“You don’t fear failure. You fear your own power”
I came across this video on TikTok
It started off okay, I usually stick around for his content as he’s a great storyteller and speaks on good things. But his messages are usually pushed to the back of my mind after I scroll.
This one though- It made something click for me
I have manifested many things, and my self concept is growing stronger everyday. But there has always been something that felt off. I tend to fall back into this pattern of wavering thoughts and doubts, even though I know everything I need to and have had great success with manifestation.
But it never felt right.
I tried reworking my thoughts around failure, and assure myself that the only way things fail is if I let them. But sometimes I would get so close to knowing something is mine 100%, and then I spiral, waver and lose my grip on my desire.
Now I realize I’m scared of my power.
“You don’t fear failure, you fear your power”
We don’t fear failure. If you don’t have an inherent understanding that you are the true creator of your life, failure is common. We always find our way through. It’s not new, so it doesn’t make sense that we fear it.
Power on the other hand, it can be new to many of us. People in power are able to do basically anything within the means of their power, which usually vast. They can control entire buildings of people. They can create laws that have to be followed, destroy entire populations, control who gets to live and who doesn’t. And that is scary. But power can also be beautiful.
We put power on a pedestal, specifically the power of creation. Religions worship great beings of power, who have created the entire universe and beyond, capable of erasing any and everything with a simple thought. Humans do the same thing with other humans. When we view these beings as magnificent entities separate from us, of course the idea of being like them beyond imaginable.
A finished painting usually gets all the limelight, but the painter is the one who made it. The painting isn’t really the art work, the painter’s mind, imagination and creativity is the true art piece. The painting is just a bunch of strokes coming together to bring what exists in the artist’s mind to reality. That’s exactly what our desires are as well.
You’re just becoming the painter. You’re seeing yourself as the spearhead of what you experience. It’s not this spectacular thing, everyone has the power to create.
I think of it as similar to the creation of false idols in religion. Those things may be made of gold, silver, diamond. Fancy clothes and bags may be highly coveted after. But none of it would exist without creation. Without the ultimate creator. And that’s how we have to view ourselves. None of our desires would exist without us. They wouldn’t be thought of. We have to treat them as such and put ourselves on the pedestal.
i am important to my SP.
they are lucky to have me in their life.
i bring joy, love, comfort and growth to them.
my SP is grateful to have known me as much as i am grateful to have known them.
we are mirrors to each other resulting in tremendous self-discovery.
i treat my SP as someone i love & someone who loves me. right now. despite everything. i try to be kinder and sit with my triggers that have nothing to do with them. i do not harbour resentment towards their current 3D version because i know i somewhere created this and i have the power to do differently now.
i love them for who they are right now, even if they’re not the ideal version we want them to be and allow them to flourish into a better person. i love them through their unfinished current 3D version, the obstacles, the triggers - because my higher self knows these things are trivial in the long run.
if we continue energetically projecting “SP is not doing enough for me” , “SP is not mirroring my affirmations” and “SP just loves to push all my buttons”, how do we expect to feel loved & cherished?
we can’t expect to receive love, adoration and contentment if we are constantly viewing our SP with the lens of scrutiny, how they’re not enough, how they’re not doing things for you etc. we focus so much on the lack that we forget to be kind to them. they’re also on their own spiritual journey, they’re too learning to live.
detach your SP from your triggers and take a good & kind look at them. understanding them , where they come from & what you can do to soothe them is something you’ll learn along the way. your triggers are the key to manifesting. your triggers are an opportunity to understand why you are the way you are.
How I Made a Celebrity Obsessed with Me in 3 Days
It's something that you do every day. Persistence is like riding a bike. You fall down -> You get back up and continue riding your bike. You don't accept "falling" down as your final destination.
And just like that, you only accept your desired outcome. Because you and your desire are ONE.
So instead of complaining that you "fell" down, get up and be confident.
If you are into complaining then "complain" about actually having it.
Forget assuming you don't have it; start assuming and affirming that you do! Beacuse in fact you DO!
REMEMBER that you are the conscious creator of your reality
Another perspective on manifesting: all states are within you. As awareness, you contain these states. The state that gets pushed out physically, is the one you pay attention to the most. I will do whatever method I choose (usually affirming), with the intention of pouring my attention/energy regularly into the state I like most. As a natural consequence, I will be aware of that reality physically.
It is simply like being in a room full of TV screens that are displaying their own little story. You simply turn your attention to the screen displaying what you want to see.
Happy manifesting, my love <3
For people who are still "trying" To manifest SP
☆ Unfortunately, if you have everything planned with this one person ( Or more than one) and feel soooo good and sexy and makes you feel shy shy or some kinda shi like that, but you are just thinking if they will ever be with you or you feel like it's never going to happen. But this is your SP even if you have no fucking belief of them accepting you. They have no other choice but to treat you like a FUCKING PRIZE. BECAUSE BITCH YOU ARE!
Thank you universe for all that I have.
Thank you universe for all that I have.
Thank you universe for all that I have.
Had some signs recently of my SP!
The first one was before I left to go home yesterday, I shuffled my playlist for driving. I have 870 videos/songs in it and the first song it shuffled to was my favorite song by my SP's band.
The second one happened last weekend. After I did my journal affirmations, my mom came in to point out the sunset bc I hadn't seen it. The sun was completely red, a color I heavily associate with my SP. Ive never seen the sun here do that before and it hasn't since.
Last night, I had a dream of my SP where we hung out/went on a date in a grocery store (aka the only thing to do in a small town in the south lmao) and he was so sweet and cute. He even helped me with my walking cane, he was such a sweetheart.
Feeling hopeful!
I’ve received some asks about anxiety and worries during manifesting and I have been dealing with this as well so I decided to say some things!
first of all, none of this will get in the way of getting your desires if you assume it won’t… yes I know sometimes it’s hard to keep a mental diet about things like that, but trust me!!!! if you assume it doesn’t matter and it doesn’t affect your assumptions/desires at all, then it won’t!
living as if is basically knowing that it’s yours, so just assume that you do! we always know deep down that anxiety is just our logical side taking action, and you don’t need any of this for the law of assumption :)
just a reminder babes!!
Manifesting a Celebrity SP ☆
This is my personal advice for manifesting an SP that happens to be a celebrity!
the reason I say "happens" to be a celebrity is because loa does not see fame or superiority in celebs. the law sees everything WITHIN. What does this mean? That the celebrity you are trying to manifest is nothing more than a regular soul to the law, just like you and me.
You need to understand that just because someone has a following, fans or publicity doesn't make any difference and doesn't make it any harder to manifest them. Below, there will be a list of steps you can take if you want to manifest a celebrity SP, whether you just want to get noticed by them on social media, befriend them or be in a relationship with them.
Step 1 ;
• think of WHY you are compatible with this celebrity. Why are you more special than the rest of their fans/followers? You do not have to write this down, but I personally prefer to. You can go totally wild with this one. You can describe physical appearance, personality traits, hobbies/interests, ANYTHING. Be confident! For example; "I'm worthy because I'm beautiful, I have good humour, and I like to play the same videogames/ I like the same songs as *SP*." And NO this isn't being cocky or self absorbed, just list generally good things about yourself, make YOU feel good!!
Step 2 ;
• after you think of/write down those qualities, you can repeat reading it over to yourself, OR you can make affirmations out of it. You don't have to do this for long, just however long you feel is best [remember YOU make the rules!]
example affirmations ;
• "I am so beautiful and magnetic"
• "OMG! *Insert SP* followed me back on insta!"
• "*Instert SP* noticed me because we like the same _____ !!"
Step 3 ;
Most IMPORTANT and last step !!
Take the celebrity SP OFF THE PEDESTAL!! sit back, relax and trust yourself and the universe. Let go of the "how", let go of the "but *insert SP* has so many fans, how will they notice me??" STOP IT! Whenever you think of your SP by their status, you're creating resistance. Think of them as a human, a person with feelings, a person with good days and bad days. Have faith in yourself!
Stay bad, stay blessed 💋
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