For only 18+. Here you will only find respect and consensual material. I am a 50+ yr old male Dom with a female sub.This is an NSFW blog, which shares my views, interests and D/s lifestyle.
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Wenatchee, Washington, USA
Kananaski, Alberta, Canada
North Cascades National Park, Washington, USA
Glacier National Park, Montana, USA
Indeed!!! 🤭🤭
Reminded me of the Energizer Bunny.
That being said, it’s not necessarily the AMOUNT of energy, but rather how LONG the energy lasts…
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Little one, this life we now live is a spiritual one, not born of religious dogma.
We seek this sacred knowledge by delving deep within the dark corridors we kept shut for so long.
Behind every closed door, behind every mask we wear, there lie the secrets to our ascension.
We will not create nor remake anything, but newly discover those things which have awaited our return to ourselves.
Religion is for those who fear the hell within themselves.
Spiritualty is for those who have seen and felt that hell, and have chosen to embrace the darkness, which vanishes at the merest flicker of light....💜
To most, this is fantasy at best. A kink. Something to do as role play...
However.... for those of you who think they want to take that ultimate step into this realm..... ask yourself....
Can you truly imagine yourself at the complete mercy of another? Unable to think or function on your own without permission? Can you imagine being so micromanaged that you lose yourself completely in their world?
Stripped of your clothing, your possessions, your will, dignity and self esteem to the point that you can't imagine any possible way of escaping what you've gotten yourself into?
Can you imagine being simply property for another? An object? A Pet? Existing to serve His needs at the cost of your own life, your career, your friends?
This is not meant to scare you but merely strengthen your resolve and put things into perspective.
For most, this is as far as you'll ever go. Fear and uncertainty will stop you from taking another step forward.
For those few however that know the vanilla world has nothing left to offer, take the next step.
Interesting thought…
Indeed…
Brilliant!
Me: Hello God.
God: Hello ...
Me: I'm falling apart, can you put me back together?
God: I'd rather not.
I because?
God: Because you are not a puzzle.
Me: What happens to all the pieces of my life that fall to the ground?
God: Leave them there for a while. They fell for a reason. Let them be there for a while and then decide if you need to retrieve any of those pieces.
Me:. You do not understand it! I'm breaking!
God: No, you don't understand. You are transcending, evolving. What you feel are growing pains. You are detaching yourself from the things and people in your life that are holding you back. The pieces are not falling off. The pieces are being put into place. Just relax. Take a deep breath and let those things you no longer need fall off. Stop holding on to the pieces that are no longer for you. Let them go.
Me: Once I start doing that, what will I have left?
God: Only the best pieces of you.
Me: I'm afraid to change.
God: YOU ARE NOT CHANGING! YOU ARE BECOMING!
Me: Becoming, who?
God: Becoming who I created you to be! A person of light, love, charity, hope, courage, joy, mercy, grace and compassion. I made you for much more than those superficial pieces that you have decided to adorn yourself with and that you cling to with so much greed and fear. Let those things fall off I love you! Do not change! Become! Do not change! Become who I want you to be, who I created. I'm going to keep telling you this until you remember.
Me: So ... I'm not broke?
God: No, but you are breaking through the darkness, like the dawn. It is a new day
ABSOLUTELY!!!!!
Food for thought…
Indeed!
The most beautiful detail of a man
Is his hands...
To caress and to hold
Keep you warm and safe
When you are cold.....
Sex without love is as hollow and ridiculous as love without sex
Indeed!
How true; so very, very true.
And it doesn’t come easy.
But is SO valuable, and worth the effort.
In fact, someone who helps you find worth in yourself…hang on to him/her!
“You don’t find your worth in someone. You find your worth within yourself and then find someone who’s worthy of you. Remember that.”
— Unknown
𝒾𝓁 𝓈𝓊ℴ 𝒶𝓂ℴ𝓇ℯ
Indeed!
Normalize seeing someone's lack of effort as their lack of interest in you regardless of what they tell you. Giving you all of the right words, but none of the right actions is called manipulation. If a person wants to be with you, they prove it. Period.
Agreed, well expressed.
I didn’t know for the longest time that I was a sadist. In fact, in the vanilla world I am the furthest thing from what people would imagine as a dominant or sadist. Ok, maybe not the furthest thing but people are generally surprised when they find out. As I’ve discovered and explored my sadistic tendencies over the last 6 or 7 years I’ve learned that there are generally two types of masochists. I’m going to write about them as women because that is who I have experience with but I imagine that male masochists fall along the same lines. And I know that these aren’t absolutes and there are shades of gray and some people will identify with both.
The first type of masochists are the women who love pain. They get a gleam in their eye when they see the wartenberg wheel or the flogger come out. They love the feel of the adrenaline as it courses through their system and anticipate the dopamine rush. They are fun to play with and will often try to push the boundaries in order to get more of what they love.
The second type are those that need the pain. Many of them do not love it and, instead of excitement, fear is written upon their faces before the session starts. They shake and sometimes cry but want the session all the same because they often need the fear as much as the pain. It fills up an emptiness within them and sets them free in a way they don’t normally find. To be honest, these are the women I love because I’m not a sadist who loves to hurt somebody but, on some level, needs to hurt somebody and as much as I enjoy hurting somebody who loves it, I crave hurting somebody who needs it. It feels as though we are nourishing each other’s souls on the most fundamental level. Aftercare is always amazing because of the sense of shared space and the communion that just occurred.
What I’ve learned about myself is that I have a dark streak across my soul. In the normal world and in vanilla relationships I cover it and deny it and go out of my way to be kind and generous, sometimes to a fault. But that dark streak was always hungry and never satisfied in those situations. I truly enjoy playing with women who love pain but it’s only when I’m with a woman who fears it and needs it that my dark side can come into the light. It is only then that I feel complete.
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Something I don’t think gets talked about nearly enough on here is just how hot the sheer level of trust that goes into bdsm is. Someone trusting me with their deepest fantasies, what they like and dislike, such a vulnerable part of themselves is so so sexy to me. Yes of course I will do everything in my power to make your wildest dreams come true, thank you for trusting me and communicating your desires with me, thank you for being trustworthy enough for me to put my body and mind in your hands, it’s very incredibly hot of you.
Thank you for putting this out there.
People. I’m not going to keep saying this.
When someone is being submissive? Giving up some control? You respect that. They are trusting you, relying on you. Don’t fucking betray that trust. Educate yourself, be respectful and keep them safe.
When someone is dominating you, remember! Their comfort level is just as important as yours. They are relying on you to communicate your needs and problems. Don’t suffer something in silence because you want to make things easy or better.
PEOPLE ARE NOT KINK DISPENSERS. People are. People. With lives and feelings and emotions. Give your partners respect, because they are giving themselves to you.