Recently, I Came Out To A Close Friend. He's Cis, But He Supported Me And Accepted Me As Soon As I Told

recently, i came out to a close friend. he's cis, but he supported me and accepted me as soon as i told him. it was a good, pleasant experience.

however, there was a bad side to it.

he kept asking me why i didn't come out to everyone in my life, since i had finally come out to him.

he didn't quite understand when i told him, so he began to out me to people i knew and people i didn't even know. so many people found out i was trans, and so many people began to fear me, dislike me, or even want to hurt me. i am in danger now, and i have to try and cover up my identity because of this. (southern states are not the safest place for trans people.)

if someone comes out to you and doesn't come out to other people, that doesn't mean you have any right to out them yourselves. it could put them at risk, and it would be your fault.

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