I Genuinely Can't Believe This Is Real

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Hot take, but cis people have gender identities. They aren't the gender they identify as because of their genitalia or what their birth certificate says. They're only cis because they identify with a gender and it happens to match their government documentation. Cis men aren't men because they're "obviously" men for having a penis. They're men because they identify as men. It's the self-identification that dictates this, not any other factor, even for cis folks. And we should be framing it this way. A cis man identifies as a man and a cis woman identifies as a woman. There is no automatic or inherent gender.

The 12 days of simsmas | Day One VICTORIA'S SECRET cosy sleepwear

Nothing beats a girls night in so why not do it in these brand new victoria's secret pyjamas and matching slippers

No sims were harmed in the making of this post

Comes in simlish, english and non branded swatches, also available in black. Base game compatible

Initaiily I was going to release a full christmas collection, consisting of different items clothes etc for our pixels. But, I have decided this would be too overwhelming of a collection for me to release at once with it being such a busy holiday season

SO I have decided to make my own take on the 12 days of christmas, and have called it The 12 days of simsmas. Each day starting from the 1st December through to the 12th December I will be releasing some kind of new custom content for you guys 🤍

Available for free over on my patreon page here

Not Taylor Swift taking a private jet for a 13 minute flight

Girl.. you literally could’ve Ubered there 😭

People trying to pathologize like eating sweets and jerking off is wild. "I stopped doing this thing that feels good and I want more now ?? So this is an addiction and I have to keep avoiding it until the craving goes away" no you just want to enjoy things because you're a human being. Chocolate and porn and whatever aren't, like. Meth. It won't kill you to feel good. You don't have to be a medieval monk

Coining a phrase: Period atypical homophobia.

Definition: When the writer of a piece of historical fiction hasn't really bothered to research how gay people existed in a period of time or what terms would have been used to discuss homosexuality positively or negatively. So instead they put the most modern, likely religious terms into the mouth of a historical character to establish that a character is homophobic.

e.g. Having every Victorian character be a religious homophobe instead of having them talk about "public decency" and "discretion"

I'm not saying that I dislike that weed has been legalized in more and more states (imo all drugs should be legalized but that's not the point of this post)- I *am* saying that every time I pass a dispensary that looks like an apple store and I see white people talking freely about making special cookies and smoking in their spare time, all I can think about are the thousands and thousands of black people who experienced huge amounts of state-sponsered violence for even the suspicion of having weed on them and those who are STILL IN PRISON for possession charges.

And it. Just kinda makes me grit my teeth, you know? My father was illegally searched and brutalized in front of me when I was a little kid because the cop "thought he smelled weed" (he didn't, my dad doesn't touch the stuff) and in the mean time Becky in accounting takes a "special gummy" every night that she gets from a store next to the Starbucks.

Favorite Mods for Better Townies:

One of the most anti-immersive things about the Sims 4 is that the townies can pretty much just be little shell people walking around doing nothing, having no personality, etc etc. So, I've developed a small obsession with mods that improve townie realism, automatically assign them personality features, and/or fix their strange outfit choices. I thought I'd take a minute to share my list so far with you, and I hope you'll find these mods as useful as I have!

Pls Dress Normally Mods:

MCCC by @Deaderpool *

Bad Townies Outfit Fix by @eva-andsomenumbers

CAS Starter Sims Override by @loulicorn

@simplyanjuta - Better Preset Outfits on Randomized Sims

@simplyanjuta - No Make UP or Accessories on Randomized Sims

@northernsiberiawinds - Eyes Override

@wrixie - Dolce (Occult and Animal Eyes)

@vanillagnomes - Eye Shine Remover

@kijiko-sims - Eyebrow Texture Overhaul

@nesurii - Aeonium Skin Override

@magicbot - Feet Override

@ellcrze - Underwear Overrides

@simkoos - EA Piercing Override

@pyxiidis - EA Teeth Override

MenaceMan44 - Automatically Shorter Teens

MenaceMan44 - Park Sleeper Tanks

*I know, I know, everyone recommends MCCC, but paired with Just Eva's mc.dresser file, it will seriously improve your townie outfit choices.

Pls Act Normally Mods:

Weerbesu - No Empty Venues When Arriving

Weerbesu - Faster Sim Spawning

@andirz-mods - Smart Sim Randomizer

Kuttoe - Home Regions

Kuttoe - Townie Demographics

@adeepindigo - Automatic Characteristic Preferences

@janesimsten - Townies Gain Their Own Skills

@szemoka - Premade Sims Have a Relationship

@tyjokr-blog - Character Values Overhaul

Flauschtrud - Ask To Invite Family Member

Flauschtrud - Suggest Getting Married

MapleDaFlap - Come Celebrate Mod

Lumpinou - LGBTQIA Orientation Mod

Turbodriver - Wonderful or Wicked Whims

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