i love it when gloria goes war-mode
Can I just have the cat?
being a humanities major who’s friends with stem majors is so funny because you’ll ask your friends what they’re doing today and they’re like “UGH it’s so stressful i have to stabilize the reactor core for my nuclear power midterm and then i have to build the supercomputer from i have no mouth yet i must scream for my electrical engineering homework :/ what about you” and you’re like “oh well i have to read a fun little book and write an essay about gender.” and they still think you have it worse
The sad truth
*when all of your favs decide to have a comeback at the same time
do not ingest the caspava slow burn that shit will K!LL YOU
I don’t know how to tell y’all that Chadwick Boseman was a real person outside of T’Challa or Jackie Robinson or any of his other roles and his death is tragic because he suffered in silence for YEARS while still dedicating himself relentlessly to his craft. Let him rest in peace and power as Chadwick Boseman, not as T’Challa or Jackie Robinson or any other role.
And please for the love of god if you’re more worried about who’s going to play Black Panther from now on, take a step back and realize a real person died. A family lost their son, husband, brother, father, to a horrible disease, and your worry is about a fictional character. Please get back in touch with reality.
I am not you. We are not the same people. We don’t look at the world the same way. We choose different words. We take different steps. I can not and do not want to be you. You’re beautiful as individuals, as people, and God knows I love you to death, but I am beautiful too. And that beauty is not defined by the things we do similarly. It is defined by our differences. My beauty and it’s definition lies in myself, and it can not be framed by your norms. My beauty is mine. The words I choose are only mine. Some I share with the world, some I don’t. But the ones I do are mine to pick, and it’s not your job to pick me apart for choosing them. After all, they are doing no harm. Though they sometimes may be uncomfortable for you, they are still words worth saying. They are still an expression of the very person I am. And shouldn’t you get excited at the very thought of me wanting to express who I am? Aren’t you the ones who molded me? Shouldn’t you be happy that I’m growing and spreading outside your lines? Learning more about who it is that I am to myself and to the world? Shouldn’t you be jumping for joy every time you hear me sing my songs and not analyze and pick apart the words that make them? Shouldn’t you feel at ease for giving me roots like you did?
And shouldn’t you let me spread my branches?
Me and you are not „a we“. You say „this isn’t exactly our style“ but our style doesn’t exist. There’s mine and yours. There’s me and you. There’s loving each other for what isn’t the same in us as well as what is. You can’t fix me. I needn’t be fixed. I need to be loved. The only thing any of us essentially need is to be loved. Not for what we can agree on, but for what we can disagree on.
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