Would You Refrain From Giving Her A 2nd Round Of Hard Blows With The Hairbrush?

You’re not a bad sub if:

Edging isn’t for you.

Denial isn’t for you.

Pain isn’t for you.

Anal isn’t for you.

Oral isn’t for you.

You’re also not a bad sub if you need to safeword, if your limits are different today, if you have chronic conditions or mental health struggles that limit you more than you’d like.

There’s so many posts that talk about the “ways to be a good sub” and honestly there is no one way and it’s okay to do what’s right for you. You’re not a bad sub at all.

You do know you can keep her sexually satisfied even if you're not in the mood, right? Dude, you don't even have to do anything at all. Just hold her as she makes herself cum. That's it. That's all you have to do. If you're not in the mood for sex, you still need to make her feel wanted and desired. If you don't touch her, she's going to start staring at herself in the mirror and wonder what's wrong with her

Hold her. Kiss her. That's it. That's literally it. She'll do the rest. It's so easy