🧸ྀི Se-mi Gf Headcanons

🧸ྀི se-mi gf headcanons

this has been rotting my brain so now it’s ur problem too <3 enjoyy (also i'm thinking of making a hyunju version next sooo i might make this a series tbh)

first off, i feel like she’s just a big softie:( once she finds the right person she feels comfortable with, she’s a small spoon who clings to her s/o like a teddy bear.

in this house we believe in tattooed se-mi supremacy!! she has them scattered, mostly blackwork and fine line, some with deep meaning, some just because she liked the design. your favorites are the snake curling around her forearm, and the tiny script near her ribs that you only got to read after one too many nights curled up in her sheets.

her love languages are acts of service and physical touch. even if she doesn't outright say “i love you” all the time, you’ll still feel it in the small, consistent ways she makes sure you're taken care of. whether it's by making sure your phone is charged, pulling you into her lap when you’re too tired to sit up straight, or tugging your jacket closer when the wind picks up. to her, love is in the details.

kissing her feels like a slow burn. she’s not rushed, and prefers to take her time to really savor you. one hand on your jaw, the other pressing protectively at the small of your back as her thumb strokes along your cheekbone.

her idea of a perfect date isn’t flashy bc again, she likes the little things. late night drives with the windows down, hands tangled up in your lap while she lets you pick the songs. or drinking convenience store soju on a rooftop, legs dangling off the edge while she leans in, the cool metal of her lip ring brushing your mouth before she kisses you.

if someone even thinks about making fun of you, this girl is on them in seconds. it doesn’t matter if it was a joke, she’s already hitting them with the most deadpan “that’s crazy. say it again,” while staring them down. if they do say it again? she’ll either roast them into another dimension or make them feel so awkward they physically can’t continue.

she doesn't forget a slight. you could be walking down the street and she’ll randomly go, “remember that one girl who cut in front of us in line last year?” and you’ll be like “…what?” she remembers and she holds grudges. if she sees someone who annoyed you even once, she’s giving them the dirtiest side-eye known to man.

she's a cat person through and through, and would definitely have some folder on her phone full of random cats she’s found.

getting one together happens almost by accident. you’d talked about it in passing but it wasn’t a plan. then one day, you two find this kitten near your apartment building—skinny, a little skittish, but purring loud as hell when se-mi picks it up, and there’s no real debate. “guess we have a cat now,” you say, and she just exhales like she’s accepting fate.

moving in together also happens the way most things do with se-mi: gradually, then suddenly. there’s no “will you move in with me” speech, simply her realizing she spends more time at your place than her own. her clothes are already in your closet and you sleep better when she's there with you, so might as well just make it official.

when she loves you, she lets you in. she tells you about her childhood, the things she’s afraid of, the moments in her life that shaped her into who she is. she lets you really see her, and she hopes you’ll stay.

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selcayuri

9 months ago

i’m in such disbelief right now and beyond disgusted.

i really hope y’all are choosing your morals over kpop; because we do not know these men at all. i will never side with or defend a predator and a criminal, even with little to no proof. even if there is the smallest chance he may be innocent, i will always believe the victim first.

some of you, as fans of the boys for years and him in general, i know you must be feeling disappointed and betrayed. you’re not dumb for previously supporting him, as we couldn’t have possibly known. but now is the time for a reality check and it’s time to wake up and take a step back. this just goes to show that we know absolutely nothing about them.

for sm to just outright put out a statement on their own before any rumors even surfaced and immediately kick him out? this has to be insanely serious and i’m terrified of what he could’ve done. the crazy thing is with everything currently happening in korea with the telegram situation, and korean women constantly being in danger in general because of the men there, i’m not at all surprised that celebrities are being exposed. sm has protected criminals before, and held onto lucas when his scandal came out as well as other artists who have been exposed for similar crimes. i can’t even imagine the severity of the current situation. we’ve seen what happened with the burning sun, and these men are not immune to being misogynistic, vile human beings.

members have already unfollowed him and deleted posts with him in them; his best friend of 17yrs has unfollowed him. the company taking the initiative and him getting kicked out of the group in less than a second before anything even came out, no denying the claims or even trying to defend him. that should be enough to tell you and understand how serious this actually is. i am beyond disgusted with him and this whole situation.

i sincerely hope the victim is doing okay and praying for them to heal and get the justice they deserve. and remember that your love for these celebrities should always be conditional, because we do not know them. it’s their job to put on a show and show you their public persona, but behind closed doors? we don’t know what they’re actually like. we put them on a pedestal and yet we don’t know what they’re really capable of. they are still men after all. i hope the police are taking this seriously. there needs to be consequences and these women need to be protected.

let this be a lesson to all of us. they don’t know us, and we don’t know them, not really, not at all.

ALWAYS choose morals over these strangers you idolize. and as women, we should be standing with the victims.

maybe not all men, but enough of them. and maybe not all men, but somehow always a man. and going forward, i will continue to support nct as a whole with the remaining members. however, keeping the situation in mind, i will be supporting from afar for a little while. if the situation escalates and other members are investigated and new information comes to light about the rest of them either knowing or possibly being involved, it would be best to step away for good. i will do my best to stay updated. but i do hope the rest of the members are doing okay, and hopefully no other members were involved; but this, just shows that they can always surprise us. you never think it’ll be your fave, until it is.

let’s hope this causes a domino effect and more of these people are exposed and charged for the crimes they’re committing.

sending love to anyone who has ever experienced sexual violence or has been targeted and been in a similar situation. it is not your fault and it never was!

love you all and my dms are always open if you need to vent. <3

❗️EDIT: also i wanna add that we need to not praise the rest of the members or any other celebrity for simply unfollowing him on social media. that is the least of anyone’s worries.

we don’t know if they were aware, we don’t know if they knew and were protecting him or turning a blind eye. it could be them trying to save themselves and clear their guilty conscience. maybe they didn’t know and are just as shocked as we are, we don’t know that either.

we blindly trust these people and believe they have good intentions but look at where that can lead to. fans being upset is valid, yes; but remember people with money and power will do whatever it takes to sweep things under the rug and make it go away in order to save face and keep their image and reputation.

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selcayuri

10 months ago

so cute so underrated

Habits Vernon has for his S/0

Definitely holds your hand, weather it's to not lose you in crowds or just because he wants your touch. 100 percent has your hand in his

HEAD PATS; hear me out, Vernon isn’t big on initiating physical touch but he will pat your head every now and then

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I think he’s more of an “acts of service” and “quality time” typa guy, 9pm, sitting together separately on the couch, both of you have your headphones on and you’re just on your phones

Acts of device would be like opening jars for you, giving you his jacket, opening ALL doors for you

He’d defo call you bro/dude, and some times baby, “bro what do you want for lunch?” “Dude when do you want to go to the amusement park?” “Baby-“ and you’d be like “you definitely want something then” when he’s really just trying to be sweet

This man can NOT fall asleep if someone’s touching him, so you sleep separately, in different rooms if you live together

At home dates with Vernon isn’t uncommon in fact, it’s his go to dates, yes he’ll take you out but just enjoying each others presence at home is more than enough for him.

May not initiate physical touch but definitely enjoys small intimate moments you start, such as small pecks, a hug, or anything

Before he leaves in the morning you HAVE to give him a hug

Concerned for your well being when you stay up all night, and refuse to eat, and he’ll try to help

If you vent to him he’ll offer the most comforting hugs and mumble sweet nothings into your ear! Also some praises

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selcayuri

2 years ago

LOVE U TOOOO ❤️❤️❤️❤️

tumblr became so boring for me rn i check it everyday and its 90% empty reblogs and likes (except for zanna and all the other people and actually do say something, sometimes)…. i don’t want to sound rude or anything but it’s just so demotivating :( feel free to pop in in my ask box, leave a hi or just add a little ramble to your reblog!!

(also i’ll post something soon i promise but as i mentioned before i’m struggling a lil rn!!)

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selcayuri

4 months ago

squid game is not squid game without gay people in each season

— doomed lesbians in season 1 (and toxic old men yaoi if you count sangwoo and gihun)

— toxic old men yaoi AND doomed lesbians in season 2

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selcayuri

9 months ago

i am actually disgusted by taeil… some are saying she is a 06 and that he had been harassing her since she was 12, blackmailed her, assaulted her, put a camera in her phone??? what the actual fuck. even if some of the things involving him are just rumours it doesn’t change from the fact he was CHARGED with sex crimes. absolutely disgusting.

Bleeding Love

summary: You’re on your period and Yuta doesn’t mind a little blood. (it gets a little bloody, but then gets really soft and fluffy toward the end)

words: 2,121

pairing: Yuta x Reader

“Here you go, babe.” Yuta passes a mug into your hands, and then waits for you to scoot forward so he can sit down on the couch behind you, and you lean back against his chest to drink your tea. The peppermint is meant to help your cramps which are being particularly horrible today, but luckily your boyfriend didn’t mind running out to the store to pick some up, and then he came home to make it for you and cuddle you.

“I love you,” You sigh, sipping at the tea.

Yuta’s fingers sneak around and he lays them over your belly, right over where you’re cramping. “Are you talking to the tea or to me?” He asks, his voice light and teasing.

“The tea, of course.” You lay your head back on his shoulder. “It’s going to help get rid of my cramps. You’re just here to give me comfort through my pain.”

Yuta scoffs, but kisses your head.

“About that, I was searching remedies for period cramps.” He traces shapes on your stomach. “A lot of websites suggest orgasms are good. And tea, but orgasms are more fun.” His fingertips sneak down to the hem of the long shirt you’re wearing. “Honestly, I wouldn’t mind helping you out with that.”

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