I Hope You Dream With Your F/o Tonight

Imagine your F/O being really, truly infatuated with the way you look. Of course, you have plenty of other traits they adore and admire, but they would be lying if they said they didn’t find you the most beautiful person they’ve ever laid eyes on. They could write endless poetry about how your eyes sparkle, how your smile makes them weak at the knees, how angelic you look even when you’re just standing there. They’ll always feel like the luckiest person in the world for having been chosen by you.

in-law f/os that tell you to call them by their first name. or by mom or dad. in-law f/os that ask you if you're staying for dinner. in-law f/os that ask you if you're staying the night. in-law f/os that give you your own key. in-law f/os that tell you to call them if you need anything. in-law f/os that welcome you into their lives easily because they see the way you love their kid and they see the way their kid loves you.

Friendly reminder that it is COMPLETELY NORMAL to feel extremely attached to/have intense feelings for fictional characters.

The human brain cannot differentiate the feelings and attachments we have to irl people from the feelings and attachments we have to fictional characters. Chemically, the feelings are the exact same

More to the point, if a character you love ever gets hurt or god forbid dies, it is absolutely normal to feel genuine grief and hurt because of it. As far as the chemicals in your brain are concerned, you genuinely just watched your friend/partner/family member get hurt.

Your feelings are valid and normal.

big big hug to all selfshippers who have ships that they're uncomfortable with (both canon or doubles) you guys are the strongest soldiers ever!

just know that your f/o loves you and you only. they won't look at anyone but you. you're the love of their life and they'd spend everyday telling you over and over again that you're the only one for them.

they look at you like you're the most precious gem in the world. they will never let you feel down because they're always there for you to hug and comfort you. you're theirs, and they're yours. 🤍

your f/o loves you sooooo much oh my god. Your f/o is like. actually obsessed with you? it’s peak romance. it’s awesome

i want to FLUSTER that man. i want to make him BLUSH. i want to make him feel VULNERABLE AROUND ME. i want to make him WEAK IN THE KNEES. i want to kiss him

Stoic F/Os losing their composure around you,,,, getting flustered and blushy when you laugh or smile at them,,,,

You are your f/o's first choice.

selfshipping having a proper community is literally the cutest thing ever. literally the love community where we talk about how much we love our guys (gender neutral) and support other peoples love for their guys. how cute is that it's so wholesome 🥰

Creating a self insert (who looks a bit like me) is the best thing I've ever done, as it makes me feel so much better about myself. I can be a person in the world of my fav media? I can have adventures with magic, superpowers or just hang out with my fav characters? And there are characters who like or even love me for who I am? Amazing <3