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take your desires off the pedestal | law of assumption

hi, i'm barbie, and today i'm here to remind you (if you haven't already) to take your desire(s) off the pedestal. i'll be telling you how to do it, the benefits of doing so, and how it could affect your manifestations. and if you haven't, check out my last post !

how the pedestal can affect your manifestation

first things first, what does it mean to put something on a pedestal ?

to regard someone or something with great or excessive admiration ; to idolize.

basically, it means to make something or someone more important than others or yourself because you admire it so greatly. now even though people (including me lol) may casually put things on a pedestal outside of manifestation, it's not the wisest thing to do when it comes to what you want to manifest.

putting your desire on a pedestal can make it look unachievable and have you thinking that you'll need to put more work in to manifest it. it can also cause self-doubt, impatience, and make you feel unworthy when manifesting. you can even start to doubt your manifesting abilities ! overall, it can knock down your self concept. you're also more likely to gain a victim mindset.

here's a quick example of how putting something on a pedestal can affect oneself and their manifestation.

let's say i'm manifesting an sp, and they just happen to be a huge celebrity. instead of thinking that it's easy (which it already is), i'm treating it like a mission or a quest. saying that it's such a huge goal and it's gonna be a challenge for me. daydreaming about manifesting it as if i can't get it. i'm "trying" and i don't see any movement so i start to get desperate. i start doing bullshit "powerful" methods. i start feeling like a victim ! and i start blaming and trying to fix everything i see, when i just need to look within myself and get my shit together.

y'all see what i mean ? putting your desires on a pedestal is a goddamn set up ! but don't worry, because now it is ...

time to take your desire(s) off the pedestal !

"wait, what does it mean to take your desire off the pedestal ?"

to take your desire off the pedestal means starting to look at your desire as if it's the easiest thing in this world. realize that it's not that big of a deal ! and don't get me wrong, i bet that whatever you want to manifest is probably awesome. but what i'm trying to say is just simplify it. acknowledge your desire and know that it will be easy for you.

you wanna manifest a million dollars ? it's just paper. wanna manifest a significant other ? there is 7 billion people on this planet. they're just a person. wanna manifest a whole new appearance ? easy peasy lemon squeezy. shifting to your desired reality ? a walk in the park.

"but barbie, what do you mean it's easy ? it can't be that easy !"

yes the fuck it can be that easy. you're the god of your reality and you have been manifesting all your damn life ! so yeah, you're automatically a master at manifestation. the only reason why you feel like you can't is because you refuse to accept that you can.

and if you still don't feel like you can manifest your desire, i suggest building up your confidence and belief in yourself by manifesting "smaller" things to realize how powerful you are. and keep in mind, there is no difference between manifesting 10 dollars and 1 million dollars. you apply the meaning and "weight" to your desire; by default you can manifest anything effortlessly.

your desires are not too good to be true, and never let anyone tell you that something is difficult to manifest. manifestation is subjective, so whatever might feel like climbing a mountain for someone might just be kicking a rock for you. nothing is too good for god.

your desires aren't better than you. you are the god of your reality. the operant power. if you are a master at manifesting, how could manifesting something be difficult for you ? your desires have absolutely no power over you unless you let it. you are going to manifest and conquer it, not have it conquer you ! the only thing that you should put on the pedestal is yourself.

and since some people may initially believe that saying that you are the god of your reality gives you a god complex, i think it'll be important to quickly clear this up.

to truly know and accept the fact that you are the god of your reality also means to acknowledge and know that everyone else is the god of their reality too. remember to be a good person, and don't abuse your power by harming others or yourself. with great power comes with great responsibility !

as long as you don't think of yourself as god in a monotheistic way (since that'll just put you on the path of gaining a god complex or narcissistic traits) you'll be just fine. <3

the benefits of taking your desire off the pedestal

lemme tell y'all something. once you take your desire off that pedestal everything will truly blossom and fall into place. it'll be easier to manifest due to less effort and energy being used, and you'll just get to have way more fun. and manifestation is supposed to be fun ! you'll be less likely to have negative emotions towards manifesting, and it'll make it feel less like a chore. and ! maybe your self concept will go up once you manifest what was once on that pedestal.

so take your desire off the pedestal. yup, right now. and replace it with yourself, because you’re the only one that should be on it. period.

love, barbie ♡

dear diary,

ugh another day of being the most beautiful being on earth, life’s so easy because I’m a gorgeous gorgeous girl and gorgeous gorgeous girls get whatever they want.

i really needed this right now 

affirmations to manifest a breakthrough 🤍

-my 3d is conforming alarmingly fast

-i am seeing so much movement, it’s crazy!

-it is safe to have my desires, and i am accepting them into my life

-i have always had everything i want

-my breakthrough is on its way

-i am worthy of my desires

-my sp has to conform

-my sp is conforming right this very second

-everything is falling into place for me

-i am living my dream life

-my manifestation is here, i am so happy!

-i successfully manifested _____

-my desires are coming into fruition in the 3d as we speak

-my 3d has caught up with my desires!

-my desires are present in my 3d

-i am so powerful

-creation is finished

-i love seeing evidence of my manifestations in my 3d!

etc 🤍

first time singing in a long time

wow, its been a long time since I’ve sung aloud, and honestly I did amazing. i had been waiting for my dad to go out since my mom was at work before i started to sing and i was so nervous. initially, i started singing “pitiful children” with my headphones in so i couldn't fully hear myself (which was a bad idea). i was really struggling to hit all those notes and it sounded really bad. then i decided to use my number 1 vocal warm-up song the clone high theme. i love singing the clone high theme because once i recorded myself singing it and i sounded really good, kinda like Halsey. once i felt sufficiently warmed up i decided to go back to pitiful children and honestly it wasn't that bad but the song didn't feel like me. i didnt sound terrible while singing it but considering that legally blonde is more of a alto/soprano musical and pitiful children was more of an alto/bass song i dont think it would be good for my audition. 

eventually i found “meant to be yours” and i said fuck it and i sang without my headphones. jesus christ did i sound AMAZING. the song was so fluid and i wasnr stuggling to hit any of the notes. hell after this i might go back and sing it again. i still had the same problem with the voice parts like i did with pitiful children but tbh even if i dont use it for my audition it really boosted my ego. this makes me think why i quit chorus, i am a damn good singer, but the songs we sung in chorus sucked ass and they were all boring. 

then it felt like i found the perfect song, it was wrapped in a little bow for me and at that point i knew it was the one (i said the same thing about pitiful children but go on) it was “I LOVE PLAY REHERSAL” when i sang it i sounded BEAUTIFUL it was everything like meant to be yours but only this time i had the perfect voice part. i think this is the song im going to use for my audition, dont be surprised if i get the role of elle woods 💋 

together pangea + boredom

today has literally been a pretty boring day. it felt like the day just kept DRAGGING on and it would never end (until it did)

but i really didnt do much. i mean i sang and i practiced my guitar for <5 minutes which is pretty laughable. when i was singing i decided to record it and my recording sounded pretty good, all i need is a couple more days of practice and then ill sound sm better :’) .

anyways ive been listening to together pangeas DYE album cause if im going to see them live (crossing my fingers) i need to know their discography like the back of my hand. overall id give it a mid 7/10 (ok mr fantano) the songs were pretty good i wasnt a fan of the ones that sounded like they belong at a bible belt state daddy-daughter slow dance, but other than those its a pretty good album. i really under-appreciate TP’s music. my personal favs from DYE were “marajuana” “rapture” “wanted out” “somehow” and “ghoul” yk that one episode from bobs burgers where jimmy junior and his country ass friend create a new school anthem, thats the vibes i got from this album. rapture and somehow really make me want to dance like a character from charlie brown.

(this was me when those songs started to play)

the third thing was that i started to find ways to get more service hours. its pathetic that im a sophomore and i only have 8 hours. and the person who does the whole service things barely lets us know about the easy ones like making cards and shit. like HELLO, i would have way more hours if you gave me stuff i wanted to do. ig this defeats the whole purpose of service but hey those little care packages and cards i make really help people out so i don't want to hear it. i found this homeless shelter i can volunteer at (thats if they reply to my email) but its so close by its literally only 4 minutes away. all i really need to do is help make food plates, serve dinners, and sort and stock stuff; its a really easy job and it’ll rack up the hours in no time.

my mom came back from work and her secret santa gave her such nice goodies. she got her the 16 pack ferrero roche’s (which i took ofc...well she gave them to me) and a nice smelling candle. because moms secret santa gave her a candle she wants to give her secret santa a candle, i told her she should do it but she already got her a mug and a $25 giftcard i think giving her MY AEROPOSTALE CANDLE thats smells amazing btw is going a little bit overboard.

alright thats enough updating for today see you tomorrow you beautiful queen 

how to manifest

╰ 📯 loa encyclopedia — law of assumption 101

this is a short & quick post but being in a community like this one is understandably confusing. you have reddit, instagram, youtube, amino, tiktok and tumblr and they all have very different ways of approaching the law of assumption. and also different limiting beliefs! the biggest one is how exactly to manifest.

sammy ingram based platforms (ig, youtube and tiktok) say affirming and ignoring the 3d is what manifests

neville says "change your conception of yourself and you will automatically change the world in which you live" AND "believe that you are which you want to be"

from these two quotes we can deduce that states manifest. this is why you don't need methods, you don't need a full moon or positive water. all you need is yourself and your imagination!

what did you do to perfect your sc so fast omg??

Okay so here’s the highly anticipated explanation of how I, Hera Huxtable, acquired my self concept within 24 hours. It’s a bit of a personal story tied with past association so if you’ve followed me for some time you’ve likely heard of these two and I swear they’re both relevant to my self concept story. I've never explained it to this extent though.

To vaguely discuss the past association I connected this instance of acquiring my self concept to the time I decided I was that bitch out of the blue and persisted in that assumption (I can tell you wholeheartedly that this is the reason why I have never struggled with being insecure physically) but I'll talk a little more about this later.

Moving onto the personal story I discovered the law of assumption around late July/early August right and I kinda sorta knew about the God thing but hadn’t really dived deep into it. This also came to be around the time my best friend and I came to the decision to no longer be friends. When we split I took it quite hard and I made the decision to give myself 24 hours to cry it out be sad about it and move on (it ended up happening within 5 hours by the way) which was a new thing for me because this was way back when I repulsively resonated with the cancer sun title (being an emotional crybaby). And you know what happened when I established that time limit for myself? I snapped. For the first time I simply decided, “you know what? I’m not gonna let myself feel miserable over this any longer and nothing is gonna make me feel this shitty ever again” and with that decision also came “I'm done being a whiny ass victim and I'm done being someone I don't wanna be”. That same week was when I immersed myself in the law of assumption and started learning more by reading Neville’s lectures and like I said I was still relatively new to the God thing and I didn’t know how literal it was, I just knew you could manifest absolutely anything and with that knowledge my peace of mind grew. It was very comforting knowing that I could always get my best friend back if I ever wanted to, which sped up the healing process and I also mentioned that as my self concept increased more and more by the day I eventually lost absolute interest in getting them back and I moved on completely. That same week I also learned about EIYPO and had to come to terms that it was my fault and I was the one who manifested us not being friends anymore all the while it made little to no sense to me because WHY would I want to not have my best friend anymore? But it didn’t matter whether it made sense or not I held myself accountable for it and accepted that I was the root of the issue and the fact that I could also undo it made it less of a big deal to me so it was like ok fine I did it whatever. (You’ll see why I mentioned this bit as well shortly)

That day I decided I had enough of the victim mentality and because of that I have never dealt with spirals, impatience, insecurities or any of that unfavorable stuff. It was just like “yeah I'm that bitch and I always get what I want idc about anything else I'm not accepting shit I don’t want and don’t deserve from here on out”. And of course there were instances that challenged my self concept but I knew better than to let anything from the 3D matter or define me which goes back to that whole confidence angle I mentioned at the beginning because listen I had people that had something to say about my confidence but I never cared and never paid attention so that’s why self concept is so reminiscent of how I picked up my confidence, it was just deciding, persisting and placing myself on a pedestal. You focus on the new version of you that you want to be and you turn your attention away from everything that dares challenge or question that.

If you ever spiral after reading this, I advise you to try a similar approach to my story. Take advantage of all the intense emotions that you’re feeling, decide that it's the last time you will ever feel that way and use it as motivation to sever ties with that old you. See that person spiraling as an image of self that you’ve had enough of. Decide that you will no longer identify with that non serving version of yourself that is quite literally interfering with the version of you that CAN get what they want. I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again: it always starts with you. You have to be the one to put your foot down and finally decide to stop yourself from continuing to be the source of your own sabotage because there will never be anyone to blame and there will never be anyone to change but self. For once you just need to hold yourself accountable no matter how uncomfortable it may feel because at the end of the day this is something you’re doing for YOURSELF and no one else. Remember that before you make the decision to wallow in the victim mentality once more, my love. I know it can be mildly uncomfortable territory to call yourself out like that especially when you're accustomed to comforting yourself by thinking that the world is the problem instead of you but I promise you that when you choose to make that decision for yourself, you will look back and wonder why you didn't do it sooner. It's one of the best decisions I have ever made for myself and I can assure you it will most definitely be the same for you too ଘ(੭ˊᵕˋ)੭

When I manifested an SP during bad circumstances I had an OC for him in my mind and he’d reassure me that he was in love with me and if something unfavorable happened he’d say “Hey, It’s okay, the 3D is confirming, it had confirmed, just focus on me sweetheart okay?”

It was so much fun. Recommend.

a lot of y’all on loa tumblr need to work on y’all self concept. y’all deadass have the worst mindsets i’ve ever seen and y’all will sit there and complain about not getting your manifestations as if that’s anybody fault except your own. i worked on my self concept for half a day and saw improvement in my manifestations instantly & y’all talk about how you’ve been doing this for years with no result. like babe all anyone can say is work on that self concept. y’all put yourself in the victim mind space and go crying to the loa acc and it’s really annoying bc all these acc ever say is mindset is key,self concept is key & y’all ignore that and try and manifest while assuming you can’t manifest

no cus literally a lot of issues a lot of these anons have can be solved with just self concept alone which is why i always tell my followers to do it and its mentioned in almost all my posts. self concept is KEY!

a lot of yall need to start taking RESPONSIBILITY of your manifestations, you control the when/how/whatever of your manifestation. so when are you gonna start owning it? when are you gonna quit the victim mindset and start achieving what you want?

theres so many lectures, pdfs, google docs, videos, posts and blogs out there to help you but you make the final call! do you want to be the hearer or the doer? start APPLYING THE LAW!

you guys have just got to do it, stop the overthinking, stop the logically thinking, stop over-analysing every little thing, stop worrying and just APPLY & DO IT. and if it gets difficult on the journey, don’t take that as a final verdict that you cant manifest. its okay to struggle, its okay to fall down and cry, its okay to restart and try and try again. what matters is you still having that ounce of determination left to manifest what you want.