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Dear teen girls,

Stop abusing your boyfriends and yes what you are doing is abuse.

Stop:

Yelling at him in front of his friends 

Hitting or slapping him when he does or says something you don’t like

Telling him he doesn’t have a choice when it comes to decisions that involve both of you 

Telling him he can’t hang out with friends because you don’t like him

Telling him to not talk to other girls even if they are his friend

Forcing him to spend every moment with you 

Belittling him and pointing out all his flaws

Calling him stupid or making fun of him for making a mistake

Threatening to break up with him if he doesn’t do what you want

Being emotionally manipulative and crying until he does what you want

Accusing him of cheating every time he’s not with you

Blow up is phone if he doesn’t text you every five minutes 

Telling him you are the must thing that has ever happened to him and no one else will love

Physically attacking him when ever you are mad

Forcing him to have sex despite that fact that he said he didn’t want to

Invading his privacy by going through his phone

Getting mad at him for changing his password and demanding he tell you what it is

If a guy did any of these things to a girl it would be considered abuse but since its the other way around its considered normal. Throughout High school I saw many girl treating their boyfriends like shit. Sometime even physically abusing them in the hallways and no one trying to stop it because its a girl attacking a boy. 

Boys: If your girlfriend does anything on this list leave her. It is abuse and you deserve better.

Girls: if you find your self doing anything on this list to your boyfriend you need to knock it off because you are being abusive. 

Okay, this is really, really beautiful so if you haven’t listened to it, please do. 

Ray Frenden reviews the too-cheap-to-be-true Monoprice graphics tablets. How do they stack up to industry standard Wacoms?

After spending a week with the 6.25“x10” Monoprice, my Yiynova and Cintiq remain unplugged and I gave my Intuos away to a friend. The Monoprice tracks subtle pressure variances and small movements with less lag and more crisp fidelity than any of the others. It is, put crudely, fucking awesome, in both OSX Lion and Windows 7 x64.

Eliza as a manananggal :^DD Also redraw of something I made a long time ago bc wynaut

Men are using a powerful hashtag to fight back against emotional abuse

According to NCADV, 4 in 10 people have experienced some kind of coercive control from an intimate partner. Sadly, #MaybeSheDoesntHitYou is raising much-needed awareness for a widespread problem.

Christine Allado (Peggy) from Hamilton West End :^D And school is finally over here wooooooo-

The Mermaid (2016).

Draw Yourself Challenge!

Do you want to learn to draw yourself better? Do you want do draw yourself but just don’t know what to draw yourself doing/wearing? Take this challenge! Reblog as a daily challenge or have followers request numbers— do whatever you please! Have fun!

Draw yourself in a space suit.

Draw yourself in the clothes you wore yesterday.

Draw yourself wearing an outfit one of your parents typically wears/wore.

Draw yourself making some breakfast.

Draw yourself as a witch.

Draw yourself as a dragon.

Draw yourself riding a dragon.

Draw yourself in the style of the last animated thing you watched.

Draw yourself wearing a ball gown.

Draw yourself wearing a fancy suit.

Draw yourself wearing tennis shoes.

Draw yourself wearing a top hat.

Draw yourself walking through snow.

Draw yourself surrounded by trees.

Draw yourself with war paint.

Draw yourself playing a musical instrument.

Draw yourself in pajamas.

Draw yourself with different-colored hair.

Draw yourself with different colored eyes.

Draw yourself wearing colorful socks.

Draw yourself wearing a baggy hoodie.

Draw yourself eating ice cream.

Draw yourself as a merperson.

Draw yourself wearing sunglasses.

Draw yourself wearing a knit hat.

Draw yourself wearing a few bracelets.

Draw yourself wearing something purple.

Draw yourself with your best friend(s) or significant other(s).

Draw yourself with a potted plant.

Draw yourself smiling.

Draw yourself pouting.

Draw yourself stepping on a lego.

Draw yourself as an alien.

Draw yourself as a dog.

Draw yourself as a cat.

Draw yourself as a fish.

Draw yourself jumping.

Draw yourself running.

Draw yourself in swimwear.

Draw yourself wearing a helmet.

Draw yourself as a ghost.

Draw yourself sticking your tongue out.

Draw yourself hugging somebody.

Draw yourself in bright sunlight.

Draw yourself in the rain.

Draw yourself laughing.

Draw yourself wearing boots.

Draw yourself lighting a candle.

Draw yourself as a super hero.

Draw yourself sleeping.

Henlo

I have a sideblog now for art and its @iamnotordie

Please help. Father is sick with cancer. Any donation, no matter how small is greatly appreciated

Hello everyone. Normally I would not ask for donations like this, but last year my father was diagnosed with cancer in the lungs and head. As time has passed, he has slowly worsened and per his wishes, we sent him to Mexico to be with his mother and sisters there. Me and my family please ask for any donations if you are able and if not, please share this with others so they may see.

This is the link to the GoFundMe page my Aunt and her sons have set up to try and raise money.

Me and my family are also working hard to send him money, however, we need assistance because as you all know, medicine and staying at the hospital is quite expensive. Not to mention for transportation and the like. We have also been working hard so that family members can personally go see him in Mexico and help as much as we can.

My father is in a lot of pain and it would mean a lot to us if you could help in any way possible so we can pay for his medications so that he may not be in constant pain. And hopefully just be able to ease his journey. Again, any help and shares are greatly appreciated!

Again here is the link

And as some proof that we are not lying, here is a picture of when my father was still relativley healthy:

And this is him after he has gotten more ill and has been in chronic pain. He is pictred here with his mother and sister:

Not just being in constant pain. My father also needs a lot of assistance to hold his food, as his muscles in his hands and legs have greatly weakened. He cannot sit up for a very long time.

I sadly, cannot go visit my father as I suffer from mental health issues and disabilities that make it very difficult for me to travel. But I am trying my best to send him money that I have saved up from financial aid (I study online).

I’m sorry if I don’t have much information or don’t know what to say. This is very difficult and have never had to ask for help like this. More proof of our case will come as I get them. Although, I am of legal age, again, with my disabilities, I cannot look after my father. Thankfully, my family members are trying to help and look after my father.

Again. Any help and especially sharing this post would be really helpful and much appreciated! Thank you!!!

https://www.gofundme.com/there-is-still-hope-for-our-uncle

“Seventeen things you have to learn for yourself as a Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Questioning, Intersex, Asexual, Pansexual or otherwise Queer youth by the time you are seventeen. One is that the first Pride was a riot I don’t mean that it was full of laughter, or that it was some grand party where everyone spiraled up to dance among the stars because the only glittering that night was broken glass on cobblestones. The first Pride was a riot on the backstreets of New York and they never tell us that night we won. The only protest in a decade full of turmoil where the cops had to hide out in the bar they raided and run from shouting rioters who fought to reclaim the only patch of ground they had ever claimed as theirs the first Pride was a riot, and two, around the same time it took place it was a debated topic in the gay community whether or not they should say that they weren’t mentally ill which, three, homosexuality was removed from the American Psychiatric Association’s list of mental illnesses in 1974 congratulations all it took was a vote to declare that, whoops, we were never mentally ill except, four, there are still teenagers being tortured today in what some dare blaspheme as “therapy” used to destroy their self-identity in the hopes of making them normal. except, four, the queer community still carries overwhelmingly high rates for poverty and homelessness and depression. Did you know that, five, over half the children forced into conversion therapy commit suicide? And six, that lesbians were regarded as “hangers-on” of the movement by much of the gay community before the AIDS crisis? Because it turns out, seven can wear a rainbow on your shirt and still be a bigot. There are people who stick rainbows in their ears or wear them on their fingers or slap them across their cheeks in badges of defiance and will still hate you for the color of your skin or the size of your thighs or your gender or the way you like to kiss two or more genders or none of the above. Don’t ask me why this happens it just does I think it might be that we’ve all been taught to hate ourselves for so damn long that we don’t understand what to do in a space with no hate. Or maybe it’s that the space seems too small, because eight, there are people who will tell you that you are not enough that you do not reach the magical benchmark of “gay enough” to pass through the gate even especially when you are some flavor of the rainbow other than straight-out gay. eight, this is bullshit eight, those people are bullshit. eight, you are enough. eight, there is always enough room. nine, there is no overarching “homosexual agenda” sorry we’re all kind of flailing along in here trying to figure out some way to make it work when most of us have nothing in common except that society looked at us in different ways and decided we didn’t fit so we could all go be misfits together under one big rainbow flag but just so you know, ten, there are plenty of other flags there is one for you, I promise and eleven, misfits may not all need the same things but we need to stick together, especially in a world where twelve—refer to point seven—there are lesbians who hate other lesbians for having the audacity to be born in a body that everyone looked at and saw “boy” which brings me to thirteen, there is so much to understand. fourteen, you need to understand because we need to stick together and to stick together we do not have to be the same but we do have to understand and it will be hard because you were probably thrown into this world with no warning because fifteen, being queer is not genetic and we are not unique among minorities in that we collect our heritage through broken bits of history and research in a world constantly working to make those misfit bits go away but we are unique in that when we try to prove our legacy we can be laughed down or re-erased or flat out ignored but I swear to you you have a history as old as Alexander the Great as beautiful as Sappho as dignified as Abraham Lincoln and as proud as Eleanor Roosevelt. But even with that behind us sixteen, they have always watched us die. because even though the bystander effect is bullshit, sixteen Kitty Genovese was a lesbian, sixteen Ronald Reagan is a mass murderer, sixteen our children, your brothers and sisters and siblings of all stripes and all colors and sexualities and genders are being murdered through neglect and rejection and hate. Sixteen, there is an entire generation of gay and bisexual men missing from history because the government chose to do nothing when they were dying by the thousands. sixteen, we died from the disease and died from going back into the closet and died for staying there and died for coming out, sixteen, they laughed at us because they believed god was punishing us for daring to love, sixteen, ashes of your forerunners rest on the lawn of the White House because SIXTEEN, THEY HAVE ALWAYS WATCHED US DIE. SEVENTEEN you are allowed to be angry. You do not have to be one of the nice gays or one of the nice trannies or sweet or kind or educate the rest of the world in something less than a yell you are allowed to be so furious it scalds your bones at the way we are forgotten and passed over at the way, as soon as June becomes July we are expected to go back to dying in silence and mourning our dead and kissing all alone when no one can be offended at the sight of us. You are allowed to be angry and scream down the stars to shatter like broken glass at your feet because you know what? The first Pride was a riot.”

— October 11 (via spondee-soliloquy)

this is beautiful

Mother: Soooooo how's your animation project for school? Are you done with it?

Me: I didn't even start yet

Mother: Why??

Me: Uhhh you took my tablet that has all my drawing apps and the entire script for the animation

Mother: Ohhh I thought you wouldn't use it for animating :^D

Me:

Me:

Me: (in my head) are you just— are you even kidding me where is your commonsense

Parents should not be reading your journals

Parents should not be searching through your trash 

Parents should not be snooping on your private social media messages 

Parents should not be taking your bedroom door off 

Parents should not be invading your privacy 

types of girls: jacket edition

flannel: works hard to achieve their dreams, is anxious but appears easy-going, sunflowers, bike rides at dawn, treating people with respect, horse-riding, carnivals

denim: photography, trying your best even if you’re not perfect, paint-splattered fingers, heart emojis, sketchbook doodles, poetry, procrastination, head full of dreams

leather: doesn’t take shit, red lipstick, noticing underappreciated things, very emotional but scared to let it show, perfectionist, shoulder to cry on, feminist, nails painted black, creativity in unexpected places

hoodie: sad love songs, overthinking, thousands of books in their room, posters of movie stars, undecided future, moving far away from their home, pastel blue, quivering lips

blazer: seems confident but is actually very insecure, girls-support-girls mentality, proving people wrong, breaking rules if they think they’re unfair, standing up for the little guy, blushing when they think nobody’s looking

cardigan: writer, probably does ballet, good grades, hardly ever procrastinates, polyglot, puppies, using manners to people who are used to being treated like dirt, soft smiles, shy but friendly, feeling like you want to say something but not knowing how

a list of filipino curse words for writing filipino characters

hi, your local filipino here, and i’m here to list down a few frequently used curse words so y’all don’t have to use shitty google translate and so y’all can finally make your character curse without the fear of using the wrong mura (curse word) sorry mom

1. gago (asshole) -gago ka! (you’re an asshole) 2. puta (bitch) -i know this is technically spanish but meh, we still use it anyways -we mostly use it as an exclamation 3. putangina (son of a bitch) -directly translates to something like “your mom’s a bitch” -same with puta, we use it as a stand alone curse word. 4. tangina -basically a shortened version of #3 5. puke/pepe (pussy/vagina) -how to pronounce 101: its not pronounced as puke (vomit) its poo-ke and pe-pe not like the dead meme, but its mounted with harder e’s 6. titi (penis) -i think this is self explanatory 7. tae (shit) -this can also be used as piece of shit -pronounced ta-e (harden those e’s) 8. bobo (stupid) -this is just a really degrading word it’s very insulting. -tanga is the nicer version but still v bad.

you can combine some of these to make some REALLY bad curse words: 1) puke ng ina mo (your mother’s vagina) 2) putanginang gago (it just upgraded the word gago. its like saying “fucking motherfucker”

 pronouns 101

ako = i ka = you are/you’re mo = you are/you’re kayo = you all (second person) sila = they are/they’re (plural) siya = gender neutral term (singular; third person)

sentence construction: “maganda ako” or “ako ay maganda” = i am beautiful “maganda ka” = you are beautiful “kaganda mo” = you are beautiful “maganda ang aso mo” or “kaganda ng aso mo” = your dog is beautiful “maganda kayo” or “ maganda kayong lahat” = you all are beautiful “maganda sila” = they’re beautiful “maganda siya” = they’re beautiful

Trump greeted with 'Welcome to Kenya' signs in Hawaii

O look Ordie takes pictures of random things in public @ordietakespictures

Shading practice?? (Also posted this on Hamilton Amino you can find me at cronch™)

Just an experiment. Reblog if you actually give a fuck about male victims of domestic violence and rape.

Of fucking course

What sick bastard doesn’t

i’m watching olympic snowboarding and this guy just checked his phone before going down the hill and put it in his pocket.. he brought his phone down the hill at the olympics… this is so chaotic 

LISTEN UP KIDS BECAUSE I AM FED UP WITH SEEING THIS BULLSHIT CROSS MY DASH (such as this post here) THIS POST IS NOT GIVING YOU IMPORTANT INFORMATION ON HOW TO PREVENT RAPE

THIS POST IS MADE UP FUCKING BULLSHIT BY SOME FUCKING GUY PEDDLING A SELF DEFENSE CLASS SPREAD BY A GODDAMN EMAIL FORWARD

YES. AN EMAIL FORWARD. THE SAME SHIT YOUR GRANDPARENTS SEND TO YOU TELLING YOU THAT CANOLA OIL IS ACTUALLY ACIDIC AND WILL GIVE YOU CANCER THAT CAN BE CURED BY DRINKING ORANGE JUICE FIVE TIMES A DAY. THAT KIND OF BULLSHIT. ARE YOU TOO LAZY TO READ THIS SNOPES LINK? LET ME COPY PASTE THAT SHIT FOR YOU This bit of codswallop began its Internet life in January 2000 as an enthusiastic e-mail penned by an employee at the St. Louis office of the public relations firm Weber Shandwick. The writer was among a group enrolled in a self-defense class taught by David Portnoy, an instructor who claims to have trained with actors Steven Seagal and Jean-Claude Van Damme.  Portnoy refuses to give information about what he teaches in his classes or details of where he gained the information he passes along, preferring instead to sell it. (He demanded a $1,000 interview fee from a Denver Post reporter). If, however, this Weber Shandwick employee's e-mail describing what he teaches is accurate, Portnoy should be characterized as a fear merchant vending false information to those anxious to feel safe.  If rapists choose their victims based on hairstyle and length of tresses, it’s news to those in law enforcement; they’ve never noticed this trend. Rape victims have short hair, long hair, and no hair. They’re also young and old, short and tall, fat and skinny, femininely dressed or looking like they just fell off the tractor, and all points in between.  Likewise, the claim that rapists go after women wearing overalls because “the straps can be easily cut” is pure hogwash, as anyone who has ever tried to cut up an old pair can attest. Overalls are made of some of the most resilient fabrics known to mankind (denim and canvas, usually), and cutting these straps is made almost impossible because the fabric is doubled over and seamed at that point in the garment. If there’s a pair of scissors that can snip through this, I’ve yet to wield 

them.  Rape is also not always about getting sex quickly. Often it’s an act of rage or punishment directed at a vulnerable person for perceived injustices done to the attacker by others. Getting a woman out of her clothes quickly isn’t a factor in these rapes; terrorizing her and inflicting bodily harm is.  If we take points one and two together, we’re to believe rapists arm themselves with scissors for cutting overall straps (instead of just easing them off the shoulders or — heaven forbid! — undoing the fasteners) yet fail to think to equip themselves with rolls of duct tape to keep their victims subdued, preferring instead to grab hold of their hair and hang on.  According to Denver Police Sgt. John Burbach, most rapes occur in the evening hours and into early morning, ending before dawn, not “between 5 and 8:30 a.m.” as claimed in the e-mail. Statistics from the U.S. Department of Justice fully support him in this claim: The DOJ says “Approximately two-thirds of rapes/sexual assaults occurred at night — 6 p.m. to 6 a.m.”  As for the tidbit “The number one place women are abducted from/attacked at is grocery store parking lots. Number two is office parking lots/garages. Number three is public restrooms,” Kathie Kramer, public relations coordinator at the Denver Rape Assistance and Awareness Program (RAAP) says, “Statistics in studies I’ve found don’t support this idea about grocery stores or parking lots being especially unsafe.” Location is important in a violent sexual assault, but there’s nothing inherently dangerous about parking lots or public restrooms; what matters is their isolation. Areas heavily frequented by foot traffic are far less likely to be chosen by a rapist. Likewise, badly-lit, less-frequented places will be favored for this type of attack.  The e-mail claims that only 2% of rapists (one out of every fifty) carries a weapon. That figure is seriously out of whack: 1995 U.S. Department of Justice statistics show that weapons were used in 30% of all rapes, meaning the chances that your rapist will be armed is just a little less than one in three. Battling an armed attacker while unarmed yourself is rarely a wise course of action to take, and misstatements such as the 2% figure could well incite an attacked woman to thrust herself into that dynamic because she figures her chances are far better than they actually are.  “If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.” That’s great advice, provided you get the right rapist. And you’ve no way of knowing until it’s too late.  As comforting as it might be to believe there’s only one sort of baddie out there and if you understand his mind you can stay safe, that just isn’t the case. There is no one set of right answers, and e-mails of this ilk potentially put us at even greater risk by suggesting that there is.  Around 1980, Nicholas Groth, director of Forensic Mental Health Associates, established a typology of rapists. Groth arrived at his conclusions by distilling his observations of more than 3,000 sex offenders over the course of 25 years of practice. (Most of his patients, Groth points out, were not sexually deprived at the time they committed rape, thereby exploding that most common of rape myths: that men rape because they’re unable to get sex any other way.)  In a general sense, rapists fall into three motivational types: anger, power, and sadism. In anger assaults, the rapist is getting even for “some wrong he feels has been done to him, by life, by his victim at the time. He’s in a frame of rage and attacks someone sexually.” The anger rape is usually unpremeditated and impulsive, but the impulse drives the rapist into excessive force: the victim is punched, choked, and kicked into submission. Most such offenders derive little pleasure from the act, says Groth, but “they want to degrade their victims, and sex is something bad, dirty, the worst thing you could do to someone. That reflects a lot of our values in society.“  An anger rapist could be discouraged by a potential victim who yells at him or puts up a physical struggle, thanks to the unpremeditated nature of the attack. Because the aggressor may not yet have fully decided to pursue this course of action, resistance may well change his mind. Here, even a half-hearted attempt might prove to be all it takes to end the assault. On the other hand, the rage the attacker is feeling might well be further fed by active resistance — this could be taken as yet another instance of one more person trying to deny him something he wants.  Power rape, according to Groth, is a form of compensation, committed usually by men who feel unsure of their competence. Rape gives them a sense of mastery and control. Power rapists usually hunt for victims or seize opportunities that present themselves unbidden. A power rapist is unlikely to be discouraged by resistance because his whole self image is wrapped up in his attempt to prove mastery. A woman who chooses to fight one of these had better do a darned good job of it, because she could well end up fighting for her life.  Groth defines his third type, sadistic rape, as eroticized aggression perpetrated by those whom the very act of forcible sex excites in ways that consensual sex can’t. “If the anger components of aggression are eroticized,” he explains, “then you see sadistic acts, such as deliberate sexual torture, using an instrument to rape the victim.” A sadistic rapist is interested in inflicting pain and lasting harm. Any countering aggression on the part of the victim could well add to the attacker’s enjoyment of the experience, prompting him to further acts of depravity in an effort to provoke further resistance.  The question of to fight back or not is an age-old one, and there’s no one right answer. Granted, one particular rapist might be sent running bloody-nosed by a swift right hook, but try that on another one and a horrific experience could be transformed into a fatal one. Resistance advice of the type being circulated in the e-mail in question creates the false impression that escaping unscathed from the clutches of a rapist is only a matter of knowing which self-defense tricks to employ. Reality, however, is far different. Not all rapists can be overcome.  Does this then mean self-defense classes are a waste of time? Hardly. But they’re also not the surefire protection they’re too often touted to be, any more than a can of mace confers upon its wielder guaranteed safe passage through whatever mean streets and dark alleys lie in her path. Also, physical skills are only as good as recent training — someone who hasn’t practiced a move in the three months since she took a course is only a tad better prepared to fend off an attacker than someone who never had any training at all. Worst of all, such training can lead those who have aced their courses to develop a dangerous complacency about their own safety, inducing them into a state of overconfidence wherein awareness of their surroundings becomes a lost art, buried under the certainty that now bad things can’t happen to them.  Complacency kills.  As always, the best defense to an attempted rape is not to be there when it happens — either avoid potentially dangerous situations (none of this “Oh, it’s only a few blocks; I’ll just walk” at 3 a.m.) or run like hell if you find yourself in one. Escaping your attacker is a far wiser course of action to strive for than attempting to do battle with him. Forget about his needing a good beating followed by a lengthy jail term; your first priority has to be your own safety. Leave the Wonder Woman stuff for Linda Carter and make like a track star vying for a gold medal in the 100m.  The e-mail did contain one bit of valuable advice: Stay aware of your surroundings. Not only is it important to see trouble coming before it gets to you and avoid it, but an alert stance can help discourage a would-be attacker. Those looking to prey upon others — whether their aim is robbery, rape, or mayhem — generally choose as victims those who appear preoccupied or tentative in preference to those who exude a sense of purpose. Or, as I was told long ago, “Always look like you know exactly where you’re going and move like you’re expected to be there at exactly a certain time.” Mooning about aimlessly can make you a statistic.  So, to sum up, is avoiding a rape a matter of wearing your hair short and eschewing overalls? Hardly. And anyone who attempts to characterize it as such ought to be whomped over someone’s knee.  Read more at http://www.snopes.com/crime/prevent/rape.asp#6hTjPG6blGHFWmex.99

IF YOU CAN REBLOG THAT LONG ASS PIECE OF SHIT POST, THEN YOU CAN REBLOG THIS ONE CORRECTING IT. REPEAT. THIS IS INFORMATION IS NOT TRUE AND COULD GET SOMEONE KILLED.

SPREAD THIS SHIT LIKE ‘WILDFIRE’. THANK YOU.

Henlo

I have a sideblog now for art and its @iamnotordie

Three little blobs :D (and also shading practice) (and yes my wattpad is Ordie_)

Classes are suspended yet again bc of heavy rains here whyyyyy (I do enjoy going to school fite me- wait don't-)

Have a Matt :^D

(*goes offline for weeks*

*then suddenly goes online for nearly the whole day and spams posts*

*goes offline and the cycle continues*)

Out of all the things I’ve received at pride parades, as a Christian, this one is my favorite.

there’s now an AI that colors your sketches

https://paintschainer.preferred.tech/ here

RIP job

One of my OCs that I'm still making :^D

guys i found something revolutionary