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The power of mindset🧁
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Haven’t you heard people tell you to “shift your mindset”, “hot is a mindset”… blah blah blah…. Well, I’m here to tell you just how important that is & how to do it.
this isn’t just to manifest stuff, but also, to change the way people treat you, and how you treat yourself.
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personal successes
y’all, when I tell you I went from an unpopular, quiet, ‘ugly’ girlie to one of the prettiest girls in my school, with multiple people crushing on me and asking me out… ALL because I shifted my mindset! I am not joking, I swear by the fact that mindset is the most important thing ever.
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You do realise that what you are is literally what you think you are right? Like the reason people see you as pretty or ugly is because of how you act, how you talk about yourself, how you treat yourself…
treat yourself like an option- you are an option. why TF would anyone not want you? My love, you are just the same as the ‘girl everyone wants’ seriously… I used to have a friend (my “best friend”) who used to constantly put me down, treat me bad, cancel plans etc, and I kept following her around, begging her for attention. Now, let me tell you, she wasn’t anyone special, not popular, pretty, smart, nothing, she just never treated me well to the point where I was desperate for her to like me. When I realised this, I stopped being so pathetic, and actually realised my worth. I surrounded myself with people who actually care about me, and now, she desperately wants to be my friend. REALISE YOUR WORTH BABE.
how? Well I told myself I deserved better. I assumed I was someone who deserved good friends, because guess what? I am. beauty standards don’t exist. like literally. everyone has a different idea of beauty. So why can’t you be the most stunning person in the room? blow a kiss to yourself, tell yourself you are beautiful. Treat yourself like you are beautiful, because you are. if someone compliments you, accept it.
stop putting yourself down, it’s not cute. Why would the most beautiful person in the world call themselves ugly. When you treat yourself like that others will treat you like that to.
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how to do it! - tell yourself what you are. Constantly, if you look into the mirror and don’t like what you see, do a little twirl, do something that makes you feel good about yourself. -compliment others. seriously, because this way, people will associate you with whatever you complemented them as. A.K.A: “you are sooo cute” = I know I’m cute, so I’m not afraid to compliment other girls, to help them be more confident. -affirmations. and sooo much more.
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with love, sparkle, and a little bit of fairy dust,
🎀⊹🌷˚. ♡Barbie! 🧁*ੈ🩰✩xoxo‧₊🫧˚
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say it with me. your trauma is valid even if:
the ones who hurt you were/are traumatized individuals.
you are/appear functional.
it was not caused by a romantic partner or family member.
“it could have been avoided”.
no one knows about it.
“it’s not that bad”
other people had it worse.
someone went through the same experience and does not feel debilitated by it.
it occurred a long time ago / you feel just fine now.
the ones who hurt you have apologized.
be gentle with yourself today, folks. feel free to add.
Your desires are already yours—everything you want is already within your grasp.
You want ti be wealthy? YOU ARE
You want to become famous? You’ve achieved it.
The ideal relationship you desire with your 3D? It belongs to you, you are already with your person!
There’s no waiting, no delays.
The moment you desire something, it’s yours on a deeper level. When you truly accept this and align your thoughts with this reality, you’ll start to see these desires take shape in your life.
For instance, if you’re aiming for financial abundance, begin to think, act, and feel as if your bank account is already overflowing. You may start noticing opportunities to increase your income or find yourself making more financially savvy choices. By living with the mindset that what you want is already yours, you align yourself with that reality, and it begins to manifest naturally. The key is to genuinely feel and believe that your desires are already fulfilled.
And, NO! Feelings aren't about "forcing an emotion" but simply 'knowing it is your reality or your end destination'.
Stop thinking there is something to do. YOU HAVE IT. JUST ENJOY THE INNER PEACE OF KNOWING ITS YOURS.
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view yourself & the world as the person you desire to be. i see myself as a successful person -> i am being the version of me who is successful in everything therefore i see myself as amazing and perfect and i see the world as easy to get by because everywhere i go, there is success for me.
there is something so beautiful and soft in looking at strangers and create, imagine, guess their lives, their feelings, worries, past and future.
This is Money Snake. She only appears every 312 years.
If you reblog her picture within the next twenty-five seconds you will have good luck and fortune for the rest of your life.
"In every adult there lurks a child — an eternal child, something that is always becoming, is never completed, and calls for unceasing care, attention, and education. That is the part of the personality which wants to develop and become whole."
Carl Jung, The Development of personality
consistency is not repeating 10k affirmations a day or sleeping every single night with an aff tape on.
consistency isn't overconsuming loass content.
consistency isn't waking up every morning forcing yourself to be positive (I'm looking at you, law of attraction.)
consistency is choosing to think in your favor for every moment, every minute of the day, in the face of anything the 3D shows.
thinking in your favor does not = repressing/toxic positivity
do not assign bad meanings to things.
example of what an inner dialogue may look like when you think in your favor
Damn, SP blocked me? Haha, I know I get what I want. But I can still acknowledge that I feel hurt and rejected and I feel that way because (here it comes - flipping the thought) I know I deserve better than this. I know that my dream self never faces rejection so let me be patient and reorder what I want from the universe. Let me recalibrate. I'm gonna just focus on reassuring myself, doing things I like - because the version of him that deserves me is on the way.
Do you see the nuance there? The difference between thinking in your favor vs not just having toxic positivity?
Guideline to example
Not repressing the emotions of hurt and rejection
Understanding that you give meaning to those feelings - do you believe them to be true or are you mature enough to understand that feelings are temporary and you must remain solid on what you believe despite what you feel?
Focusing on action YOU must take bc the only job is to change SELF
PERSISTENCE
xx, gigi
Imagination is reality
Unbothered and Living my dream life🪞🪄🪐 WINNER MENTALITY BPSY'28 pronouns:A GENIUS!
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