Dance Macabre was beautiful ! Did it 6 times in 2 days. I hope to come back here again.
Is it weird i started to feel more comfortable being feminine after realizing i was a trans guy?
NOPE!!! NOT WEIRD AT ALL THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED TO ME
when i sat out to transition, i had a few things in mind. i knew that i needed my voice and body to be different. i knew that i was not a cis woman. however, i was still drawn to femininity. at the time i was awakening as a gay man and i realized that i had a feminine side, but it had nothing to do with womanhood. absolutely nothing. to me, my femininity is part of my manhood, and my genderqueerness, not my womanhood.
i transitioned partially so i could feel comfortable being and dressing feminine! i actually told people that during the beginning stages of my transition, that i was excited to masculinize myself so i could be femme without dysphoria. being seen as a feminine cis woman was utterly painful, but living as a femme gay man... that was liberating. i finally felt so many pieces of myself click into place.
you are NOT alone in this, i hear this experience a lot from other trans men, and ive actually heard the opposite from tons of trans women- that after transitioning into womanhood, they felt a lot more comfortable in their masculinity. feminine doesn't mean woman. masculine doesn't mean man. it's okay if you find that femininity is now much more comfortable and enjoyable after realizing you were a guy. being a feminine man is a beautiful experience
i hope that helps! feel free to ask any more questions you may have! you're definitely not alone and it's not weird at all!
I want pretty boys in my arms aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
We could cuddle forever sjfnsjfjj
This is the first time i’ve seen a pro-trans poster in a long time and i hope whoever put it up is having a good day, it made me feel a little less alone.
Hamilton, New Zealand
if you’re gonna have a big celebrity voice a character in your animated movie you should show it to a test audience and if they can correctly guess who the celebrity is you need to fire the celebrity and hire a real va
What are the limitations of friendship but a normalized social construct ?
I shall kiss my friends if we so desire, thank you very much
6 Types of Rest
😴 Physical rest: sleep, naps, eating pre-prepared meals to save energy, relaxing muscles
👋🏻 Sensory rest: stimming openly, turning off sensory triggers
🧠 Mental rest: turning off from working, meditating, re-watching your favourite shows
☺️ Emotional rest: spending time doing things that make you feel content, talking to people who make you feel secure
📱 Social rest: spending time with yourself, unmasking, refilling your social bucket
🎨 Creative rest: expressing yourself creatively, art therapy, crafting, dancing
Colourblind_Zebra
parenting isn't for everyone, and that's okay. you don't need to become a parent. you can have a happy, fulfilling life without being a parent. you can positively influence generations after yours without being a parent. you are not a bad person if you don't want to be, can't be, or shouldn't be a parent. there is more to adult life than parenting. and you are inherently important, just by existing. no matter what.
If everybody just started stealing, money would finally lose its worth
There are not nearly enough words in the English lexicon (or any language for that matter) to express the immense charm and magnificence of that Fallen Angel painting. I think about it so often and every little detail is simply mesmerising. I want it on my wall in big. I want to see it every day for the rest of my existence because it is too beautiful not to, and it would honestly make each day ×9999999999 better.
You can call me Owen :) He/They 22 y/o | ND, cupioromantic, gay, polyam, witch, and some other things | frogs are cute
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