And right after my last update where I was complaining about not seeing any movement:
I started seeing a lot of angel numbers again and I even had a dream that we were on a festival and that we were together and he was kissing me all the time aaahhhhhhh๐ฅน
Really? You don't know?
Ok lemme ask you this. What are you thinking about them? Imagining your dream relationship together? How obsessed is he with you? How he'd do anything just to see you smile? Or how he's ignoring you? How he apparently told you it's over? Or How he seems to be doing just great without you?
Cause whatever it is I have to say you are exactly right. He is thinking exactly what you think he's thinking. I mean what other answer were you expecting???!
That's all there is to it. Now idc what happened in your 3d. I don't even care if he's right in front of you telling you that he likes someone else. It really doesn't fucking matter. How do you even know what's going on in his mind? Do u even know what is going on behind the scenes? You really think people won't change their minds in a second?
Stop ruining your manifestations by thinking what you don't want. Just focus on what you do want and quit complaining. Let him love you the way you wanna be loved. Let him do everything you don't even have to move a finger if you don't want to. It's that simple. Let it be simple ok???
That's all there is to this really. Circumstances don't matter fucking matter. All that matters is what you assume. If you want him to be obsessed then you affirm that he is. You decide. If he's not worshipping the ground that you walk on then that's because you're not letting him. (I like my man obsessed so that's why I'm like this)
Quit complicating this shit. You are the god of your reality. You're not manipulating anyone if all you're doing is affirming or visualising for what you want. It's not your fault if they end up reflecting your affirmations back to you right. I mean like c'mon.
You decide.
HOW TO DEAL WITH DOUBTS WHEN MANIFESTING SP
Manifesting a specific person is super easy!! However itโs the most common subject on manifesting communities and forums, why is that? Misinformation around this type of manifestation is CRAZY specially on tikt0k. So the first thing youโre going to do is get off that damn app please :)
Now we can proceed! The base for manifesting is the same with everything you want to manifest, and it is also applied when talking about a specific person situation.
1. HOW DO I START MANIFESTING A SP?
Assume your desire is yours already. Yes, itโs that simple. As I said, the fundamentals for manifesting anything are all the same, and that also includes your SP. He or she is yours, youโre in a relationship, h00king up or whatever you desire with this person.
2. HOW TO DEAL WITH THE 3D SHOWING ME OTHERWISE?
Ignore it. I know itโs hard, I know itโs frustrating and I know it may take time to deal with the 3D. But thatโs it, just ignore it, itโs the old story, affirm and affirm and affirm. It also helps to keep a mental diet, whenever you think something that doesnโt align with your desires, flip the thought and affirm youโre just thinking of the old story and itโs all fake and youโre together.
3. WHAT ABOUT A 3RD PARTY SITUATION?
Hey soโฆ this is YOUR reality. Why are you even thinking about a 3rd party when you are the one that gets to decide where they stand in your world? You want to get rid of them? Affirm it. No matter who SP is with, heโs always thinking about me. I am the only one for SP. SP wants a relationship with me and only me.
4. WHY IS IT TAKING SO LONG?
Itโs not. Manifestation is instant and time shouldnโt be something youโre always relying on. Why would you keep checking how many days have passed since you started your SP manifestation journey if you already have him or her? Duh. I know it can get frustrating, but just keep affirming and stop giving it that much importance tbh, thatโs how you act when something is already yours.
5. AVOID OVERDOING IT!
You donโt need a million techniques or dozens of different manifestation coaches for it to work, itโs a law after all, and itโs impossible for you to get it โwrongโ, this will just make you worried and more obsessed with looking for it in the material world, when you should just know within yourself that the 3D has no choice but to conform to your assumptions.
Feel free to send me asks, Iโm always willing to help out! I know better than anyone how lonely it can be to deal with manifestation alone <3 Happy manifesting and omg you and your SP look so good together!
Hi. IDK if this is allowed to be asked on this blog. But, I've been manifesting my sp on and off since 2022. He did the things I affirmed for, a while then when there were some inaccuracies in the 3D I started wavering and he showed up that way as well. Then I actively stopped affirming for like 3-4 months as things were going really good between us. Then when he wasn't texting me so much or any deviation from what I wanted instead of affirming again, I tried to force things in the 3D and it led to a huge fight between us and we're in NC for 3 months now. Usually, I'd affirm a lot after a fight and go talk to him on my own. But this time I wanted him to initiate it because even if it were my thoughts that made him act that way the things he said were hurtful. Usually when affirming I'd always see us together and in a loving light. But this time I'm not seeing that and I think I'm still holding onto the anger of what he did to me. I'm affirming that He's always been madly in love with me, I have always been the love of his life, and He's always been doing everything to be with me and that we've always been happily married. I did try Nadi Shodana and Ho'oponopono to reduce the anger I felt for him. It did help. Then a month back I had a random visual where he and I were married and in bed and me stroking his hair and talking. I could feel his hair and he turned and kissed my mangal sutra and I kissed him back on the forehead. After repeating that scene for a while, I could see him lovingly again. I am going to persist in affirming through the day and affirming in the night. Please do let me know if I'm going wrong if I am being stubborn for waiting for him to contact me.
I'm going to be short and to the point.
What do you want really? To be in a relationship with this person right?
Focus on that. That's all you need to do. Leave all these and just focus on your end goal. Don't be thinking how long you've been trying to manifest him or his texting or fighting. This is all just irrelevant stuff that you keep bringing in your reality which in turn is not letting you actually manifest him into your life. You are the reason why you're not together rn. But that's alright. You can choose rn to change the whole story.
You guys are together rn. You guys are so fucking happy with each other. He loves you beyond reason. That's it. That's all you need to be focussing on. Nothing else just that. Read this post as many times as you want. Let it click for you. Manifestation is just that easy. It's already done and that's it. End of story.
So, my SP is a celebrity, and I won't give any info on him beyond that, but I see a lot of y'all with celebrity SPs, and I just want to say: they are no different than a "normal" SP. Everybody is a human being no matter what. God/the universe created us all equal. They just happen to have jobs that make them popular. This is your reality, you can have anything and anybody you want ๐๐
What do you want?
Now that you know what you want, how will it feel once you have it?
Persist in that feeling. Sustain the state of the wish fulfilled.
3D conforms
Troubleshooting:
"What if I don't know what it feels like?"
Persist in knowing it'll happen. I did this when I've never fallen in love before, I did not try to conjure feelings of being in love because how the hell would I know.
"Nothing's happening."
You didn't persist enough. Random but I made a script of my dream man on May 6th, 2021. Met my bf on May 17th that year and that's when I literally had a fling in between not working out. You think if I had stopped affirming, ruminated on rejection, not finding anyone, and thinking LOA is a scam would get me to where I am today? Again, persist.
"I been at it for X amount of days/months/years"
The problem here again is persisting. I know because if you truly had your desire, the 3D wouldn't affect you, you wouldn't be counting the days and the more you don't have it (which needs to stop honestly and will only reinforce your lack).
"How do I generate belief or get to the state of the wish fulfilled?"
There's so many methods out there and no real straight answer. Affirmations, visualizing, SATs, subliminals, scripting, been seeing the term "vaunting" or "rampaging." Vision boards. I think affirmations is the most simple and bare bones way, it doesn't require as much focus and effort as say, visualizing or scripting if you're lazy about writing (or typing). It's a personal journey in finding what works for you.
"Why's it so hard?"
You're making it hard when you look to the 3D for confirmation. When they say YOU are the confirmation, it's because it all starts with you, you decide whether you have it or not. Now, I know literally there's no physical or tangible 3D evidence so you're probably like "well how am I gonna tell myself I have it when I clearly do not." WELL! That's why use your imagination. Instead of waiting for the 3D, you need to allow yourself to experience the feelings associated with your desire or just know you have it. You want a partner because you want to feel loved, beautiful, etc? Well either allow yourself those feelings and dwell in it through your imagination or if that's too hard, just knowing and feeling certain it'll happen is fine. Honestly, it all starts in allowing yourself to have your desire before it's even there yet (in the 3D).
You have to live from your imagination. Successful people got to where they are today because they ignore all odds and 3D circumstances. We say persisting, but you know, it's all the same in having a dream, staying determined, don't give up, keeping your eye on the prize, being stubborn.. LIKE FORREAL, do you think the Scrub Daddy guy gave up on his business because no one wanted to invest on Shark Tank?! Do you think people of this community got their desires by dwelling in lack and victim mentality?
That's all I gotta say. ๐ซณ๐ป๐ค
You DECIDE
"I don't want to manifest my sp for another 7 months, how can I speed up my manifestation?"
1st: don't be so 3D oriented
2nd: your 3D will conform based on your own beliefs and assumptions
3rd: You are the one who decides you are the one who decides the timing. You are the one who is the CONSCIOUS selector of YOUR reality. Take your power back.
Methods are just tools, it's YOU who manifests, not the method. Methods can just help you to get into state of the wish fulfilled.
State is the one that produces everything. Your` actions, reactions, thoughts and everything.
So don't brat yourself up over your thoughts or circumstances and just go WITHIN.
Relax and be in the knowing that its yours!
~ my sp only wants me
~ my sp contacted me
~ no matter who sp is with or whatโs he/she is doing he/she is always thinking about me
~ my sp is obsessed with me
~ my sp has constant dreams about me
~ anytime my sp looks at another girl/guy he/she he thinks about me
~ im always in my sp head
~I manifest at the speed of light
~ my sp texted me right now because i said so
The solution to everything holding you back in life is simple: knowing it's already done. You donโt need to ask the universe or beg external forces because YOU are the creator. Your imagination is the creative power through which you can manifest anything in this world. Your reality is the reflection of your thoughts, and nothing is impossible for you. This power lies within you. Thereโs nothing โout thereโ that can control you: your consciousness is all that exists.
You need to stop asking yourself, โWhat if it doesnโt work?โ or wasting energy on useless thoughts about what you donโt want. Why are you making up fake scenarios in your head? Why are you sabotaging yourself? Isnโt it ridiculously foolish to complain about not getting something you can absolutely get? The truth is: you canโt lose unless YOU allow losing to be an option. You are the one who decides. Enough with the excuses. Enough with the doubts. If youโre tired of not fulfilling your desires, then stop acting like a victim and start living as the creator you are.
Your focus is the force that creates. Every time you complain or doubt, youโre simply wasting your power. Stop focusing on what you donโt want and only think about what you do want. The problem only exists because you keep giving it energy. Your current reality is the result of your past thoughts, but this also means you can change it. If youโve created the life you have now, you can create exactly the life you desire.
Thereโs no external force that can stop you. Itโs YOU who decides, YOU who commands, YOU who is the operating power of your reality. Stop wasting time feeling sorry for yourself. Thereโs nothing you cannot manifest. If you want something, know that itโs already yours. Act now as the powerful creator you are, and watch the world transform before your eyes !!!
Don't forget to take care of your self concept : everything comes from there.
i am important to my SP.
they are lucky to have me in their life.
i bring joy, love, comfort and growth to them.
my SP is grateful to have known me as much as i am grateful to have known them.
we are mirrors to each other resulting in tremendous self-discovery.
i treat my SP as someone i love & someone who loves me. right now. despite everything. i try to be kinder and sit with my triggers that have nothing to do with them. i do not harbour resentment towards their current 3D version because i know i somewhere created this and i have the power to do differently now.
i love them for who they are right now, even if theyโre not the ideal version we want them to be and allow them to flourish into a better person. i love them through their unfinished current 3D version, the obstacles, the triggers - because my higher self knows these things are trivial in the long run.
if we continue energetically projecting โSP is not doing enough for meโ , โSP is not mirroring my affirmationsโ and โSP just loves to push all my buttonsโ, how do we expect to feel loved & cherished?
we canโt expect to receive love, adoration and contentment if we are constantly viewing our SP with the lens of scrutiny, how theyโre not enough, how theyโre not doing things for you etc. we focus so much on the lack that we forget to be kind to them. theyโre also on their own spiritual journey, theyโre too learning to live.
detach your SP from your triggers and take a good & kind look at them. understanding them , where they come from & what you can do to soothe them is something youโll learn along the way. your triggers are the key to manifesting. your triggers are an opportunity to understand why you are the way you are.
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