How to use reverse psychology to get your desires
Hey y’all, this is for the people who feel utterly exhausted by their spiritual journey. Whether you’re struggling to manifest your dreams, tapping into the void state, or lucid dreaming every night, I totally get it. But you can use your frustration to your advantage.
So, I’ve been really into reverse psychology and that’s what this “technique” is. For those of you who feel stuck or frustrated, this might be just what you need. Your annoyance could actually become your greatest ally.
Keep complaining. Script it out, affirm it, vent it to your friends, but just the opposite of what you’re already saying. Say things like "Ugh I'm so tired of always easily slipping into the void state" or "If I lucid dream one more time, I'm going to lose my mind!".
Here's an example of how you can do it:
"Bruh, I'm so done with waking up in the void state. Each morning is the same story - I'm tired of it! And let's not even talk about how I lucid dream every single night. It's exhausting being conscious all the time, and it's starting to annoy me and tire me out. I just want one peaceful night without lucid dreaming or getting into the void state. Is that too much to ask? I can’t even escape the void state with lucid dreaming!”
You can apply this same principle to shifting as well. Express your frustration:
"Why does my subconscious always feel the need to wake me up in my dr 🙄For once, I want to focus on my cr. If I wake up in my dr one more time, I swear... Can't my subconscious for once let me wake up in my cr?"
Even visualize yourself waking up in your normal bed and plead with your subconscious to let you wake up in your cr for once.Channel your current frustration into not waking up in your dr to always doing it. You should end up feeling frustrated when you actually go to bed, trying to NOT be successful for once.
Make it realistic too. honestly? I'm just so tired of shifting with ease. It's gotten to the point where it feels mundane. There was a time when struggling with the void state was actually exciting, it kept things interesting at least. I know this might come off as a "ugh, I'm too pretty everyone hates me" pick-me-girl moment, but seriously, I could do with a little less success in the shifting department. Y’all wouldn’t understand how hard it is to be successful 24/7. Genuinely be annoying about it lol.
So, go ahead. Complain. Vent. Be frustrated. You’re way too successful with manifesting and shifting and need a break. I get it, shut up. We don’t care.👍
MOONLIGHT; ariana grande
"The sun is setting and you're right here by my side and the movie is playing but we won't be watching tonight."
"Hurry, hurry, hurry!" Y/n gushed as she finished setting up the area for their movie night.
"Coming!" Jack yelled grabbing their favorite snacks and making his way over.
He sat down right next to his girlfriend and wrapped an arm around her.
"What movie genre babe?" Y/n said turning hulu on.
"I don't know, maybe a horror movie?" Jack said taking the remote out of y/n's hand.
"You know how I feel about scary stuff." Y/n whined pushing Jacks head softly.
"Well you shouldn't have asked." Jack winked scrolling through the options.
He picked a random horror movie & as expected y/n was feeling quite antsy.
They were only thirty minutes into the movie and Y/n kept hiding in Jack's neck.
"Jack can we please watch something else?" Y/n said into his neck.
"Okay y/n." Jack said exiting out of the movie, scrolling through other genres.
"Thank you." Y/n smiled kissing jacks cheek.
"He's so bossy, he makes me dance tryna sit in the back of his whip and just cancel my plans."
"Fuck me please!" Y/n moaned grinding onto his clothed crotch.
"We can't your gonna be late for your meeting!" Jack said holding onto her hips.
"Fuck a meeting, your my priority right now." Y/n responded kissing down her lover's neck.
"No love you have to go, we can continue this at home." Jack said grabbing her neck and kissing her.
"Fine." Y/n said slowly crawling to the front seat. She giggled when she felt Jack smack her ass.
"He knows just what it does when he's holding me tight and he calls me moonlight too."
"Are you sure you don't want my jacket?" Jack asked holding it up.
"No i'm okay." Y/n said shivering slightly.
Jack shook his head and wrapped his jacket around her.
"You don't have to lie moonlight." Jack said pecking his lover's cheek.
𝐌𝐀𝐍𝐆𝐀- ↴
jujutsu kaisen
haikyuu
boku no hero academia
bluelock
kimetsu no yaiba
𝐌𝐈𝐒𝐂𝐄𝐋𝐋𝐀𝐍𝐄𝐎𝐔𝐒 - ↴
jack harlow
© 𝐧𝐞𝐩𝐭𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐮𝐬 & or 𝐭𝐚𝐲𝐚𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐞- do not translate or copy my works.
synopsis: after your huge fight with jack he does everything he can to make you feel better
The argument played in your head as you stared into space. You knew you overreacted and you wanted to take back everything you said but it was too late.
Tears pricked your eyes and you lazily pulled your comforter over you hoping it would shield you from all your problems.
A knock met your bedroom door and all the anxiety you felt before struck through you.
"Y/n can we talk?" You heard jack's muffled voice through the door call out to you.
You laid there in fear but you knew it was better to talk it out now than later.
"Come in." Jack came right in with no hesitation and shut the door behind him.
"Listen..I know you've been feeling- you don't know what I've been feeling." You cut him off.
"Your right I don't. I really, really don't.." he inched closer to your spot on the bed.
"Remember when I was having trouble writing lyrics for the album and I didnt feel like going to the studio?" Jack asked you.
"Yeah. That happened more than once." You chuckled tiredly and sat up on the headboard of the bed.
"And you always showed up for me. Now I would really love to show up for you if you'll let me." You took his hand and softly caressed the ring on his finger.
"I'm not going anywhere y/n. Your stuck with me." He smiled and caressed your tear-stained cheek.
"Why are you being so nice to me? I've been fucking awful to you." You asked as you leaned into his touch to hide the tears that threatened to spill.
"I can handle it." You smiled and gave him a soft kiss, wrapping your arms around his neck.
"Hey I got you something." He gave you a bag of kfc which made you look up at him with a pout on your face.
"My life would suck so much without you jack." You laughed and pulled out the items he got for you and him.
hii sweet girl <3 how are you? how was your weekend !!? 🤍✨
hey meg! i’m doing good and my weekend was pretty chill, i just started watching manifest and im already hooked 🤠. what about you?? i hope you were able to relax this weekend :)
"i brought you flowers." "for what?" "there has to be a reason?"
you were making dinner when you heard the front door open. today was jack’s day off and you asked him to run to the store because you ran out of a few ingredients.
“babe they didn’t have the brand of pasta you liked so i just got these.” he said putting the bag of things on the kitchen counter next to you.
“aww it’s okay thank you for getting everything.” you said as you took his hand and pulled him into you. “whatcha got there?”you asked when you saw a bag behind him.
“oh i got you these!” he said with a big smile on his face. he shoved a big bouquet of flowers in your face. “well damn.” you giggled and took a look at the bouquet.
“thank you but why ?” you asked looking up at him, “why what?” he raised his brow at you slightly. “why did you buy these? did i miss something? it isn’t even valentines day yet?” you questioned.
he laughed at you and shoved your head to the side. “dummy i don’t need a reason to give you flowers. i saw them and thought of you.” he said grabbing the back of your neck and kissing your forehead. you pouted at him and grabbed a vase to put your flowers in.
🤭
WATCH YOUR MOUTH; jack harlow
"It's the way you embarrassed me last night and don't even have the balls to apologize." You said aggressively folding your clothes.
"Things happen y/n! I was caught up with work and couldn't make it." He said running his fingers through his curls.
"You say that every time like it's a valid excuse! You couldn't send me a quick text to let me know you wouldn't make it so I wasn't sitting there looking like a fucking idiot?" You said getting more and more pissed off.
"So your mad i'm doing my job? How do you think i'm able to afford all these nice things? Take you out on dates? That money doesn't just come out of my ass." He said trying to find every reason to drop this.
"Bro I fucking work just as hard as you do and I still make time for you!" You yelled getting up to walk out the room.
He grabbed you harshly by your wrist, forcing you to look at him.
"I don't give a fuck how mad you are chill with that dumb shit. I'm not one of your little friends." He said inching closer to your face.
You felt your cheeks heat up at the way he manhandled you.
"I can say whatever the fuck I want to say." You said challenging him.
"You think this is funny? We'll see who abouta be laughing after i'm done wit'chu." He said throwing you on the bed.