Fuck My Entire Life

whatever man

my boy strawpaw because I cannot be missing on on the @mommyclan fun . he is a silly goober okay goodnigjt higher effort things later

Challenging irrational thoughts

Step 1 - Identify the thought and if possible, why you’re having it.

The first step to challenging a thought is to identify it. If it’s helpful to you, consider writing it out.

Example 1: My friend doesn’t want to be friends anymore. I think this because we usually talk a lot more and lately they’ve been quieter.

Example 2: I’m a failure and can’t do anything. I think this because I messed up and got a bad grade.

Step 2 - Look for exceptions

This involves looking out for similar situations that had ended differently than is being assumed.

Example 1: This has happened before, and it turned out that they were busier than usual with final exams.

Example 2: When my friends get bad grades, I never think they are a failure.

Step 3 - Find evidence to the contrary

Example 1: Last week, she told me how important I was to her and that she missed me.

Example 2: I’ve done a lot of things successfully. I helped a friend through a breakdown yesterday. I got a good grade on another assignment. I passed my drivers test.

Step 4 - Replace it with an alternate thought

When it comes to an alternate thought, if you can put a positive spin on it that’s great. But I find that hard, so I try and find a neutral thought.

Example 1: It’s likely my friend has something going on and she will reach out to me when she’s ready.

Example 2: Failing one assignment doesn’t make me a failure. I’m not defined by any one thing.

Hey man, I really enjoyed following you for all of your content, but I noticed something recently that’s really upsetting.

I saw you talking about Pro-shipping; I don’t know if you quite understand what you’re supporting.

In disallowing “antis”, you’re inviting people who support pedophilia, incest, and all kinds of other things in those areas.

Is that seriously who you want to be associated with?

No hate, I guess. I just wanna know for my own safety so I can know whether or not I need to unfollow and the like.

All due respect, anon, I think it's you who doesn't understand the position you're supporting.

The anti position is that pixels deserve the same rights as living, breathing human beings. The anti position is that rape and abuse are not wrong because they are a violation of human rights, but because they're "icky". The anti position is that the rape of a real person is not any worse than writing a story about a fictional character being raped. The anti position is that it's acceptable to tell people to kill themselves over their tastes in fiction. The anti position is that survivors who enjoy dark fiction as a way to feel seen are the same as their abusers. The anti position is that sending reports to the FBI over stories on AO3, thus diverting resources from real children in need of rescuing from trafficking, is not only acceptable, but a moral obligation. The anti position is that fictional beings will always be more important and deserving of respect and kindness than real people.

If THAT is what you want to be associated with, then yes, perhaps you should unfollow, because I will never take the stance that a fictional character has any rights at all- let alone rights equal to a real person's.

not art but my boyfriend got a starscream yesterday so we're putting it together! happy new year everyone

over one month reblog

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my boy strawpaw because I cannot be missing on on the @mommyclan fun . he is a silly goober okay goodnigjt higher effort things later

starting a petition to end this dichotomy in warrior cats designs forever

Solid Snake x Gray Fox?

oh this one fell apart 👍

some highlights from a current wip (everyone and their mother has made a bbc ghosts modern au but i have thomas/isabelle brainworms and needed to make my own take on one with them as the focus)

no, thanks