesthetic”
dont fit beauty standards
cant or dont have gear
experience intrusive thoughts
dont like to be touched
cant form words when regressed
cant form words when big
experience flashbacks when regressed
regress to give themselves the past they never had
have dermatillomania or other compulsive disorders
experience joint pain
i see you, you are loved, you are as important as any other regressor. you deserve to express your regression and feel safe.
★ I have an Instagram, too ★
I think there should be baby showers for age regressors and dreamers.
Think of it as like a ceremony to celebrate a special type of change in your life. Some ways of having a baby shower for your agere could be…
-a whole party! Have others bring you little items and toys and snacks, play games, find your regression age, each guest gets to adopt a stuffie, and talk about your journey.
-a small celebration between you and your caregiver. You get a small (or huge!) gift from them as a congratulations or a sort of “I’m so happy to be your caregiver” action, ending with cuddles and a movie or as small as reading to your tiny at the end of the night.
-Simply for yourself! Treat yourself to a basic regression kit or a whole haul! Or even just a stuffie to celebrate your acceptance towards your own regression/dreaming lifestyle.
to the little ones who didn't get out of bed today.
To the Caregivers who haven't had the energy to care-give!
To the Caregivers/Littles who barely ate or are only now getting something. Im proud of you
To the littles who don't have the energy to regress
To the Caregivers who Simply Existed today
To the littles who are trying their bests.
To the caregivers doing the best they can.
I see you, and i'm proud of you. Its okay to have off days, Its okay to have unproductive weeks. You'll get back into it in no time, just rest for now, take care of yourselves. - Syris <3
♡ Curse when little ♡ Don't use any gear ♡ Have an active sex life out of age regression ♡ Dont want a caregiver ♡ Dont always listen/watch PG rated things when little ♡ Are a system ♡ Are drop outs ♡ Still live with there parents ♡ Are straight ♡ Don't want to tell others about there reggresion ♡ Are open about there reggresion ♡ Are disabled ♡ Are married
"age regression is a trauma coping mechanism, why don't people post about their trauma regression, why is regression seen as cute and fun always, there's not enough posts about trauma regressors! regression is becoming a hobby now >:(!"
LET PEOPLE REGRESS FOR FUN AND ENJOY THEIR CUTESY REGRESSION, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD. if your regression is purely negative and trauma based, then fine! you post about it! but everyone knows regression isn't always cutesy and aesthetic - you don't need to bash people who regress for fun or enjoy said aesthetics, paci edits, etc, just to get a point across that the agere community as a whole already knows. because we all know that agere isn't all sunshine and rainbows already.
some people want regression to be their hobby, or for fun, or because they enjoy cutesy things. heck, my regression is also heavily linked with trauma and coping - but forgive me for not wanting to post about my literal trauma and the negative parts of my regression for people online to see, and instead focusing on the positives of my regression and cutesy aesthetics i enjoy whilst small.
there's nothing wrong with regressing just because you want to, as a hobby, or because it's fun. just because someone doesn't regress due to trauma, or they do but they'd rather not focus on that aspect of it, doesn't make their regression or their content any less valid. we don't have to be sharing our traumas or the bad parts of our regression in order to be taken seriously or seen as valid regressors if we don't want to. thanks.
Shoutout to regressors who don't look like babies!!
Maybe you're tall, have a deep voice, or have a mature face or figure? Or you use an assistive device that's generally viewed as an Adult Thing? (e.g. canes, crutches, hearing aids, dentures, etc.) You are awesome and cool and a baby!!
Aside from unchangeable traits, I'm also thinking about lifestyle preferences. Maybe you have defined muscles from working out? Or maybe you have adult-like tastes in consumption, and even when you're small, you still dress like a grown-up and take your coffee black? Well, guess what!! You are awesome and cool and a baby!!
Also, also, people who regress partway while doing Adult Tasks! Deep cleaning your living space while using a sippy cup is awesome. Reading college textbooks while snuggled up with a stuffie is also awesome!!
Grown-up-looking regressors I love u all
hihi everyone! this is your reminder that if you live in the us and you're over 18 then you should register to vote! it's super easy and it can be done online in most states (if not all). you can also request to vote early or get a mail-in ballot if going to vote with everyone else makes you nervous! i know i might do that this year tbh because crowds are scary hehe
tips for depressed, chronically ill, & disabled littles.
please reblog to help spread awareness!
it can sometimes be hard to feel little when you spend a lot of time in pain, bedridden, dealing with scary big thoughts, or any of the other things that can accompany mental or physical disabilities so these are things u can do to feel small with little effort.
ᯓ★ keep soft blankets + stuffies near you
literally what’s smaller than having your soft little comfort plushes with you? this is probably the easiest thing u can do that will make you feel at least a little smaller.
ᯓ★ download mobile games for kids
if you aren’t someone who can get up and down off the floor or if you’re in a lot of pain, or if its just a rough day and you want to stay in bed little kid games are good for feeling tiny.
ᯓ★ play baby music or soft lullabies
if you’re not feeling up to playing at all and just need to rest, lullabies and nursery rhymes are rlly good for helping you rest and helping you feel tiny.
ᯓ★ age regression fanfic
this might sound silly but for littles with chronic pain something that genuinely can help is mood boards, one shots, etc. about ur favorite fictional cgs.
ᯓ★ think of your ‘lazy’ clothes as baby clothes
toddlers and babies are almost always dressed in comfy soft clothes so if you’re always in your soft sweatpants or cozy pjs to alleviate discomfort it’s just like little kids getting dressed in their soft little clothes!
ᯓ★ middle regression is always an option
if you’re worried about regressing because you have to take care of yourself (ex. handle a walking aid, medicine, etc.) middle regression is super accessible because you can be regressed and do a lot of the things big you can already do
middle regression can also entail less rambunctious/active play (videos games, reading, coloring, etc.)
ᯓ★ audio books
if you look up ‘audio kids books’ or some form of that on youtube you can find kids stories read aloud! its something super fun that can make you feel small and you can do it anywhere at anytime.
ᯓ★ calming kids activities
there are a whole bunch of websites that have ‘calm down’ activities for when kids are winding down from rambunctious play (playing with play dough, sensory toys, singing abcs/nursery rhyme games)
ᯓ★ remember not all regression looks the same
you don’t have to do anything to be small or to be valid as a regressor, regression looks different for everyone. there are ppl who regress and watch horror movies or ppl who regress while doing big kid things like going to the store or to school. your disability, no matter what form it comes in, does not invalidate your regression.
if you’re a little with disabilities, mama koda loves you!!
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mutsu water looper !! they’re like a mix of a virtual pet and a water toy, they are shy at first like a real pet, but when you keep playing with them they will warm up to you !!!
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i get so sad when i'm sleepy. i just wish i had someone to hold me and make it all better .
why do stuffed animals cost money bro
does anyone know any specifically sfw instagram and/or etsy sellers who are taking paci customs? i really want one cuz i only have old plain ones i didn't take care of so they're all nasty
looook at her 😭😭😭 I think the peak of webkinz was after my own virtual pet phase but I have to admit the physical plushies are surprisingly well designed AND made for a web game tie-in toy line. I might...... get a couple more. Later.