“It’s Not About Me. It’s About Everyone Else.”

Cinderella was too weak to fight for herself...AND THAT’S OKAY!

I cannot believe we’re still tearing Cinderella down! 2018 only has a few months left and we’re still doing this, we’re still painting her as the weakest Disney princess and we’re still painting her weakness as a bad thing?

Why?

Why are people so caught up on bashing this princess?

“The movie is so simplistic—”

In what way is it possibly simplistic?!

“She didn’t work hard—”

YES, SHE DID!

“Well, okay, but the fairy godmother still had to come in—”

Yep, I remember the movie too, and the countless stories on which it’s based.

“So the fairy godmother was the one who caused the happily ever after.”

She sure was, now, what’s your point?

No, really, what’s your point? Is the point that Cinderella is somehow weak because she wasn’t 100% in control of her own life? Seems like a pretty disgusting opinion to have when the whole movie is about an abuse victim finding a way out of her horrible situation. So Cinderella wasn’t the one who got herself out. So what? Instead of looking the movie at its bare surface, maybe try analyzing it with a bit more thought and tact. You might see something a little different. A magical transformation, if you will.

Because Cinderella did work hard.

And guess what we learned from that?

You can work

and work

and work

And there will still be people out there who will try to tear you apart:

Literally.

And that sucks. It’s a horrible lesson to learn but it is something we will all face in our lifetimes. There will always be people who will try to tear us down, there will always be people who will try to rip us apart, until we’re in a low place:

Until it seems like there’s no hope…

Until it seems like you’re too weak to get out on your own…

And maybe you are.

Maybe you are too weak to get out on your own. Maybe you’re not the strongest woman in the world. Maybe you’re not capable of screaming at the top of your lungs or brandishing a weapon or throwing a punch. Maybe you’re not able to get out of something on your own. Maybe you hit a low point and maybe you have no way out of it. Not alone. But that’s just it.

You’re not alone.

Even at your lowest point, someone will come help you.

You don’t have to do it all alone.

It’s okay to have a little help when you have nowhere else to turn.

Cinderella is the story about an abuse victim who is unable to get out of her toxic situation by herself and just when she begins to lose all hope, is able to get help from an unlikely source. It’s the story about a girl who needs help getting to her happily ever after and that’s okay. 

Give us advocates:

They deserve their happily ever afters!

Give us warriors:

They deserve their happily ever afters!

Give us fighters:

They deserve their happily ever afters!

Give us girls who are not advocates, girls who are not warriors, girls who are not fighters, girls who still deserves their happily ever afters:

Masterlist

Poe x Reader pretty sure all most of them are fluff. You can click this link here for all my Poe x Reader stuff. I’ll eventually list which is angst/fluff on here. 

Poe (personal) HC / Kisses / NSFW

Modern AU:

Smitten: Part 1 / Part 2 / Part 3 / Part 4 / Part 5/ Part 6 / Part 7 / Part 8

The Life You Lead

Good Friends

Teacher!Poe

A Dance For Two: Part 1 / Part 2 / Part 3 / Part 4 / Part 5 / Part 6

Suits & Ties

Dinner With Poe

Untitled*

Untitled Theater AU*

Anon Request: Solace

Star Wars (TFA):

Some Are Fated: Part 1 / Part 2 / Part 3 / Part 4 / Part 5

Rose-Colored Boy

100 Ways To Say I Love You

Delirious Man

Picking Up The Pieces

Twenty Seconds

At The Beginning

Breathe : Part 1 / Part 2

Sweetheart

By Your Side

Deal

Not So Secret BB-8

Makeup to Makeout

A Love Letter: Part 1 / Part 2

Can You Hear Me?

Anon Request: L’ulo’s Adopted Daughter

Angst Request: Risk

Homesick

Even Now, I Keep Calling Your Name: Part 1 / Part 2 / Part 3

Anon Request: Accidental Mishap

Familiar Faces

Together Again

Star Wars (TLJ)

Home: Part 1 / Part 2

Picking Up The Pieces: Part 1 / ?

General Dameron

Anon Request: Insecurities/Fluff

Loyalty

Wait-What?: Part 1 / Part 2

Gone (One Shot)

Lifelines: Part 1 / Part 2 (NSFW)

What’s Your Type?

Finn x Reader

Star Wars (TFA)

Anon Request: Angst/Fluff

Anon Request: Angst/Insecurities/Fluff

Last Updated: 2018/20/03 💚

What endearments am I allowed? Well let me think… “Lizzie” for everyday, “My Pearl” for Sundays, and “Goddess Divine”, but only on very, special occasions. And… what should I call you when I am cross? “Mrs. Darcy”? No! No. Pride and Prejudice (2005) dir. Joe Wright

i got a round face w/ chubby cheeks bc i have loved stored in them 

Tender Loving Care AU

Pairing: Vampire!Aleksander Morozova x Vampire!Fem!Reader

Summary: After meeting on an exclusive supernatural dating site, Aleksander offers to introduce you to all the things your immortal life has been lacking over the last two centuries.

Warnings [18+]: mentions of blood, blood consumption, reader had a traumatic turning, Aleksander gives off daddy vibes, mentions of masturbation, brief reference to sex. (warnings will be updated as each part is posted - each part will have its own individual warnings too)

The First Move

Alina discovers that you aren’t utilising the dating profile she had set up for you four months ago and decides to help you find a match - leading you to Aleksander.

Tender Loving Care

You have an awful migraine, and your human roommate Alina enlists the help of the only vampire she knows - the one you’ve been talking to on a popular supernatural dating site - Aleksander.

Morning Tea

Aleksander kept his word, staying with you for the night, and he plans to keep his word by teaching you how to make blood tea.

Preparations

You and Aleksander discuss his offer to claim you, and the two of you learn a little more about one another.

When You’re Ready

Aleksander brings you to his apartment to stake his claim on you, and the bonding process begins.

A drunken deal ! 💝🥂 Ft. ‘Best friends to lovers’ trope + college!AU w/ Ransom Drysdale

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Good words. Good soil. Great growth.

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