How Do I Know This Works?

We need to be able to talk about our toxic traits more often & openly & not be judged for it. I think that would open doors for the mental health field & get people motivated to seek out therapy & psychiatry more if we normalize talking about our toxic selves with other people in a safe way that doesn't threaten to get us punished for how we act & react to things. How else are we going to change if we can't talk about it?

“Hero Complex”

So I realize a lot of people apparently don’t know this, but the term “hero complex” seems to be getting thrown around more and more in this phandom and it is literally driving me insane.

Danny does not have hero syndrome.

He does not have a hero complex. He does not have a savior complex. (All terms frequently conflated and used with the same intention, though they also have different meanings in different fields.) Danny tries to help people out of a responsibility to protect them, which does not fit with hero syndrome.

Hero syndrome is the presence of a subconscious need to be needed and appreciated taken to an unhealthy extreme. People with hero syndrome frequently CREATE horrible situations so that they can ‘save’ everyone and receive adulation. A firefighter with hero syndrome, for example, would likely start fires just so they could run in and ‘rescue’ the victims themself.

In less extreme examples, they are also people who drop everything in their lives in order to help others (which often evolves into more deviant acts over time) and end up overexerting themselves to point of total exhaustion because they lack the ability to set healthy boundaries and extend the same care to themselves.

The important difference in these cases is that it still stems from a psychological need, which Danny does not exhibit. He protects people, yes, but not the extent of dropping everything in his life to do that full time even in situations where his help is not needed. He takes breaks, he chooses not to resolve every issue he encounters, and it is impossible to imagine him purposefully causing a crisis for any kind of adulation.

Danny does not have hero syndrome, and it’s honestly a bit insulting to his character to imply that he does.

It’s an interesting topic, and if anyone is interested in learning more, this article has a fairly useful overview and history of the term to get you started.

(Sorry for the rant, but this has been driving me crazy and I wanted to help clear it up for anyone who might not know the actual meaning of the term.)

reminder

you are constantly manifesting. why waste time thinking badly of yourself and life? get up and say wonderful things about yourself.

PAC - Affirmations + Uplifting Words

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Do you realize the power you hold?

If you obsess over whether you are making the right decision, you are basically assuming that the universe will reward you for one thing and punish you for another. The universe has no fixed agenda. Once you make any decision, it works around that decision.

—Deepak Chopra

The realizations that led me to the god state:

The 3D is entirely malleable, everything can change with just a thought

The ego is the one that has doubts, not you. Realizing this and affirming it has helped me overcome my doubts in one night!!

The 4D is just as real if not more real than the 3D, and it is the link to your subconscious that causes the 3D to change! It is a real part of reality and experiencing it makes it real

When you imagine something in the 4D, it is instant, therefore manifestation is instant because you already have experienced what you want to

Basically, experiencing something and assuming something are the only direct ways to influence the subconscious mind. You can choose to focus on the 3D experience or the 4D experience - whichever you focus on WILL manifest in the 3D

You can decide to assume something. You can instantly change your thoughts. It can be difficult at first and it takes practice but once you have it down you will always have the power to do it again

Everyone has this power, including you and me. We start in different circumstances but we are really all at the same level of power, it just takes some people longer to realize it!

how i manifest when i feel anxious •°. *࿐

i decide i have what i want…

when i feel anxiety -> i let it pass while knowing its only a human reaction

◦ since i am beyond just a human (i am limitless imagination/self), i know any anxiety is below me and it has nothing to do with my limitless self. i have exactly what i decided i have, regardless of any anxiety.

know anxiety usually comes from a fear of failure

◦ so, i cannot limit myself based on what i see or what i negatively assume my future will look like bc i am always beyond the 3d, no matter what feelings/anxiety my human self experiences.

◦ i become indifferent/i dont care about what i see or what i assume i will see because i know everything comes together in the 3d once i change self/know its done. fact: everything always comes together and works out in the end. being indifferent to the 3d = being indifferent to emotions, anxiety and everything that doesnt serve you.

dont fight it, dont avoid it, tackle it head on

◦ acknowledge you are experiencing anxiety bc you are. yes it can feel like shit but it doesnt have to affect who you are being (whatever version of self you are embodying). again, i can choose to be indifferent to this anxiety. you dont have to be scared of the anxiety. it is a natural human response. cry if you need to, let it all out. dont try to suppress it bc that will only come to bite you back in the ass, believe me.

◦ take care of your mental health in whatever ways necessary. when i used to experience anxiety, i used to take walks in the park, clear my head, meditate, express myself and my emotions through art and journaling, etc. remember nothing you do (or feel) in the 3d has to affect who you are being/your state.

"how can i still have anxiety yet still be a desired version of me?"

anxiety has no affect on anything unless you allow it to change your identity. you are the one with power, the anxiety is only an experience, similar to breathing in oxygen and using our sense of touch; its all neutral. when you start surrendering to the anxiety, you are creating and accepting negative stories that you create based on the feeling of anxiety. allowing that anxious feeling to change your state/identity is surrendering to something you view as more "powerful" than you. stop transforming that anxiety into a state that you embody based on the false, negative stories u imagine.

remember a 3d experience or anxious feelings doesnt have to influence who you are being. an example: a model who knows (fulfilled) that she is graceful and beautiful can have anxiety about doing her catwalk. the anxiety is normal, she can experience the symptoms of anxiety (shortness of breath, dry mouth, shaking) but her core identity/state is still a graceful model. the anxiety is only a temporary feeling. usually when we experience these feelings, they occupy all of our attention in that moment which is why it seems so scary but in reality, its not that big a deal. know that anxiety is just a feeling. you are safe. you can still experience shitty feelings while knowing you are a bad bitch!

you dont always identify with everything you experience. for example, a lot of people experience good things and still identify as people who are unworthy of good things. so its really up to you to choose what to identify with.

i know my only job is knowing its done

◦ if i just decided its done, as the operant power, as i say goes, therefore its done. so my job is done. anxiety is part of the 3d, not my limitless self, imagination. so i can be indifferent and experience it without identifying with it, the same way people manifest what they desire while experiencing their shitty circumstances daily (because they do not identify with those shitty experiences).

◦ ive heard/experienced situations were we know its done yet we cried and felt like shit, and what we wanted still manifested into the 3d. bc anxiety is only a feeling. do not allow your feelings to take hold of your state, but if it does, its never the end of the world... just get back in the state. 3d shit/anxiety doesnt have to intervene with who you are being/what you identify with.

kisses, jani ☆

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