Comparison And Overthinking
Comparison and overthinking
Some persons always conflict with their mind- what to do,what to do and what will happen in future. Some always think- what is happening all is wrong.Some think about their past time what can not be undone anymore.Some over thinker will spend their time just by thinking what he/she did all day, what she told another persons and did he/she do any wrong? All time, we are regretting .(oh! Who are exception. Please skip!)You know thinking is the main key of our life.
The scientists made illusion one day,they thought impossible, now that is made possible. So, overthinking is mandatory. But! we are doing it everytime.where? Nothing is happening.
Let's crack it.
"Past",Present, Future-- three stages are there in our life.Past is past though its a perfect lesson for us.I am not saying Don't think over past.Of course, you will think.But Don't regret! Another complex word 'regret'. If you did any wrong to anyone,what will happen for this thinking? If he/ she can not forgive you,what will happen? Nothing! Forgive Yourself. Remind, when you are thinking that you were guilty..you achieved "Forgiveness" instantaneously. Never waste your time for that thinking.Rather,think that you won't do it again.And if you were not guilty though you were thought to be guilty, its full problem of other's thinking, not yours. Don't be tempered! Don't be frustrated! Dont be talkative! Just wait until the actual things to be published.Wait for right time!
If you have doubt in Your work that you don't know if it is wrong or it is right. Wait for result. Wait? Yeah,wait, Don't bother much about what is not happened. Or some persons spend their time only thinking what other people think about them! They only think "oh! What he/she thought about me!😞!"firstly, its your problem of personality. If you were confident what you did- what's the reason of bothering by otherself.Yes,you must have to take consents of other,you will not be correct every time. You should take other's consent, either you will accept them and modify your decision or you will discard them. Don't be in a negotiated state!It's very harmful for your mental health or Don't be overconfident and Don't be less confident. Remember, life is once.You will color it. Other persons don't possess any right to spoil your life.
Don't be jealous! You will say, jealously is a human nature.No, you can control your mind.You should control your mind not mind will control you. It's an easy matter that otherself is more than you in any prospect. But why you will compare yourself with him/her?" Learn from him/ her"Don't challenge.Don't do anything for being better than other best person
The only thing you can do that you can "learn".
If you see clearly that anyone less than you gain the power or advantage, simply give them to play with that right.Remember, who gain that power,he/she knows that he/she is not appropriate for that power or if he/she does not know it,within some days he/she can explore it.After that, he/she loses himself/herself.That success will be very temporary. You will say,you lose your opportunity. No,you don't lose it.Temporarily, it is not yours. But one day,you will achieve this.yes, time has gone,It's right.But Don't waste your time thinking over that otherwise you have to grab next one.
When are you depressed and frustrated? That time,when you wanted anything and could not achieve that. Don't bind yourself in a chain, free yourself to gain knowledge. It is hard but you have to do it.
A writing of mine. Though it's seeming somewhat childish now. These childish thoughts can give comfort to this complex mind :3 (1)
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Maybe you gave something to someone.
Maybe you told something to someone.
Maybe you spent sometime with someone.
Then you lost in your life. You went away and you forgot. But....
Maybe those words were like sparkling stars for those persons.
Maybe they could not forget you.
Maybe the spent time always twinkles in their mind and they remind you.
Maybe your given small gift is a big big thing for them.
Maybe you are the most important thing in their life.
So, never hurt any person with your words. Your small behaviour can cost nothing but it can give pleasure to someone. Your smiling face can be a reason for other’s mental calmness.
Sometime you will not imagine that how your simple works can give other person a wonderful and pleasing moment!!
Dilemmas:the silent killer of your mind
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It's gonna be subjective though I want to tell about this word in short. Dilemmas are the most dangerous pills which may be the reason for ruining mental heath. I have the exhausting experience of deciding among thoisands of options. But I had no specific knowledge for accessing the answers.
Still, I don't have. Notwithstanding this, I learnt to deal with the unknown decisions. Most of the time, I got stuck in the unending loop and I myself used to stop the door of getting out of this. When you dont know which interests you, which defines you, you tend to have more options to you.
This life is full of decisions. Every moment, you are prioritizing one over another. But that time, when you constrain yourself finding abstract answers which you sub-consciously tell yourself that you can not get it. Stop there. Shine.
Believe me it's hard. But I am telling myself,
Rasha, wake up, do something and choose!
Fav quote
"People's perceptions and feelings may change, but the underlying values, and the metrics by which those values are assessed, stay the same."
“Life is both sad and solemn. We are let into a wonderful world, we meet one another here, greet each other—and wander together for a brief moment. Then we lose each other and disappear as suddenly and unreasonably as we arrived.”
— Sophie’s World (Jostein Gaarder)
A note to hsc guys:
* Some are thinking that why they wasted time in these two years. They have potential but they did not work with that. Now they don't have time.
*Some are thinking they have worked hard though It's seeming that brain is blank. They have to read again.
* Some are wasting time now too knowing they have wasted these two years.
* Some are spending time in panicking.
*Some intellectuals are hardly preparing and working wisely with these time.
*Some are those who don't care.
And I thought
these two years, now thinking too what to do
Life is not a race
Mixed feelings are devouring myself. I don't want to deceive me. Truly, I am not stressed.
I know one day, the morning will not be like it.
Myself 1: I got all the maths of conics wrong when i was given to do. I am right now crying.
Myself 2: Remember the day when you did the maths.
Myself 1: Ummm....
Myself 2: Then how do u expect u will do correct maths? Did u memorise the maths? Or..
Myself 1: 😡 i diddd not memorise.
Myself 2: thenwhat? You wanted to solve the maths at Once?
Myself 1:ya.
Myself 2: Ok, then i think for problem solving you didn’t get sufficient time. Remember, HSC is not a place for problem solving. Ahhh, you have to memorise the maths repeatedly! Otherwise you can't get the maths correct.
Myself 1: i thought i could solve maths correctly. I believed myself. Now how will I cover all those things?!?
Myself 2. Wanna get 95+/100 in HSC.
Myself 1: ya.
Myself 2. Stop arguing, and memorise MATHS😠 Right now!
It may seem straightforward to see many things differently. But, together they are complicated.Even sometimes that's beyond your imagination.
I don't know why I can't focus on my goal. Why can't i become like others?
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A physics and philosophy enthusiast. Name: Sulagna Saha
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