What I Mean When I Say "its Time For Something Sweet"

If I ever did flatbed, this is 100% something that I would do.

Truckers sometimes haul toy trucks for luck or tradition.

Any time means ANY time.

Dishes can wait.

Dinner can wait.

Dick doesn't wait.

A relaxing afternoon in the kitchen. #relationship

It's nice to have someone to relax with.

Repost if it’s okay to send you icky thoughts <3

Shhhh... they're right in the next room. Can't let them hear all your naughty noises, can we?

Whispering "I have kids older then you" in your ear while you feel ring on my finger rubbing against your clit

Any time.

Any place.

No matter who might be near or overhear.

It's good to be reminded that the dark places in my head are WANTED, and not to be shunned, so long as they were consented to.

Things to Say to Someone in Top Drop/Dom Drop

I’m okay

I love you

Thank you

It’s alright

I’m not hurt

I’m not hurt too badly

You’re lovely/wonderful/kind

I enjoyed it

It was worth it

Take your time

Do you need anything?

Do you want a cuddle?

Do you want me to get dressed/take the collar off/put the crop away?

Do you want to talk about it?

I’m here

You’re not a bad person

Top drop/dom drop usually comes from shock, guilt or insecurity about the way you have just treated someone whose well-being you care about very much. Like sub drop, it is usually accompanied by a fall in endorphins and general energy levels. Especially for aces (who I find have a greater need to be in the right mindset/’zone’ for play and intimacy), a ‘snap’ moment where you break out of play mode can throw you emotionally, and the end of play causes a similar reassessment or double-take at what happened during the scene.

Dominants in drop require the same kind of care as subs, but a different kind of reassurance.