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hi. i don’t really know where to start with this. my dad got into a car accident on monday. i won’t give the details of it but i’ll just say he’s been negligent with his health despite numerous interventions. he is going to need 24 hour care at home until he is better. my mother and i can’t afford to take off work, but someone will have to to make sure he’s okay. he had to go back to the hospital today because he can’t breathe. on top of this i am trying to get out of my house completely to distance myself from the toxicity and the stress. my mental, emotional, and physical health are suffering immensely as my relationship with him crumbles. i’m currently couch surfing as i can while trying to balance work and school and him. i’m in a really rough spot right now. i am just asking that if anyone has anything to spare me i would be immensely thankful. if you email or message me after donating i would be happy to make you custom jewlery, a fic, anything i can. my details are below. thank you so much for reading.

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Baby Daddy Stanley | HC

Pairing: SugarDaddy!Stan Uris x Reader (21+)

Warnings: Fluff, some language, alcohol, mention of sex, mention of a Sugar Daddy kind of relationship, also mention of unprotected sex, an implicit breeding kink and unplanned pregnancy

A/n: I know it’s Stanley again, I’m sorry. The man just won’t go away from my thoughts and people were talking about this concept at @soulwillower asks the other day so EXCUSE ME, I do be simping over it

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Stan and you met at a bar once

You entered the place with a couple of college friends alongside you

And he knew you were going to be his the moment he first laid his eyes on you, over his whiskey glass, while his friend Eddie talked about issues involving the company they worked for

You were the quieter among the other girls ordering beers by the counter

And you ordered a dry martini, what made him smirk from distance

He didn’t hesitate approaching you the moment your friends left for the bathroom

And you let him buy you a drink because he had the smoothest voice you’ve ever heard

And the rest is history

It all ended up with an “informal relationship” between the two of you

Or, more explicitly, he was your sugar daddy

He was in his early forties, although he had the minimum grayish strands through his curls

And you on your twenties, fresh out of college

You had your loft, he had his apartment, but you’d regularly sleep at each other’s places

He liked spoiling you, yes, but you knew it was not the top of the game for you

Neither was the amazing sex, although it always made you sore and smiley the next day

Things went like that for almost a year when what happened, happened

You found yourself at your bathroom, looking at a pee-stick

You’d call that devilish little thing like that

Because it had two strong blue marks popping at you

And you were already feeling sick of your stomach, but that made you throw up again right away

You were absolutely not ready

Too young, too unprepared, too everything-that-for-sure-wouldn’t-go-with-that-situation

And you just didn’t know how to tell Stan he was going to be a daddy

A real daddy

So you ended up mumbling it when he came home later, after his job

He had rolled up sleeves and a loosen tie

Bringing you Wendy’s because he felt you down lately and that was his “princess’ favorite, in spite of being pure crap”

He always said that like he didn’t ate a whole pack of fries in a blink

And you mumbled the news while he was putting the bags down onto your counter

“You’re... What?”

He didn’t sound angry, but you couldn’t judge how he looked like because you couldn’t see his face

“I’m pregnant”

He remained silent for a while and you froze in time

That was absolutely not meant to be

Yes, he most of the time came inside of you because you both liked it that way

He was just crazy about filling you up with a part of him

But not like that

“I swear I took all the pills right, Stan, I don-“

But you were cut off by his lips on yours

It was a passionate kiss that sent goosebumps up your spine and warmed you from the inside

Cause you knew he was an amazing man, but this was not in the game

And you really feared he would leave you or something

But he didn’t

He took you in his arms and kissed you for a long moment

And when he pulled away, his hands on your cheeks, he looked down at you in awe

With a big smile on his face

“Say it again, babylove. For God’s sake, say it again.”

You chuckled and did, relieved tears sparkling in your eyes when he hugged you tightly against his chest

And you kept smiling alone as you set the small table for two while he took a shower

And the two of you kept smiling through the Wendy’s dinner, talking about setting up the doctors appointments and all the stuff that needed to be rearranged

And later you were laying down on the couch, between his legs, back against his chest

His fingers running through your hair and massaging your scalp

“Maybe now you’ll move in with me?” he asked

Your eyelids felt heavy after the adrenaline peak from earlier, but you smirked

He already asked you for that, a couple times and more implicit ways, but you always denied, deeply afraid of changes

But now it was there, inside you, tinier than a bean

“Yeah, maybe I will”

And you knew he smiled, chin resting on the top of your head

Stan’s other hand left its spot on your thigh and rested on your lower belly

And you couldn’t help to let yours rest on his, distractedly, while you two watched the comedy show of one of his friends

“Oh, God, eleven out of ten words he says are ‘fuck’”

“Yeah, Richie is never meeting our baby girl.”

“It’s a girl, then?” Your grinned

“Of course it’s a girl.”

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don’t scroll past without reblogging this! save a life!

THROUGH A RAPIST’S EYES” (PLS TAKE TIME TO READ THIS. It may save a life, It may save your life.)

An Article from Neena Susan Thomas

“Through a rapist’s eyes. A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interview…ed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.

3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.

4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.

5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.

6] Number three is public restrooms.

7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.

8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.

10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.

POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:

1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk: can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.

2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and armpit or in the upper inner thigh – HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.

5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of there.

6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel little silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ….

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.

2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:

a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .

b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry.

If u have compassion reblog this post. ‘Helping hands are better than Praying Lips’ – give us your helping hand.

REBLOG THIS AND LET EVERY GIRL KNOW AT LEAST PEOPLE WILL KNOW WHATS GOING ON IN THIS WORLD. So please reblog this….Your one reblog can Help to spread this information.

THIS COULD ACTUALLY SAVE A LIFE.”

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