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you guys ever have a rough day and suddenly there's 20 more lil silly guys in here ?
blurry ( they / them ) , n / a ,
shout out to plurals who’s frequent fronters change all the time.
shout out to alters who are afraid of not fronting all the time, either because theyre so use to it or they’re afraid they wont get to front again.
shout out to systems who wish they had a more consistent rotation of fronters and wish it wasn’t so come and go with system members.
shout out to alters who like fronting.
shout out to members who get frontstuck regularly.
and shout out to systems trying to find a middle ground between being front stuck and having completely inconsistent fronters.
being fictive-heavy like 11% of the time: wow blorbo from My Mind say hi to blorbo my best friend blorbo
being fictive heavy the other 89% of the time: everyone promise to be normal. can i talk about my alter blorbo will you all be nice to blorbo or do they need to hide from you. can we engage in fandom at all. can we talk to anyone who knows about blorbos source. blorbo are you okay
we're learning more about our headspace! or er, forming more of it. I get the feeling that the 'den' im remembering has been around for a while though. it's down the hall and down a set of stairs on the left from Wheeljack's lab. the light is always off, Prowl seems to live there/j. there's a crybertronian-sized(like everything else) couch n tv and stuff. Bee plays games there, there's Star's uhh,, homebrew things around and taking up a desk. all n all, very homey. it's a cooler living room
anyway happy to have a more grounded headspace again 💥
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Coining post? Just checking if anyone else says it too? Is this a Common Thing but I’ve just never seen it? Anyway-
(Jazz hands) “Canonself”
Idk, I came up with it bc I always struggled to differentiate “me who’s a fictive sourced from VotV” and “the videogame model used in VotV” or, more generally, “this world’s characterization and usage of that character” versus “me the actual living/thinking person” yk?
It’s almost functioned for me like how “theriform” works for nonhumans, the distinction being made without getting into dysphoric “the ‘real’ you” terms or, just always having to explain it so exhaustingly bc “the one from the game” could be either of us
Also bc I don’t wanna keep calling my canonself “the human one” granted I’m an android bc that feels,, demeaning, somehow
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Making a post like this since I wasn’t able to find one but-
introjects are allowed to be upset when something bad happens to their source, actually!
introjects are also allowed to be upset if you’re rude about their source. I think they’re allowed to be upset at you for being a dick about the very thing that inspired their existence. (within reason)
introjects do not have to source-separate! A certain degree of separation is necessary to function, but asking an introject to just force source separation when they do not want it is not only rude, but also incredibly harmful! It can be really damaging.
source separation is a personal choice! Not a requirement. Hell, some introjects have the emotions and complexities surrounding their source baked into them as a part of how they function and who they are. It’s not possible for every introject to source-separate.
Introjects are allowed to feel strongly about the things that have influenced their existence, whether it be simple loose inspiration or being the exact body and life they lived in. End of discussion.
i keep seeing misinformation about this, so: queerplatonic relationships do not have a set definition. the name comes from the idea that it's "queering" the platonic relationship, tailoring it to the individual relationships' own desires. it isn't necessarily romance lite, but it also isn't necessarily whatever definition you want to impose on it. the point of queering the platonic relationship is to break away from strict allonormative views on friendship, romance, and sex, not to make a new categorical box to fit in.
the answer to "what is a qpr?" is "whatever you want it to be." sometimes that is romance lite. sometimes it's a deeply committed friendship. sometimes it's friends who have a sexual relationship. sometimes it's based on an entirely different mode of attraction. sometimes it's fluid and impossible to put into words. it's whatever you want it to be. it's queer.