Serious Complaining And Recreational Complaining Are Very Different Activities And They’re Barely Related

Serious complaining and recreational complaining are very different activities and they’re barely related to each other.

Serious complaining can mean “this upsets me, I want it to change” or “this upsets me, and I just want to get it off my chest and be heard” or simply “I am frustrated and want to vent until I feel better”.

Recreational complaining is fun social bonding and it doesn’t have to mean anything or result in change. It’s not the same as negativity because the purpose isn’t to make you or anyone else feel worse. It’s enjoyable in the way that snarking at bad movies with your friends is enjoyable. Social grooming without the fleas.

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1 year ago

When absolutely 0 of Biden’s accomplishments have made any kind of news, and we’ve been fed a steady diet of fear and panic for 3 years, no one gets to be shocked when he loses the next election to Donald 2.0.

Posting anything positive about the president here will get you called a capitalist bootlicker.

What do we expect to happen?

Anger sells better. Anger feels better, it feels righteous.

It’s easier to protest against a president you don’t like then to actually remain in charge and keep pushing ahead, even if small, consistent accomplishments are all you receive.

4 years ago
The Comments On This Tiktok… The Unity… The Commitment To The Bit…. Women Are So Sexy
The Comments On This Tiktok… The Unity… The Commitment To The Bit…. Women Are So Sexy
The Comments On This Tiktok… The Unity… The Commitment To The Bit…. Women Are So Sexy

the comments on this tiktok… the unity… the commitment to the bit…. women are so sexy

4 years ago

What’s Visual Snow Syndrome (VSS), and why do so many autistic people have it?

I learned about this the other day, when I posted about palinopsia (visual trailing/afterimages) being common in autistic people, and a couple of our followers told me about their VSS. I did some more research, and discovered that I also have it.

Visual Snow Syndrome is a neurological condition that interferes with visual processing. It’s caused by hyperactivity and hyper-excitability of nerves in certain areas of the brain that process visual information.

The core feature of VSS is constantly seeing tiny, fuzzy “feedback” in the environment. It’s kind of like seeing the world through a staticky TV screen. Some people’s visual static is larger than others. Mine is relatively fine-grained, but it gets bigger and more obvious in low lighting.

Some of the other symptoms of VSS include:

Palinopsia (visual trailing/afterimages)

Photophobia (sensitivity to light)

Increased and enhanced ectopic phenomenon, such as floaters, phosphenes, and Scheerer’s phenomenon

Seeing glare, starbursts, and halos around lights

Difficulty seeing at night/in the dark

Seeing random flashes of light and/or color, without cause from the environment

It’s common for people with VSS to experience comorbid migraines, but VSS is not the same thing as migraine aura.

So, why do autistic people often have VSS?

It comes down to the fact that VSS is caused by the hyper-excitability of neurons in areas of the brain that process visual information. A core feature of autism is hyper-excitable neurons, especially in areas of the brain that have to do with sensory processing. So it makes sense that autism would often inadvertently cause VSS.

Here are some illustrations of visual phenomenon that VSS causes, in case you want a better understanding of what the world looks like for me and many other autistic people.

Visual snow/static:

What’s Visual Snow Syndrome (VSS), And Why Do So Many Autistic People Have It?

Palinopsia/image trailing:

What’s Visual Snow Syndrome (VSS), And Why Do So Many Autistic People Have It?

Scheerer’s Phenomenon (tiny bright moving dots):

What’s Visual Snow Syndrome (VSS), And Why Do So Many Autistic People Have It?

Starbursts around lights:

What’s Visual Snow Syndrome (VSS), And Why Do So Many Autistic People Have It?

Floaters:

What’s Visual Snow Syndrome (VSS), And Why Do So Many Autistic People Have It?

I hope y’all have learned something :)

I’ve found it very intriguing to realize that the way I see the world is more unique than I once knew!

~Eden🐢

4 years ago

I'm not a doc, but my doc told me 2 is a myth. The connection between Vitamin C and adhd meds was debunked - it was merely something drug users did in order to appear clean - they consumed a lot of Vitamin C before testing. It did not work.

The myth was later twisted to the version we hear today. Supposedly even some doctors believe it, although definitely not most. Idk about that one - never met one.

Some smarter/more informed people on the adhd tumblr seem to agree with my doc, so I believe it.

not necessarily aimed at you personally but I figure you and others following might know things: I am waiting for an appointment to talk about finally getting ADHD meds and I am dying to know two things: will it stop or at least HELP these sugar cravings for the dopamine machine and also is it true I can't have fruit juice anymore

It might. It's more likely it will just help you control your actions in response to the cravings and/or make you less interested in eating for a while. Be ready for the dreaded nighttime munchies though... post-meds I have zero self-control.

There is some evidence to suggest that having meds with, say, orange juice can make the meds a little less effective. I think as long as you don't just take them with orange juice and nothing else, you'll be fine. It's rarely a big enough issue that doctors bring it up. (The weird trend of eating charcoal bread etc was a bigger issue because activated charcoal basically sucks up and neutralises some "poisons" in your body... like stimulants and anti-depressants. Yikes.)

For any new medication PLEASE talk to your doctor about any concerns or questions, no matter how silly you feel they are

11 months ago

I normally would never have been interested in House of the Dragon or Star Wars: Acolyte, it’s just not my thing.

But here I am watching them.

I have to.

I Normally Would Never Have Been Interested In House Of The Dragon Or Star Wars: Acolyte, It’s Just
11 months ago

As per usual, I forgot I have boobs now, and should probably care about this more than I used to

This Campaign Defies Censorship In Social Media To Raise Awareness For Early Detection Of Breast Cancer
This Campaign Defies Censorship In Social Media To Raise Awareness For Early Detection Of Breast Cancer
This Campaign Defies Censorship In Social Media To Raise Awareness For Early Detection Of Breast Cancer
This Campaign Defies Censorship In Social Media To Raise Awareness For Early Detection Of Breast Cancer
This Campaign Defies Censorship In Social Media To Raise Awareness For Early Detection Of Breast Cancer
This Campaign Defies Censorship In Social Media To Raise Awareness For Early Detection Of Breast Cancer
This Campaign Defies Censorship In Social Media To Raise Awareness For Early Detection Of Breast Cancer
This Campaign Defies Censorship In Social Media To Raise Awareness For Early Detection Of Breast Cancer

This campaign defies censorship in social media to raise awareness for early detection of breast cancer

4 years ago

me, banging on old hyperfixations: you got serotonin?

1 year ago

Alright this is rly sad but here goes. I started doing my once-in-awhile bot purge from my followers list. And. I used to be able to just quickly scan and see the bots. They were the ones with default icons and generator-sounding names like "noun-girl-827". And if you weren't sure, you could click on the blog and it would be immediately obvious it was a bot because there's either just bad porn click bait, or nothing there.

Well. This time I had to give up immediately because I got like ten followers down the list and was having immense trouble figuring out who's a bot and who's real. Never ever used to see this but like 5/10 of the first few followers I checked on had just totally empty blogs. It wasn't until I'd already blocked 2 - assuming bots bc empty blogs - that I thought to check if they had any likes. And bam! There it was. All of their user activity.

We have people on this website now who have never reblogged a single post.

Y'all, I'm sure you're sick of seeing "you have to reblog thing" but you literally have to reblog things. That is how this website works. You understand that, right? How do you think the post you hit "like" on got in front of you? It wasn't because you liked enough things and Tumblrs algorithm figured out what you like enough to hand it to you. It's because you followed someone, a human person, who reblogged that post. And it came from another person who also reblogged it.

You are killing this website by refusing to interact with it in the way that makes it better than the other websites you ran from to come here.

Anyway, I'm sure you're all nice people, but I'm not going to play the "bot or not" game if you have an empty blog I'm going to block you.

4 years ago

The best visual gag in any piece of media was the giant vault door concealing a normal-sized door in Portal 2

4 years ago

I talked to a young man with white hair on a boat cabin in the middle of a stormy sea. He forgot everything about himself exept for the fact that his name rhymed with ‘Time’ so he started calling himself Time.

I offered him an orange in exchange for a meaningful chat. He took the slice and told me “Nothing’s set in stone, but they’re set in a dirt road. If you roll your wagon in the same path too much it’ll soon be the only path you can take without struggling.”

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