Panterablack - G R O W T H.

the way I care for people makes me wish I had somebody like me in my life

Women could save themselves a lot of stress by realizing that if a man wanted you he would come and get you. There’s no need for you to be extra. You want a man? Don’t chase, attract.

I love observing peoples behavior. why do you act like that lmao

telling a girl she’s priority vs treating her like she is a priority are two completely different things

Marlon Wayans, Method Man & Tyson Beckford at MTV Rock ‘n Jock Football Game (1998).

needs pt. 06

Don't tell people your boundaries. Show them.

If you tell someone they can't talk to you a certain way or do certain things, those are not boundaries. Boundaries are things we show. If you tell someone "if you do that again I am not going to speak to you" and you stay and continue to speak to them, that's not a boundary. Just words. Words that they now know means absolutely nothing and they can take advantage of.

You show people how to treat you.

You reinforce your boundaries with your actions. Unless you show someone with your actions that what they are doing is not okay, and you do not continue to allow it, they will keep doing it.