this post is from my personal tbr and to watch lists so i haven’t seen and read everything on this list but most are talked about in the dark academia community, it’ll help you understand the aesthetic better/immerse yourself in it. also some of the movies are absolute rubbish but they’re nice to laugh at so :) enjoy
movies:
loving vincent (2017)
only lovers left alive (2013)
the dreamers (2003)
mary shelley (2017)
wilde (1997)
wuthering heights (1992)
the beguiled (2017)
picnic at hanging rock (1975)
another country (1984)
the riot club (2014)
the oxford murders (2008)
kill your darlings (2013)
dead poets society (1989)
stoker (2013)
the talented mr. ripley (1999)
little women (2019)
portrait of a lady on fire (2019)
the goldfinch (2019)
maurice (1987)
the picture of dorian gray (do Not watch the 2009 one, it is very cursed)
books:
paradise lost by john milton
if we were villains by m. l. rio
the secret history by donna tartt
the goldfinch by donna tartt
the little friend by donna tartt
the picture of dorian gray by oscar wilde
the strange case of dr jekyll and mr hyde by robert louis stevenson
killing commendatore by haruki murakami
the bell jar by sylvia plath
ariel by sylvia plath
the book of disquiet by fernando pessoa
inferno by dante
who killed mr. chippendale by mel glenn
and then there were none by agatha christie
the winter of our discontent by john steinback
the lake of dead languages by carol goodman
wuthering heights by emily brontë
the master and margarita by mikhail bulgakov
brideshead revisited by evelyn waugh
the song of achilles by madeline miller
circe by madeline miller
a separate peace by john knowles
the well of loneliness by radclyffe hall
maurice by e. m. forster
among the bohemians by virginia nicholson
jonathan strange and mr norrell by susanna clarke
the greek myths by robert graves*
the twelve olympians by charles seltman*
mythos by stephen fry*
heroes by stephen fry*
the count of monte cristo by alexandre dumas
the magicians trilogy by lev grossman
ninth house by leigh bardugo
interview with the vampire by anne rice
the talented mr. ripley by partricia highsmith
lords and ladies by sir terry pratchett
memoirs of hadrian by marguerite yourcenar
spqr: a history of ancient rome by mary beard*
homosexuality and civilisation by louis crompton*
house of leaves by mark z. danielewski
the iliad by homer
odyssey by homer
metamorphoses by ovid
the oresteia by aeschylus
*these books are more like research sources
if you want more specific lists like gothic books, mystery books, magic/fantasy related, etc. let me know!
Crap. Yet again, I forgot to seize the day.
Chunky flakes
this is unfair. it’s always, “hi, how are you?” and never, “you have bewitched me, body and soul, and i love, i love, i love you. and wish from this day forth never to be parted from you” :(
hi just a reminder this was the decade that lemony snicket wrote ‘I will love you as misfortune loves orphans, as fire loves innocence and as justice loves to sit and watch everything go wrong’ and I think it is the greatest love poem in existence
photo: @jjj_.in on instagram
push yourself to get up before the rest of the world - start with 7am, then 6am, then 5:30am. go to the nearest hill with a big coat and a scarf and watch the sun rise.
push yourself to fall asleep earlier - start with 11pm, then 10pm, then 9pm. wake up in the morning feeling re-energized and comfortable.
get into the habit of cooking yourself a beautiful breakfast. fry tomatoes and mushrooms in real butter and garlic, fry an egg, slice up a fresh avocado and squirt way too much lemon on it. sit and eat it and do nothing else.
stretch. start by reaching for the sky as hard as you can, then trying to touch your toes. roll your head. stretch your fingers. stretch everything.
buy a 1L water bottle. start with pushing yourself to drink the whole thing in a day, then try drinking it twice.
buy a beautiful diary and a beautiful black pen. write down everything you do, including dinner dates, appointments, assignments, coffees, what you need to do that day. no detail is too small.
strip your bed of your sheets and empty your underwear draw into the washing machine. put a massive scoop of scented fabric softener in there and wash. make your bed in full.
organise your room. fold all your clothes (and bag what you don’t want), clean your mirror, your laptop, vacuum the floor. light a beautiful candle.
have a luxurious shower with your favourite music playing. wash your hair, scrub your body, brush your teeth. lather your whole body in moisturiser, get familiar with the part between your toes, your inner thighs, the back of your neck.
push yourself to go for a walk. take your headphones, go to the beach and walk. smile at strangers walking the other way and be surprised how many smile back. bring your dog and observe the dog’s behaviour. realise you can learn from your dog.
message old friends with personal jokes. reminisce. suggest a catch up soon, even if you don’t follow through. push yourself to follow through.
think long and hard about what interests you. crime? sex? boarding school? long-forgotten romance etiquette? find a book about it and read it. there is a book about literally everything.
become the person you would ideally fall in love with. let cars merge into your lane when driving. pay double for parking tickets and leave a second one in the machine. stick your tongue out at babies. compliment people on their cute clothes. challenge yourself to not ridicule anyone for a whole day. then two. then a week. walk with a straight posture. look people in the eye. ask people about their story. talk to acquaintances so they become friends.
lie in the sunshine. daydream about the life you would lead if failure wasn’t a thing. open your eyes. take small steps to make it happen for you.
flowers blooming
hugging someone after a long time
wandering in bookstores
late night talks
listening to vinyl records
walking through forests
the smell of rain
dancing late at night
fairy lights
seeing jellyfish
listening to nature in the morning
flower meadows