I'm currently looking for some little friends to talk to and maybe hangout. ππ She/Hers/Her, 22 y.o./U.S/ pansexual. If you have a question my DMs are always open.
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Sos pwetty!π₯Ίππ₯°π€β¨π
Lost Stars
gentle reminder: you are loved and appreciated by so many people
I am very tired and I want to be held by someone who loves me
Sorry I didnβt text you back my anxiety told me I was bothering you
Baby Bunny π°
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πβοΈ look little one, mr. bunny is stargazing! why donβt you go join him? <3 βοΈπ
How to: Aftercare your Sub
Ideas and Tips
These tips may vary depending on what your sub likes/enjoys or doesnt like/enjoy.
Try taking these into consideration before anything else:
Always ask how they feel, does anything hurt?
Make sure they know they are safe and you care about them
Simply ask if they need anything, Reassurance? A glass of water? Cuddles?
Respect if your sub needs some space, doesnβt feel like talking, or just wants to sleep
After Care Ideas
β’ Holding/ Cuddling your sub
β’ Praising them: ex. βYou were such a good girlβ, βYou did so wellβ
β’ Treating any wounds: ex. from spanking, rope burn, etc.
β’ Putting a cold/warm wet compress on any welts, cuts, or bruises
β’ Kissing any welts, cuts or bruises
β’ Running them a warm bubble bath
β’ Wrapping them into a warm fluffy blanket
β’ Massaging them
(w essential oils, sensitive skin lotions)
β’ Watching their favorite movies, shows
β’ Listening to their favorite music*
*preferably soft, calm music
β’ Giving them a treat they enjoy
β’ Carrying them where ever they might need to go
The Importance of Aftercare
Aftercare is not only very important but essential, for both vanilla and kinky sex.
Sub drop is how a sub might feel depression/anxiety or even considering their self worth after sex, especially BDSM/Hardcore Sex.
It is very important to be there for your sub as well as reassure them that they are safe, and you care for them.
This is also when you tend to any wounds that may have occurred during sex, like welts, bruises, cuts or rope burns.
DO NOT:
Immediately leave your sub alone or unattended to for an extended amount of time after sex! especially after hardcore/rough/bdsm sex scenes.
Leave any wounds received by the sub unattended to
Try to jump into some unrelated activities THAT CAN WAIT, without proper after care; ex. asking them to do chores, get ready to go grocery shopping.
Failure to comply with essential aftercare risks the trust you and your sub share and your subs mental security after sex,
especially after Hardcore/BDSM/Rough Scenes; ex. Rape Play, Bondage, Spanking, Anal Play and many more.
I want to be little.
I want to drink milk out of a sippy cup while playing animal crossing. I want to cuddle up in my blankies watching cartoons. I want to be made little snacks and taken care of.
I donβt want to be big anymore.
things that mean a lot to me but I will never mention:
β’ goodnight/ goodmorning texts β’ I miss youβs β’ I hope youβre okayβs β’ thinking about you β’ when someone goes out of their way to show you they care β’ when someone shows a real interest in you β’ feeling wanted β’ feeling like what you feel is validated β’feeling important
The tighter the hug the better it feels.
π₯Ίπ₯Ίπ₯Ίexactly
NO MEANS NO but so does: βi donβt feel like itβ βnot right nowβ βiβm not sureβ βiβm not comfortable with thisβ βi donβt like thatβ βletβs just chillβ
Name ideas for stuffies:
(you can put βLadyβ, βSirβ, βMr.β or βMrs.β in front of every name! some names may double because they fit for more than one color.) β₯ for white colored friends: βοΈ angel βοΈ ghosty βοΈ coconut (coco) βοΈ blizzard βοΈ cotton βοΈ daisy βοΈ dove βοΈ marble βοΈ marshmellow (mellow) βοΈ snowdrop (snow, snowy) βοΈ pearl (pearly) βοΈ tofu βοΈ sugar βοΈ nova βοΈ marzipan βοΈ ivory βοΈ dazzle β₯ for pink colored friends: π blush π rose (rosy) π peony π (cotton) candy π bubble gum π lotus π tulip π dahlia π princess / prince / princette (goes for every color of course!) π ruby π roseberry π peach (peaches) π rosebud π begonia π cherry blossom π orchid π petunia β₯ for red colored friends: π strawberry π rose π marigold π tulip π cherry π maroon π crimson π flame(s) π zinnia π poppy π camellia π cranberry (berry) π autumn π chili π radish π maple π ladybug π holly β₯ for orange colored friends: π fox (foxy, foxxo) π topaz π tulip π canna π sunny π carnation π carrot π pumpkin π cosmos (no, itβs a plant!) π garfield π daylily π soleil (means sun in french. itβs the name of my cat! pronounce: [sΙlΙj]) π lantana π iris π honey (dew, drop) π sunset β₯ for yellow colored friends: π sunny π tulip π buttercup π lemon(ade) π pansy π goldie π daffodil π canary π sunflower π dandelion π macaroni π bumblebee (bee) π citron π amber π honey (dew, drop) π waffles π duck (duckie, duckling) π simpson π fanta π caramel β₯ for brown colored friends: π» teddy π» cocoa π» chocolate π» cookie π» cinnamon π» muffin π» clove π» nutmeg π» hazel π» brownie π» bailey π» pecan π» woody π» walnut π» mocha π» snickers π» bean π» moose π» bambi π» fawn π» caramel β₯ for purple colored friends: π violet π clematis π arabella π aubergine π lavender π tulip π pansy π catmint π orchid π cosmos π sweet pea π galaxy π amethyst π plum π lupin π petunia π glory (from morning glory) π delphin (from delphinium) π sapphire (can be purple, too!) π wisteria β₯ for blue colored friends: π diamond π sapphire π sky π topaz π pacific (pacifica) π ocean π blueberry π periwinkle π dandelion π lily (from blue calla lily) π blu π rain (rainy) π dew (dewdrop) π ice π frozen π freeze π drop π cobalt π azure π indigo β₯ for green colored friends: π clover π lucky π meadow π emerald π olive π leaf π pea π frog (froggy) π avocado (or avacado for girls!) π kiwi π honeydew π melon π pixy π jalapeno π mint (minty) π rosemary π grape π shrek π dragon π lizzard π grinch π apple π yoda π yoshi π elliot β₯ for black colored friends: π€ night π€ blacky π€ shadow π€ void π€ onyx π€ ink π€ pepper π€ pepsi π€ oreo π€ ebony π€ ore π€ coal π€ smudge π€ mud (muddy) π€ raven π€ panda π€ panther π€ domino π€ dice π€ shady π€ midnight π€ voodoo β₯ for grey colored friends: π dust (dusty) π ash (ashes) π comet π delphine (dolphin) π mouse π floyd (meaning βgrayβ in Welsh) π pebbles π pigeon π silver π smokey π misty π wolf (wolfie) π luna (means moon) π moon π moonlight π whippet π marble β₯ for cream colored friends: π¦ creamy π¦ cream puff π¦ truffles π¦ nugget π¦ biscuit π¦ popcorn π¦ waffles π¦ muffin π¦ cookie π¦ butterball π¦ pudding π¦ cheesecake π¦ peanut butter π¦ cashew π¦ cupcake π¦ saffron β₯ for rainbow colored friends: π sprinkles π rainbow π parrot π paint π cake π spring (because of all the colorful flowers!) π send in some more ideas
Praise your Little
βΒ βYou did your homework? Thatβs great!β
ββYou ate properly? Good job!β
βΒ βYou slept 8 WHOLE HOURS? AWESOME!β
βΒ βYou made a meal? ON YOUR OWN? Iβm so proud of you!β
βΒ βOh? Is this drawing for me? Thank you sweetie, itβs so pretty! and you said you couldnβt draw!β
βΒ βHm, your bed is all neat and tidy. You did that? No way! What a good (insert nick name) you are!β
βΒ βYou took your meds? Well done baby!β
βΒ βYou brushed your teeth? TWICE?? Great job!β
βΒ βYou faced one of your fears today? Really?! Oh baby, Iβm so proud!β
βΒ βYou did all your chores? Are you sure your stuffie didnβt help you? BY YOURSELF? Good (insert nick name)!β
It doesnβt take much to praise your little, and it means a hell of a lot to usπ
reblog if you want your followers to tell you one thing they secretly think about you.
I wuv ice cream!!!π¦π¦π¦
We can do anything!!! π
βI canβt play with you right now Kiddoβ
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Jus fur anyons tats new ans no knows wat te names means
Bunny enjoying his new bed
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