Ok, I feel like I have to say this and I don’t know if it’s going to come off bitchy (I’ve been called this before for my opinion on this site...) or if anyone is actually going to read this and take this to heart or if I’m preaching to the choir! But I feel as if a lot of writers are giving up writing their pieces and it kills me because I’ve literally been in that same place.
I always hear people saying that the hate they receive is what helps drive them to stop doing something they love. I hate that. I hate that no matter how much love someone can get, it doesn’t matter if people continue to hate on them! I, for example, am so happy that I have enough motivation to ignore most of the hate I’ve received.
Look, I don’t care if you reblog or ignore this but if you are by chance reading this then drop a comment in your favorite writers inbox or ask box and let them know you appreciate them. Like, comment, and reblog their beautiful works. Make their notes increase as much as you can and let them know they are doing a great job. It always makes my day and I know it makes others day. Dont pester them with demands for a part 2, tell them you loved the first part and WHY! Most times when writers are asked for a part 2 they have no idea how to expand on it because they don’t know what you like about the first one. TELL THEM.
Share the love and stop the hate. Share their work. REBLOGGING IS YOUR FRIEND, REBLOG TO LET OTHERS READ THEIR WORK!
Ok, I’ve said my peace. Thank you for listening! Please share this so others can read it.
Nine Types of Industrial Pollution I 2023 I Mixed media on canvas I 210x140cm/210x180cm/210x180cm
hot fucking take but instead of the 'Jason settling down and agreeing that killing is bad always' give me a Jason who drastically cuts back on who he kills but STILL kills. give me a Jason after a long and messy reconciliation that is like 'listen Bruce, i get it, you're too good and too kind and too goddamn hopeful to believe that some people are just rotten to the core. that's ok, i get it now, and i'll do it for you. because i'm not good like you. i'll kill the people that won't change, i'll be what Gotham needs sometimes, the one thing you can't bring yourself to be' and he's not even mad. everyone says Robin's the brightness to Batman's darkness but Jason didn't come back as Robin, he's fine with being the knife in the dark, the real monster.
and a Bruce who is utterly gutted by this. he wants Jason to never kill because he remembers the bright little boy who would have hated what he became, wants Jason to not kill because he never wants Jason to wake up loathing himself for the blood on his hands and not just because he can't stand the philosophy that some people aren't worth saving he knows Jason doesn't think of himself as good most days and he doesn't think this philosophy is helping that any.
they're two ships always passing the night and never quite meeting but goddamn they build bridges and long as they have to be to stay in each other's lives.
I see a lot of posts saying "teach boys about consent".
While that is true, a lot of parents will do that and fail to see how their own actions are the problem.
If you've spanked him, he's less likely to understand consent.
If you've forced him to sit on Santa's lap, he's less likely to understand consent.
If you've forced him to give hugs and kisses to family members, he's less likely to understand consent.
If you've grabbed him in order to force him to sit still, he's less likely to understand consent.
If you've labeled him as "too sensitive" for not wanting to be touched, he's less likely to understand consent.
If you've assumed he's okay with something because he technically allowed it even though he felt pressured, he's less likely to understand consent.
If you're only going to criticize his actions but not your own, it won't work.
this is so great. fuck toxic masculinity. we need something like this stateside (x) | follow @this-is-life-actually
being weird and full of love can save you
and it might save those around you, too
REAL.
there's no temptress quite as irresistible as the mid afternoon sleepies
TV Executives: “if the strike goes on, you won’t get new episodes of your favorite shows! You won’t get new movies you were looking forward to! Isn’t that terrible, what the writers are doing to you?”
Me: Bitch, that might have been an effective threat in 2007, but we have since survived a Covid shutdown and discovered ways to amuse ourselves while we waited, we can outwait this shit, too. I got a pile of shows saved I haven’t even watched yet, and a Mt. TBR waiting for me.
Compensate (and respect) your writers for their work, assholes.
"The nonbinary afab who goes by she/her, dresses femininely, and uses a push-up bra when I—" when you what? What's wrong with her?
Is she not nonbinary enough for you? Is the way she experiences her queerness and how she presents not perfect enough for you? Nonbinary people don't owe you androgyny, right? So why is she the exception? Why does she have to hate herself to appeal to your standards? Why is she any less trans—any less worthy of respect—cause it's "not visible"? Queer solidarity my ass. Don't spout this bullshit on Pride, man.