If Anybody Else Can Do It, Then Why Can’t You?

focusing on self concept HEAVY this week because i can slowly feel myself return to my old self—the awkward insecure me. NOT TODAY!

Solid advice, especially as it pertains to men.

Happy New Year

It’s a brand new year. It’s a fresh start. It’s also just another day. A new beginning to try again & become our best selves. If 2021 disappointed you, 2022 can only get better.

Some affirmations for the year ahead:

2022 is MY year.

2022 is the best year of my life.

I will achieve every single one of my desires and goals in 2022.

I am literally living my dream life.

Everyday is prosperous & miraculous for me.

Everything I go through this year is working in my favor.

I am the God of my reality. The tables always turn at my command.

I am treated like royalty. I am everyone’s favourite person.

It’s super easy for me to be perfect at manifestating. I do it effortlessly each time.

My 3D only reflects my desires. It loves me very much and always gives me what I want when I want it.

I deserve only the greatest of things and I assume only the best for myself.

I am in love with the absolute God/Goddess I am.

a limiting belief I had was that I always struggle with transportation to appointments and work and school. it sounds trivial, but it's kept me from pursuing things and it pushed me towards isolating and shutting down.

an affirmation I'm replacing that with is 'i never have to worry about how I'll get where I need to go. it always works out for me.'

take your desires off the pedestal | law of assumption

hi, i'm barbie, and today i'm here to remind you (if you haven't already) to take your desire(s) off the pedestal. i'll be telling you how to do it, the benefits of doing so, and how it could affect your manifestations. and if you haven't, check out my last post !

how the pedestal can affect your manifestation

first things first, what does it mean to put something on a pedestal ?

to regard someone or something with great or excessive admiration ; to idolize.

basically, it means to make something or someone more important than others or yourself because you admire it so greatly. now even though people (including me lol) may casually put things on a pedestal outside of manifestation, it's not the wisest thing to do when it comes to what you want to manifest.

putting your desire on a pedestal can make it look unachievable and have you thinking that you'll need to put more work in to manifest it. it can also cause self-doubt, impatience, and make you feel unworthy when manifesting. you can even start to doubt your manifesting abilities ! overall, it can knock down your self concept. you're also more likely to gain a victim mindset.

here's a quick example of how putting something on a pedestal can affect oneself and their manifestation.

let's say i'm manifesting an sp, and they just happen to be a huge celebrity. instead of thinking that it's easy (which it already is), i'm treating it like a mission or a quest. saying that it's such a huge goal and it's gonna be a challenge for me. daydreaming about manifesting it as if i can't get it. i'm "trying" and i don't see any movement so i start to get desperate. i start doing bullshit "powerful" methods. i start feeling like a victim ! and i start blaming and trying to fix everything i see, when i just need to look within myself and get my shit together.

y'all see what i mean ? putting your desires on a pedestal is a goddamn set up ! but don't worry, because now it is ...

time to take your desire(s) off the pedestal !

"wait, what does it mean to take your desire off the pedestal ?"

to take your desire off the pedestal means starting to look at your desire as if it's the easiest thing in this world. realize that it's not that big of a deal ! and don't get me wrong, i bet that whatever you want to manifest is probably awesome. but what i'm trying to say is just simplify it. acknowledge your desire and know that it will be easy for you.

you wanna manifest a million dollars ? it's just paper. wanna manifest a significant other ? there is 7 billion people on this planet. they're just a person. wanna manifest a whole new appearance ? easy peasy lemon squeezy. shifting to your desired reality ? a walk in the park.

"but barbie, what do you mean it's easy ? it can't be that easy !"

yes the fuck it can be that easy. you're the god of your reality and you have been manifesting all your damn life ! so yeah, you're automatically a master at manifestation. the only reason why you feel like you can't is because you refuse to accept that you can.

and if you still don't feel like you can manifest your desire, i suggest building up your confidence and belief in yourself by manifesting "smaller" things to realize how powerful you are. and keep in mind, there is no difference between manifesting 10 dollars and 1 million dollars. you apply the meaning and "weight" to your desire; by default you can manifest anything effortlessly.

your desires are not too good to be true, and never let anyone tell you that something is difficult to manifest. manifestation is subjective, so whatever might feel like climbing a mountain for someone might just be kicking a rock for you. nothing is too good for god.

your desires aren't better than you. you are the god of your reality. the operant power. if you are a master at manifesting, how could manifesting something be difficult for you ? your desires have absolutely no power over you unless you let it. you are going to manifest and conquer it, not have it conquer you ! the only thing that you should put on the pedestal is yourself.

and since some people may initially believe that saying that you are the god of your reality gives you a god complex, i think it'll be important to quickly clear this up.

to truly know and accept the fact that you are the god of your reality also means to acknowledge and know that everyone else is the god of their reality too. remember to be a good person, and don't abuse your power by harming others or yourself. with great power comes with great responsibility !

as long as you don't think of yourself as god in a monotheistic way (since that'll just put you on the path of gaining a god complex or narcissistic traits) you'll be just fine. <3

the benefits of taking your desire off the pedestal

lemme tell y'all something. once you take your desire off that pedestal everything will truly blossom and fall into place. it'll be easier to manifest due to less effort and energy being used, and you'll just get to have way more fun. and manifestation is supposed to be fun ! you'll be less likely to have negative emotions towards manifesting, and it'll make it feel less like a chore. and ! maybe your self concept will go up once you manifest what was once on that pedestal.

so take your desire off the pedestal. yup, right now. and replace it with yourself, because you’re the only one that should be on it. period.

love, barbie ♡

new year, new me #2

OMG I LOVE HOW HOT I AM. this morning i got ready to go to shoprite and i decided not to wear eyeliner (even though it takes less than a minute for me to do i still dont want to do it daily) and i only decided to wear mascara and do my brows and i really looked hot. i mean i kept looking in the mirror and i noticed that i have such model features. i have pretty big eyes, cheekbones, nice lips, everything about me looks good. anyways today was a hair day so i had to affirm about my hair and i really dont feel a difference. tbh i didn't affirm as much as i did with the raven day but i also kinda affirmed more than i did yesterday. i found a girl with the hair type i wanted and i kept affirming that my hair was like her. today is now a rich parents day and im really looking forward to it. i already talked about this in my last post so im not going to talk about it again. # livingmybestlife # dreamgirldreamlife

𝟎 𝐄𝐅𝐅𝐎𝐑𝐓 𝐎𝐍𝐋𝐘 𝐂𝐇𝐀𝐋𝐋𝐄𝐍𝐆𝐄

this is for all the people who procrastinate, worry, stress or overconsume and then get confused all over again. this challenge is simple, easy and straightforward (exactly how the law is) want to straighten out that self concept? this is what you wanna do:

🔑 : the key of this challenge is making minimum efforts to gain maximum results

first step. . .

SELF CONCEPT

self concept is so important, and although its not a must. you will really reap the benefits of prioritising your self concept, you will feel so much more confident and secure in your manifestations and also outside in your general life.

• “i don’t need to do anything to manifest”

• “everything is mine without me lifting a finger”

• “the 3d naturally conforms to me instantly”

• “it’s crazy how easy law of assumption is for me”

• “all my doubts literally disappear in a millisecond”

• “i cant help but notice how amazing life has been recently”

• “i never worry, nor stress. i let go of all things that don’t serve me”

• “why would i worry when i know that everything i already want is mine?”

• “why am i becoming so much more prettier now?”

• “why am i living life so effortlessly now?”

• “why is everything so quickly and easy for me all of a sudden?”

these are just a few affs you can choose. don’t have to ofc, you can repeat them, dance to them, affirm whilst going to sleep, affirm when you wake up..WHATEVER! do whatever with these affirmations.

SELF CONCEPT VAUNT

“it’s amazing how much i’ve progressed. my life has took a turn to a complete 180 ° and i can finally say that i am proud to be me. i am proud of myself for changing my mindset and beliefs, i am a powerful manifestor and i am the creator of my reality. everything i want instantly conforms in my 3D. doubts? non-existent. i’ve come to the point in my life where doubts never interfere with my goals.

second step . . .

LIVE IN THE END

aka..the best part. to live in the end is pretty much simple; living in the end is going on your day knowing that everything you want..is already here!

so..if you already knew you literally have the best self concept in the world, where would your thoughts be? (this is where affirmations come in handy) or you could simply make up affirmations on the spot.

🔑 : living in the end is not “trying” its embodying. so you are no longer TRYING to manifest a better self concept you HAVE a better self concept. so THINK like you have a better self concept.

THAT’S LITERALLY IT!!!

so to simplify it even more: live as though your self concept is already perfect.

how to live in the end even with doubts by solar subs ᥫ᭡ ˖ ࣪ ‹ 𖥔 ࣪ ˖🤍

SUCCESS STORY

For 6 months I struggled to manifest my SP. I would always practice affirmations, saying them very anxiously but I never felt like I was in the relationship. I would say my intentions, but they always felt super repetitive. Saying affirmations, intentions and scripting didn't change how I felt on the inside. I spent thousands of dollars on coaching and psychic readings. And I Always asked my friends for advice about my situation with my Sp. I was constantly looking for results outside of myself. I spent HOURS obsessing over YouTube videos and reading Reddit post. I looked up living in the end and also acting as if, but I never put in the actual work until eventually I just got tired of being the victim. I started learning about living in the end. But when I practiced it I took it literal! I would ask myself...who would I be and how would I act if I was with my specific person right now? Well.... I know I would stop complaining to my friends about it. So that's exactly what I did. I told myself that I was going to stop reaching out to my friends for advice, and I was going to stop complaining to them. I also wouldn't be watching YouTube videos every night about manifesting a specific person. So I unsubscribed to every manifestation video that I followed on YouTube. I did the same thing on Instagram, and I actually uninstalled the Reddit app for a while. This was just so I wouldn't be tempted to search how to Manifest your sp. (I spent months researching how to manifest a specific person, but I never put in the actual work to do it. It's addicting to learn the information. But the information is not gonna help you unless you do the actual work)

At night I would hold myself and I would imagine my SP holding me. It felt good and it relieved my anxiety. I would also imagine my sp telling me that he loved me. And in the beginning it didn't feel that believable, but after I practiced it- it felt more and more real. Each time that I did it, I would do it more throughout my day. After I was done practicing it for three days, I really put it into work. In the morning when I would wake up I would wrap my arms around myself and imagine having a conversation with my SP. I would imagine him telling me how beautiful I was, and I would imagine him asking me how I slept. I would reply to him in my head and tell him that I slept good, and then I would have a conversation with him in my head about what I had planned for the day. And then when I get out of bed. I would imagine myself telling him that I was going to get ready for work. When I would go downstairs and make breakfast I would imagine that he's there helping me make breakfast. Also when I was eating my breakfast I would imagine that he's eating breakfast with me. I would imagine him telling me to have a good day at work, then in my head I would imagine saying goodbye to him and telling him that I would be home when I got home. Throughout my day, I would go to work and I would just imagine the things that I would do with my sp when I got home from work. Like watching a movie, or thinking about what our double dates would look etc. when I would get home from work I would imagine that my SP was at home waiting for me. I would imagine him giving me a hug. And I would imagine him asking me how my day was. I would have this inner conversation about how my day is an I would respond to him in my head. would make dinner and imagine that he's eating with me. After I would eat dinner I would lay in bed and watch Netflix movies, I would imagine that he's there watching Netflix movies with me. I would hold myself again and imagine that he's the one holding me. I would feel his presence with me.

Randomly, When I would drive around in my car, I would imagine that my SP is in the passenger seat, and I would imagine a different scenario where we're driving to my family members house for a holiday. And I would imagine that he was going to meet them for the first time. To make a long story short I would just visualize what it would be like if we lived together. I would visualize what our relationship would look like if we lived together. One of my favorite things to do was to go on Zillow and look at houses, and I would imagine that We were looking at houses to move into together. It was really fun for me.

When Doing these visualizations, I generally stopped caring what was going on in the 3-D. Because I was convinced in my inner world that we were together. And at that point I generally didn't care if it happened or not. After fully saturating my mind with these visualizations, it only took three days for him to conform. He started to become clingy and always wanting to be around me 24/7. After a week of doing this. He asked me to be in a committed relationship with him. I got what I wanted. It doesn't take that long to get what you want. When you are fully living in the end it happens really fast. It’s unbelievable !

cr/r/lawofassumption|w1505 🎀