The Older You Get The More You Will Realize That Your Friends Are People Who Have Made Mistakes And Bad

The older you get the more you will realize that your friends are people who have made mistakes and bad decisions and even just fucked up and hurt people.

And obviously your boundaries with your friends are completely up to you but you do need to recognize that if you cut off everyone who has done something wrong, you’re going to end up with no friends (and you yourself will have also fucked up in your life, and not lived up to those impossible standards either).

I’ve found it’s much more constructive to learn how to say “hey dude, that was massively fucked up of you,” because most people are really willing to say “yeah, it was, I need to work on it/not do it again/apologize and make things right” ESPECIALLY if they are hearing it from you as their friend.

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4 months ago

It was so important to me that Stolas was able to be sad throughout the entire episode. Usually media likes to rush a character's grief/depression/sadness. Like "Stop moping around" or "get over it already." Depression doesn't just go away. It is a persistent feeling of sadness.

His depression was also presented through various emotions/emotional states.

Lethargy

It Was So Important To Me That Stolas Was Able To Be Sad Throughout The Entire Episode. Usually Media
It Was So Important To Me That Stolas Was Able To Be Sad Throughout The Entire Episode. Usually Media

Crying

It Was So Important To Me That Stolas Was Able To Be Sad Throughout The Entire Episode. Usually Media
It Was So Important To Me That Stolas Was Able To Be Sad Throughout The Entire Episode. Usually Media

Anger / frustration

It Was So Important To Me That Stolas Was Able To Be Sad Throughout The Entire Episode. Usually Media
It Was So Important To Me That Stolas Was Able To Be Sad Throughout The Entire Episode. Usually Media
It Was So Important To Me That Stolas Was Able To Be Sad Throughout The Entire Episode. Usually Media

Self-blame

It Was So Important To Me That Stolas Was Able To Be Sad Throughout The Entire Episode. Usually Media
It Was So Important To Me That Stolas Was Able To Be Sad Throughout The Entire Episode. Usually Media
It Was So Important To Me That Stolas Was Able To Be Sad Throughout The Entire Episode. Usually Media

Not wanting company and being emotionally drained and unable to reciprocate

It Was So Important To Me That Stolas Was Able To Be Sad Throughout The Entire Episode. Usually Media
It Was So Important To Me That Stolas Was Able To Be Sad Throughout The Entire Episode. Usually Media
It Was So Important To Me That Stolas Was Able To Be Sad Throughout The Entire Episode. Usually Media

We even see him Smiling / Laughing which is so important because we see that he is still in there behind the sadness and tears. His laugh is not as lively as it once but he is still capable of smiling and finding joy.

It Was So Important To Me That Stolas Was Able To Be Sad Throughout The Entire Episode. Usually Media

His problems weren't fix in the end and his sadness didn't go away even if he has someone who loves him by his side (and even if he loves him too). And I think this is one of the best depictions I have seen of a depressed character in media in a long time.


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3 months ago

whenever someone calls USAmerican English the 'movie accent' I remember how somewhere last year I was on a train when suddenly the silence was broken by an american voice behind me somewhere and I immediately thought "Oh no, someones playing their tiktoks out loud again" and automatically turned around to put a face to my annoyance like you do when someones driving bad, and turns out a few rows down were just some actual in the flesh USAmericans having a nice conversation amongst themselves. I am sorry Americans I'm glad they let you out of the phone

9 months ago

we are not born to die!! what are you talking about!! do you think a book begins just to finish? do you think a song opens with a beautiful chord just for it to end? you don’t read the book to finish it, you read the book to eat up the excitement and the emotions it evokes!! to learn and to digest and to fall in love and be heartbroken!! you listen to the song to dance and dance and sing your throat raw!!! to cry and smile and swell with the harmonies!! yes, we are born with the inevitable fate of death, we are mortal after all, but that is merely the finale of the play!! the final act, the closing of the curtains - we are not born to take a bow and exit stage left!! we are born to love and be joyous and yell and move and learn and cry and feelfeelfeel!!!  we are not born to die, silly, we’re born to live!!!

3 months ago

good things will happen 🧿

things that are meant to be will fall into place 🧿

3 months ago

like what’s up manger

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3 months ago
They Left MAGA - Leaving MAGA
Leaving MAGA -
They Left MAGA Steve Vilchez Chicago Read His Story Erica Roach New York Read Her Story Justin Yu California Read His Story Deanna Raper Nor

This is an interesting thing. Looks like testimonies of people who left the MAGA movement- how they got into it and why.

Leaving a cult is really hard, so I really respect the people who are speaking from this place.

2 months ago

If anyone in the US is interested in how we're coping with Trump overseas, today one of my colleagues who specialises in European policy just emailed me with the opener of 'Hi Hannah, hope you're doing well despite Trump'. So there's that.

(NO, PHILIPPE. NO, I AM NOT DOING WELL DESPITE TRUMP.)

4 months ago
mari-say - Mari Say

Season's Greetings 🌲🪽📯

5 months ago

And D16 delivered indeed‼️🫡

1 month ago

you know what's wrong with me? i like information

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